As Lion wrote, I spanked him as soon after his food-spilling incident as possible. I guess he didn’t realize, and I didn’t get a chance to read his post before this morning, but I used two paddles yesterday. The blue one pictured in his post and the wider rubber paddle. Since he was kneeling I got a better sense of where his sit spot actually is so I made use of that knowledge with the rubber paddle. And kneeling opens up his crack more so I didn’t really have to hold it open to swat it with the blue paddle. I didn’t have to, but I did at certain points.

Lion yelped a lot more than usual. I didn’t think I was hitting all that hard. I wasn’t putting much effort into it. Apparently one of the benefits of using rubbery paddles is that they spring back and less force is required to make a point. I’m sure at least part of the yelping was because his skin is tighter when he’s kneeling. On his tummy, everything tends to be relaxed and cushiony. With his hips bent, the cushion spreads out. No more padding.

After his spanking, Lion wrote his post and I went to get the camper ready for its journey to be repaired. In our old house, getting the camper out in February (or much before mid-May, even) was not an option. The ground was too soft and with all the rain we had this year, we’d be lucky to get it out before July. This house has a long driveway that ends in a concrete pad. The camper lives on the pad. The truck and camper are level with each other and hitching should be much easier. Assuming I line it up correctly, that is. Annoyingly, I was off by a few inches to the left and Lion had the camper a bit too high so it took far more attempts than it should have. The next hurdle to getting the camper out is our hedge and the neighbor’s fence. Luckily I was able to miss both. On the return trip, I’m sure the hedge will try to eat the camper again.

We dropped the camper about an hour north of us, which is not too far from a casino we practically lived every weekend for months. Naturally Lion wanted to go. It made more sense to do it since we were so close than to beg off and do it another time. I lost some money and I guess Lion made a little. It was fun seeing the new games and hearing all the slot machine sounds. We left the casino early, for us. Lion usually likes to stay till 11 and then we have an hour drive home.

Along the way, Lion said he was horny. He didn’t know why. I said maybe it was because he’d been spanked earlier. He likes to remember spankings after the pain has subsided and it turns him on. He said it was more likely that I’ve been playing with him so much. We did get home before 10 but we had to take showers to get the smoke smell off and then it was too late to play anyway. We’ll see how horny he is later.

He reminded me today is punishment day but said it doesn’t really matter because he’ll get spanked anyway. Since I didn’t read his post before this morning, I didn’t know he’d assumed I want to practice with this new spanking position. I guess we can. It’s not a big deal to me. It’s literally his butt on the line.

[Lion — The problem is the position. When I’m lying on my stomach with my feet dangling to the floor, I have to work very hard to get out of the way. When I’m on hands and knees, I can collapse back down onto the bed or even crawl a bit to get out of range. Of course, I should stay in position and accept my spanking. This will take time and training.]

lion spanked with small blue paddle
This small, blue paddle is remarkably heavy for its size. It fits nicely between my cheeks as well as scoring solidly on my perineum and other very sensitive spots.

We had some firsts yesterday. Mrs. Lion took the day off from work so that she could take me to the doctor for a post-surgical visit after my tooth extraction last week. I got a clean bill of health. After the visit, we decided to go have lunch. We hadn’t eaten out in quite a while. I had a hot turkey sandwich. Unfortunately, I managed to get some of it on my shirt. That is a spankable offense.

When we got home, I immediately got my pants and underpants off. Mrs. Lion brought out her nasty little blue paddle. She told me to kneel on the bed in the same position I am in for milking. She likes the way this exposes my entire sit spot as well as my perineum and crack. The spanking was incredibly painful. It was very hard for me to stay in position. I yelped right from the start. I had never had my perineum spanked before. Wow, did it hurt! I tried to hold still, but it was very difficult.

This is the first time I’ve been punished at the earliest possible moment after I committed an offense. It was probably less than a half-hour between the spill in the restaurant and my bare butt presented to Mrs. Lion. Aside from the fact it was a particularly painful spanking, there was no doubt in my mind why I was hurting. There really is something to be said about punishing at the earliest possible time. Mrs. Lion said she felt a bit rushed but she was glad that the punishment was more meaningful for me.

Swift and sure retribution appears to be much more effective for me. The new position for spanking clearly exposed new soft, vulnerable spots much less accessible when I am flat on the bed. It will probably take me some time to learn to stay still in this new position. I guess you can teach an old lion new tricks. I expect Mrs. Lion will schedule near-daily “practice” until I learn to stay in position.

Mrs. Lion is expanding her horizons as well. From my perspective this was a very different kind of spanking. As you can see in the picture at the top of this post, she did leave a couple of marks. Most of her attention was focused on places that have almost never felt the touch of a paddle. There is no question that Mrs. Lion has upped her game.

