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Lion is a very horny boy. At this point I’m torn between giving him an orgasm and making him wait. I love giving him orgasms. I love edging him. What to do. What to do.

I’m wondering if it’s possible for him to wait long enough to lose some interest and then become horny again. In other words, at what point will he be less horny, and if he continues to wait, will he circle back to being as horny as he is now? Is there truly a cycle like that? I know eventually he’ll lose interest. Not entirely. But his interest will drop off dramatically.

I’m not sure I really want to find out. I’m not a fan of long waits. I have a feeling it would take at least another week from this point before he shows any signs of being less interested. It may take another week before he’s tree-humping horny again. It’s an interesting experiment but not one that I want to do. It seems like too much for both of us.

This morning Lion wrote, in part, about post orgasm torture. I’ve done it once or twice to him on purpose. I’ve also done it a few times by accident. I think it makes his orgasm less enjoyable. He says he’ll still enjoy the orgasm. Yes, the orgasm itself will still be enjoyable but the afterglow will be rudely interrupted. I’d rather have him enjoy the whole process. (I am aware that any cock and ball torture may not be pleasurable. I’m only dealing with the orgasm itself.)

I can throw some POT in there every once in a while. I will not do it each time. Of course, like everything else I am adamant about not doing, I’ll probably wind up doing it if Lion really wants me to do it. We’ll have to see how it goes.

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lion wait for aug-oct
Here are my wait times since August. Today is day 10 of my current wait. (Clilck image to enlarge.)

My perspective on wait times between ejaculations is changing. I used to believe that a week was a very long time to wait. Mrs. Lion generally got me off every six days or so; at least that’s the average for this year. More recently, beginning in September, my waits have been longer. The average is over 9 days. The last three have been 10 days or more. I know this isn’t a conscious plan. Mrs. Lion doesn’t generally work that way.

She’s been edging me with a lot more energy than in the past. She pushes me very hard to the very brink over and over. She also seems to be having fun doing it. Oddly, I am having fun too. I may be frustrated in the end, but I love the way she is controlling me.

She’s also offering more pain as well. Saturday, she put some Icy Hot on my balls; not a lot, just enough to burn. I like it when she does a “racing stripe” with it. This last time was a “blob” on the lower area. Sunday, she strapped me into the sling. It was the first time since my surgery in April. She started by pegging me with the 1-1/2 inch diameter Silk dildo. She took her time and gave me a large dose of uncomfortable in-out action. She alternated fast strokes with deep in-strokes, then nearly full withdrawal. That’s the hardest for me to take. She knows this and is training me to accept it as well as allow full withdrawal and reinsertion without complaint.

Following pegging, she put sandpaper-covered clothespins on my balls; a good number. She then masturbated me to the edge and removed one or two at a time. Edge, take off a clothespin, rinse and repeat. When they were all gone, she continued, pushing me further and further toward ejaculation. I never made it over the top.

In the end, I didn’t feel frustrated as much as worn out by those many trips up the mountain. I loved it! She knows exactly how to excite me and push me toward orgasm. She also knows when to stop. At one point we both thought I was going to have a ruined orgasm. She made no move to rescue it. I didn’t ejaculate. I like that she was willing to let it be ruined.

I’m in no rush to ejaculate. We’re both having too much fun, I think, to end it any time soon. At one point, Mrs. Lion wrote that two orgasms a month are plenty. She was joking at the time. But now it seems more reasonable to me. I am interested to learn how long my desire to wait continues. There may be a point when my arousal starts to taper off, or I might get too desperate for that elusive orgasm.

If either of those things happens, I don’t think that should be Mrs. Lion’s signal to let me ejaculate. That would be way too manipulative of me. Her decision may be influenced by my reactions to her edging, but shouldn’t be controlled by anything I do or don’t do.

If I’m right and she is having fun edging me, then it makes sense for a long wait before my next orgasm. I know her usual signal to let me come is when I buck or produce precum. I suggest that those things show her how well she is teasing me, not that it’s time for release.

Speaking of release, once she did post-orgasm torture (POT). She massaged the head of my penis just after I ejaculated. It’s very sensitive then. I squirmed and tried to get away. I would like her to do that again, maybe often. Why? Because it takes the total pleasure away from release. It’s an incentive to extend my waits between ejaculations.

