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In: Lion's Journal, Sex

Yesterday, I had my first waxing session with Mrs. Lion. This was the first time she used wax and the first time I was ever waxed. It was an amazing success! It took her a few minutes to zero in on technique, As you can see (NSFW image), she got all the hair. We’re both very happy with the results and the process for getting them. There was no blood and the pain was minimal. Now we’ll have to see how often we have to repeat the process. We’ll be more prepared next time. We’ve ordered a massage table and stool to make things easier on Mrs. Lion’s back.

For the time being, Mrs. Lion is leaving me wild. I’ve had considerable difficulty peeing. I’ve had the same issues in the past and I know how to live with them, but at this point I would prefer to be wild. It also gives us a chance to see if the cage affects how long I have to wait for an orgasm. As of Today, it’s been a week. Now that I am wild, I wonder if I’ll get more frequent orgasms.

I don’t think that more frequent ejaculations are a problem for me. Of course I like them. That’s not the point. The fact that my only opportunities to ejaculate are provided by Mrs. Lion is the only thing that’s relevant.  We both know that very well.

I’m not exactly sure why, but I’m having more nocturnal erections lately. At least, I’m aware of more. For all I know,I’ve been having them all along. With the cage on, they were still powerful. I could feel my penis straining against the cage. Saturday night, my first opportunity to sleep while wild, the erections felt amazing. I suspect they are an effect of the boner pills I’ve been taking. The effects of the drug are supposed to wear off about five hours after taking it. These very late night erections are at least ten hours after taking the pills.

Yesterday, while Mrs. Lion was waxing me, her very nonsexual touch got me hard. The erection lasted through most of her activities on my cock and balls; another nice surprise. This can also be one of those periods when I am hornier than usual. I do have my arousal cycles. Whatever it is, I like it and I hope it lasts. Meanwhile, Mrs. Lion will be conducting her experiments. So far, they’re fun.

 

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In: Mrs Lion Comments, Edging

As you know, I’ve agreed to unlock Lion and edge him at least every other day. Actual play comes and goes. This morning I’ve decided that if the every other day tactic worked for unlocking him, then it can work for play as well. Friday night I unlocked Lion and tied his balls up while I edged him. Last night I just edged him. That means tonight is a play night.

That’s not to say I can’t play with him every night, and there may be days that should be play nights that he doesn’t feel like playing. Nothing we do is set in stone. Life intrudes. We adjust. The important thing is to get back on track as soon as possible. We haven’t done well with that. I’m hoping this will help.

Lion showed me a waxing video so I could learn the technique. Obviously I won’t get it right the first time, but I have a better idea of how it should work. The guy in the video was very hairy. It was easy to see where the wax needed to be applied next. Lion isn’t half as hairy in his hairiest spots. Add to that the gray hairs and I’m certain I’ll miss things. I am confident, however, that I will get better as times goes on.

Last night, just before I unlocked him, Lion peed all over the place because he wasn’t centered in the cage correctly. Apparently shortening the cage did not cure all the ills of the cage. It’s been better. I don’t know what happened last night. He grumbled about being so tired of the cage. When I was done edging him, he asked if the cage could stay off last night. I allowed it.

This morning, I’m not sure if he’ll want the cage back on. I’m not sure if I want the cage back on. I think the cage is both necessary and not necessary. I believe Lion feels the same way. What to do? I have no idea. [Lion — I don’t either]

 

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In: Female led relationship with discipline, Lion's Journal

Our Saturday is pretty quiet this week. We slept in, watched some TV, and went grocery shopping. Mrs. Lion watched a YouTube video on male Brazilian waxing. She’ll probably use her new skill on me today (Sunday). I’ve been acquiring the necessary supplies. It takes a fair amount of stuff to do it right. Fortunately, all the years of my pubic hair removal leaves me with only a light dusting of fur down there. That will make the process less painful for me and easier for her.

The pollen and mold counts are low right now. That means I need a lot fewer antihistamine pills and I’m not scratching so much. The dog has done her share by having a bath on Friday. The stage is set for whatever Mrs. Lion has in mind for me. I’m writing this post late on Saturday afternoon. I suspect that we will play tonight. If not, tomorrow is very likely.

We went out to lunch on Friday. Mrs. Lion works half a day on Fridays and I worked from home. She had a burger and I had soup and a hot turkey sandwich. My soup came first. Later, at dinner she asked me if we had a blanket rule about me eating without permission if I am served a first course and she isn’t joining me. Neither of us could remember. I assumed that if I’m eating alone, I could just start.

Mrs. Lion didn’t disagree with that. But she admitted she got a little twinge when I began eating my soup. I asked fi she wanted me to ask before eating even when I am the only one served. She didn’t say she did. Regardless, if she has a reaction if I don’t ask, then I will. This isn’t only about obedience and punishment. It’s also about how she feels.

This little incident is good evidence that we are both internalizing our power exchange. Mrs. Lion is surprised at how visceral her response is to me eating before her or without asking permission. She’s also always aware if I spill food on my shirt. That was our first rule. For my part, I am very aware of both when I begin eating and I work hard to keep food off my shirt.

This may seem like small stuff. In the scope of life, it is. But it is significant progress for us. We started out with no rules and no notion of discipline and punishment. Now, it’s fair to say both are completely integrated into our marriage. That’s progress!

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In: CBT

It was late when I unlocked Lion last night. I glanced at the Box O’Fun as I retrieved the key and thought it was too late for play. The thought of diapers popped into my mind. I told Lion about it. Then I said soon after diapers popped into my head, panties were right there too. Now he had a decision to make: did he want to wear diapers today or panties? He said there was no real decision. He picked panties. Today, my Lion will be in frilly panties as we go about the day.

I decided maybe it wasn’t too late for fun after all. I grabbed a piece of rope and set about tying my balls. They were tight enough that he could feel it but not tight enough to make them very red. I told him I didn’t want him to get blue balls. Not, at least, the kind that happen when I tie him so tightly the blood has nowhere to go and his balls get so red they’re borderline purple. Nope. The blue balls I want him to have are from lack of orgasm.

I teased the poor boy as my balls bounced up and down. Then I set him free and continued edging him. I don’t think I got him quite as close as I did the other day, but it was plenty close enough. And then, on my way back to snuggle with him, I sucked him to torture him more. Once I even gave him an orgasm during this drive-by sucking. But not last night. He won’t suffer if I give him an orgasm that soon.

Perhaps tonight I’ll bring out the Box O’Fun. Perhaps I’ll just be psychic and “see” what Lion would have chosen. As I said, we don’t need the Box O’Fun to play. It’s just there for encouragement.