It’s probably the wrong word to use, but I really like that my punishment came directly on the heels of my offense. In my mind, the longer the lag between doing something wrong and paying for it, the more abstract it becomes. I also like that Mrs. Lion is selecting spots to spank that I would never suggest. She’s putting me in a position that is very hard for me to maintain and she is going after the places that hurt the most. Maybe lioness 4.0 isn’t far off after all.

Even though I had to fix more complex math problems again yesterday, I was in a vastly better mood when I got home. I’ve been more tired the past few days but that didn’t stop me from milking Lion. He says he likes milking because he feels like he’s doing something other than just lying on his back. He gets participation points.

He was surprised when I told him the other night that he humps a little while I’m milking him. He didn’t understand how because he can’t really use his hips. I couldn’t really explain it to him at the time, but last night I watched it more carefully. He actually does two motions. He rocks back and forth like I did when he entered me from behind. And he arches his back which does move his hips a little bit. It may not be as dramatic as when he’s on the bed moving up and down, but it’s there.

I was able to milk him for a little more than ten minutes last night. I glanced at the clock when we started because I was curious to see how long it lasted. Given the sounds he was making, I think it’s possible to edge him in this position. I’ll have to work on my stamina and maybe use some accouterments but we might get there.

lion's penis teased by magic wand
This never fails to get lion hot. He stands up straight for the Magic Wand.

Once Lion was on his back again, I used the Magic Wand. He said he thought I’d use it for milking but I want to see how things go naturally first. Now that it’s clear he’s enjoying himself, I’ll use the Magic Wand. The issue we’re having is that Lion doesn’t maintain his erection for long after we stop milking. The Magic Wand failed us but when I went to lick some precum off he reacted so strongly that I decided to continue on with my mouth. However, that didn’t last long either. We both enjoyed it but he never got near the edge.

Of course, Lion says he’s broken. It’s been a few days of not maintaining his erection. He’s sure he’s broken. He’ll never have another orgasm again. Does this sound familiar? He’s always convinced he’s broken. I’m not. I consider it a challenge to get him to the edge again. I will not rest until he’s had another orgasm! Okay. I’ll rest but you know what I mean. I’m not giving up and he shouldn’t either. He just needs to enjoy all the contortions and acrobatics I go through to get him excited. Just kneel there or lay there and enjoy yourself, Lion. Don’t focus on being broken. Focus on me trying to get you off.

Let’s face it, everything we are writing about relates back in one way or another to male masturbation. I’m defining the term “masturbation” narrowly. It applies to any activity that will bring a male to ejaculation without inserting it in an orifice. That means oral sex, anal sex, and of course vaginal sex are not forms of masturbation. The vast majority of my sexual experience is masturbation.

I guess I have to open the topic up a bit. Most of my sexual experience doesn’t result in ejaculation. I’m brought close to it, but not permitted to actually ejaculate. I don’t think that matters very much in terms of this post. I’m also assuming that masturbation includes any penis stimulation that isn’t actually inside of an orifice. That means that when Mrs. Lion plays with me, she’s masturbating me. Fair enough?

Enforced male chastity by definition is preventing masturbation. Chastity devices were invented in the late 19th century for that express purpose. In those days it was believed that masturbation led to insanity and idiocy. Our sex life, Mrs. Lion and I, is 100% about male masturbation and oral sex. My penis is the focus of all of our sexual activity. Mrs. Lion considers it her penis since she controls it. I just carry it around.

When I am allowed to ejaculate, about one-third of the time it happens in Mrs. Lion’s mouth. She really likes that. However, it takes a lot of energy and uncomfortable positioning to suck me so she usually defaults to using her hand.

Contrary to almost all other male sexual activity, mine would be best for her if I could get to orgasm as rapidly as possible. Any energy she expends getting me to the edge isn’t particularly pleasurable for her. I’ve researched training a male to ejaculate on command. It’s largely a myth. It takes as long as it takes for me to get to the top of my orgasmic curve.

Mrs. Lion uses some tricks to help get me more aroused. After all, no matter how talented she is with her hands, it’s still jerking me off. I can get bored with that. She’s discovered that various BDSM activities from spanking to cock and ball torture gets me more excited. The more excited I am, the more likely she can get me to the edge of orgasm.

Obviously, the long lead up to the point when I’m close to ejaculation is more work than fun for Mrs. Lion. She starts enjoying herself when I am close to the edge. Ideally, it would be very helpful if she had a way to save some work getting me to that point. Toward that end, I’ve acquired some male masturbators. These are devices designed to get a man off.