In fact, not doing it after ejaculation could be a reward for supporting a specific wait. If, for example, I am happy with a 14 day wait, but don’t want to wait longer, then Mrs. Lion could promise to give me my next orgasm without POT if I encourage a wait of 21 days. It’s a way to help me want edging more than orgasm, if that’s possible. In the meantime, the masochist in me likes the idea of POT whenever I come.

How’s that for a change in attitude?

 

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Yesterday we had a lot of things to do. Lion was making stew. We had to winterize the camper. There was laundry. I’d mentioned sling time for Lion. And he had a furry nether region. In my mind, if we did manscaping we couldn’t do sling time. Until my brain jump started itself and I figured out that we could have sling time first and then he could numb himself for manscaping. Duh! Sometimes I’m amazed I can find my way home.

Aside from pegging him, I didn’t have much of a plan for Lion once I got his butt in the sling. Good thing our dungeon is so fully stocked. Actually, the clothespins were sitting right there from a previous time. As an added bonus, they had sandpaper on them. Evil.

It’s been a while since I’ve pegged Lion. In the past, when it’s been a while, Lion will say I don’t need to go slow. Okay. I did go slow initially and stopped for a bit once I was in to allow him to get used to the feeling. Then I started moving it in and out. I made sure there was enough lube. Sometimes once the dildo gets in there it goes deeper than the lube. I’d squirted quite a bit of lube in but you can never be sure. Lion said he was fine.

When I masturbate Lion I try to change things up. I may go fast for a bit and then slower and sometimes I just barely touch him while I’m stroking. I decided to do that yesterday with the dildo. He made a face when I was going faster. I checked on the lube situation again. Everything was good so I kept going. More faces. He wasn’t in any pain so on we went. I reason that men don’t always stop when women are uncomfortable. And besides, is Lion supposed to be comfortable? This is anal training. Feel the burn.

When I stopped pegging him I put the clothespins on. Nasty little suckers that left red marks when I took them off. I was masturbating Lion while I pegged him but his erection diminished over time. When the clothespins went on he was very hard again. He tells me he hates them. Mr. Weenie gives him away.

I ended up edging him quite a few times both with my hand and my mouth. I got some precum and I was tempted to give him an orgasm but I was able to control myself. It didn’t seem like the right time. I do love edging him in the sling. I love edging him period but even more in the sling. I think it’s because I have easier access to him. At least when it comes to oral. Perhaps we need more sling time. [Lion – What a nice thought!]

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beef stew
This isn’t my beef stew. Mine is actually prettier. But it gives you the idea.

It’s noon on Sunday. I was awakened by a wet, sloppy lick from our dog. It was 8 AM and she decided we had slept enough. Mrs. Lion made breakfast and we lazed in bed until nearly 10. Then I went into the kitchen to begin cooking beef stew. This is a four-hour cook with another 30-to-40 minutes prep. One batch makes three meals for the two of us. I think this is the first time I actually started cooking early enough for us to eat the stew for dinner the same night. Right now it is in the oven braising the meat. In an hour or two I will cut and add the veggies and let it cook another hour on top of the stove. Then,  I will let it sit until dinner time.

Next, we go out to our side yard and winterize our camper. If we finish that in reasonable time, Mrs. Lion promised to manscape me. It’s been about a month. I’m due for shaving and laser treatment. At this point, there isn’t much hair left. But a few areas stubbornly continue to grow. In a post earlier this week, Mrs. Lion mentioned a sling session as well. I’m not sure of the status of that plan. She’ll update you later.

I’m very horny. I like that. I think it’s probably too soon for an orgasm. That’s fine with me. Of course, I never know.

In her post yesterday, Mrs. Lion decided the chastity device isn’t required to restore the balance of power here. She’s probably right. We’ve moved past orgasm control. That’s now a given in our lives and I don’t think that will ever change. Again, fine with me.

The stew smells very nice. The butter-sauteed onions and garlic give the house a warm, cozy feeling.  I can’t help anticipating sexual activity later. Mrs. Lion’s expert edging nearly every night has increased my heat more and more every day. I like the way this feels. Like the stew, a nice morning erection accompanied by thoughts of Mrs. Lion stimulating my penis, gives me a feeling of warmth and security. An excellent combination!