There are surprisingly few on the market if you don’t include the cheap vibrators. So far, the only reliable one Mrs. Lion can use on me is our Magic Wand vibrator. This is a powerful hand-held vibrator that’s been on the market for years. We have a rechargeable version that she moves on the bottom of my penis from head to about halfway down. It’s a very reliable way to get me off.

Venus 2000 in action.

There are masturbators that are worn over the penis designed to feel like oral or vaginal sex. The best that I’ve tried is the Venus 2000 by ABCO. This machine uses a vacuum pump and complex valves to create pulsating suction. It has a “receiver” that is a tube with a silicone liner that pulsates from the vacuum. I had one many years ago. It took me quite a while to figure out which settings worked best. Once I did it was really great. The big drawback is that the receiver is heavy and you have to hold it in place. The biggest problem is the price. It costs about $1000. You can control the length of each stroke. You can also make it go faster or slower. So far, it’s the only one that actually worked for me.

There are newer, less expensive devices. One is the Lelo F1. This device is a cylinder with a silicone sleeve inside and a powerful vibrator. The vibrator can be controlled to provide more or less power. What makes this device potentially interesting is that it contains a nice selection of sensors that report the state of both the machine and the penis inside it. There is a demo phone app that allows you to control the vibrator and observe the readings of the sensors. The manufacturer has just released a software development kit that will allow programmers to build applications that can use the feedback from the sensors to change the way the device behaves. Theoretically, this biofeedback should allow optimization of sensations.

The Lelo F1. Penis sleeve and powerful vibrator with sensors.

I tried it as it is now. The vibrations are powerful. The manufacturer claims they are so powerful that you will feel them throughout your penis and they will stimulate you to a wonderful orgasm. I didn’t get that result. If I inserted my soft penis, the device couldn’t get me hard. If I inserted my erect penis, it felt good but the sensations didn’t build to the point that I was even close to an orgasm. Perhaps if someone writes an app with the biofeedback from the sensors, the device would be smart enough to find the best sensations for me.

We only tried it once. That’s not really fair. I think Mrs. Lion will try again. I don’t have a lot of confidence that it will really do the trick. The reason for this is that the concept of vibrating my entire penis enough to get all of the right nerve endings seems unlikely. I’ll watch out to see if an app is developed and will see.

This is how the Autoblow ai works. The position, stroke length, and speed are computer-controlled.

The only other “real” masturbator is the Autoblow this is a tube with a silicone sleeve inside. The sleeve is connected to a motor drive that moves up and down the same way a partner’s mouth might move. The latest version the “ai” claims to have artificial intelligence incorporated in its design. The manufacturer hired a machine learning design company to analyze thousands of porn blow job videos to simulate how the end-to-end experience worked. Then, the manufacturer used a microprocessor and various sensors to simulate that motion with the Autoblow.

I purchased one (the price varies anywhere from $150-$250 depending on current sales). It has 10 different masturbation patterns. Mrs. Lion and I tried it and I sampled each of the patterns. Some felt better than others. During that first session, it couldn’t get me close. Unlike the other masturbators I’ve tried, this one may have the potential to do the job helping Mrs. Lion get me to the edge. We will try it again and see if we can’t figure it out. The big drawback with this device as well as the others is that they require lube. That means that when Mrs. Lion decides to take over, she will either have to deal with a lubed penis or get me cleaned off before she can do her thing. Cleaning me off takes time and is distracting. It could very well destroy the progress the automation gave her.

The Hot Octopus Jett has two powerful vibrators: a low-frequency and a high-frequency unit.

There are other vibrators that attach to the penis. Most of them sit under the head at the sensitive spot. I tried a few. It’s possible that one or two could have got me off. I didn’t feel that really nice buildup Mrs. Lion’s hand or mouth provides. Maybe I’m spoiled. More likely, we haven’t discovered the right combination of devices and settings that will do the job.

People who make sex toys are not generally very sophisticated. They also don’t have big research budgets. The problem is that while jerking off looks the same from the outside, getting it just right is a very individual problem to solve. I think that the hybrid of the F1 and the Autoblow offer the possibility of a really effective sex machine for men.

Pressure sensors to record how hard the penis is along with temperature sensors, etc. could provide the sort of biofeedback that would allow the Autoblow motion to be optimized from the beginning of a session to the climax. The biggest problem with products like the Venus 2000 is that their motion is constant. Mrs. Lion knows that she has to vary the speed and pressure to provide me with the most arousal. A device like the Autoblow that could sense my reaction to it and adjust, could offer a reasonable way to come close to real sex.

Even though it’s tiring and somewhat boring for her, Mrs. Lion’s hand and mouth represent the only reliable way to get me to the edge. Thank you, sweetie!