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In: Mrs Lion Comments, Punishment, Spanking

My weenie got a little red while sporting the nylon cage. There were sore spots here and there but nothing to stop Lion from wearing it. Last night, however, Lion asked me if a spot looked red. It didn’t but it was sore. He also had a sort of a red stripe up my weenie. When I was done edging him it felt a little rough too. It didn’t make any sense to put a wounded weenie back in the Jail Bird so I left him wild.

About an hour after I decided to leave Lion wild, there was some rustling under the blankets. I told him to keep his hands off my weenie. I knew he wasn’t playing with himself but he was touching. He said he was just checking the sore spots. Had they changed in the past hour? No. Did I have to put the cage back on? No. I didn’t think so. But he’s been touching again today. Maybe I should put his collar on and handcuff his hands to his collar. That seems a bit severe but I might need to.

The other day we were talking about discipline and the fact that Lion hadn’t been spanked in a while. We did a maintenance spanking to remind him of what a punishment spanking might feel like. I also agreed to keep a better eye on him to make sure I was catching his infractions. Further, we decided that the spills I had been letting go because over time they vanished would no longer be free passes. A spill is a spill is a spill. It doesn’t matter if it’s water or spaghetti sauce or what.

With that in mind, Lion’s splashes of pho last night counted as spills even though they were non-existent before we left the restaurant. Anyone looking at him while he ate would think he was a slob and then wonder why I was out with a slob. I can’t have people wondering why I’m out with a slob. When we got home I punished him. It’s true it wasn’t a hard punishment. He just needs to be more careful when he eats. Next time it will be harder.

It may seem ironic that I can care about the sore spots on my weenie while whomping Lion’s butt. How can I be loving and mean at the same time? Lion’s not the only complex creature living in our house.

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In: Edging, Mrs Lion Comments, Spanking

Yesterday I decided Lion should have a maintenance spanking. It’s been such a long time since I’ve spanked him I thought we both needed a refresher course. It didn’t last all that long. I alternated between quick swats and slower, but slightly harder, swats. And I only went until his cheeks were rosy all over. He still complained a little bit.

When it came time to unlock him, I brought out the Box O’Fun. His first pick was for spanking. Nope. Already done. His second pick was for Velcro. If I could have found the Velcro on Sunday I would have used it then. Nope. Strike two. His third pick was figging. I wasn’t in the mood to look for ginger much less peel it. Nope. Three strikes. You’re out.

It certainly wasn’t a problem. Lion was still going to get attention. He still had the memory of his fading rosy cheeks. And he wasn’t going to argue with my hand playing with my weenie.

He was hard almost immediately although he wasn’t as horny as last week. That’s fine. I think last week was an anomaly. He’s rarely that horny. In some ways I’m glad. I could barely touch him without going too far. I need a little bit more wiggle room when I edge him.

I’m trying to abide by Lion’s desire to be locked up right away. He usually asks if I want him to put the ring on when we’re done. Last night I told him to put it on when he was soft enough. Last week he was hard again as soon as he put the ring on. Last night, not so much.

I think I may have cracked the code as far as putting the nylon cage on without pinching him. I have to put my fingers under the ring as I slide the cage on so there’s a buffer between my weenie and the cage. Live and learn. It’s what we do best.

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In: Female led relationship with discipline, Mrs Lion Comments, Spanking

Lion has a habit of finding ways to “enhance” our male chastity and female led relationship. Yesterday I wrote about getting back into playing. He suggested spanking. I agreed. Then he said punishment spanking should be included. He also suggested that he should be in his cage whenever I don’t want to play with him, even to the extent that he can’t take a shower without my supervision if he’s unlocked.

It’s true that I haven’t punished Lion in a while. He’s been injured or sick for a few weeks. He’s also been very well-behaved. Why would I punish him if there’s no reason to punish him? And I was talking about returning to play, not punishment. I’m not sure I knowingly preempted punishments for the past few weeks. I may not have actually punished him while he was feeling sick but I would have kept track of offenses or at the very least growled at him.

When I said supervising him while he’s wild seemed like a lot of work he brushed it off. Why would it be more work? I’ll just need to make sure I slap that cage back on him the second he’s soft. And I’ll have to follow him to the bathroom if he’s wild. And into the shower. Of course if I don’t leave him unlocked for a second longer than necessary I won’t need to follow him. On the other hand, if I never unlock him at all then my days are completely free. I suppose I could keep an ice cube next to the bed to encourage him to get softer quicker so I can get the cage back on as fast as humanly possible.

At this point I don’t have a problem with Lion having an erection without me. If anything, it tests his willpower not to go any further with it. I’m not suggesting he should play with himself. I’m taking about morning wood and other non-sanctioned erections. If he’s writing or reading a post and my weenie wants to voice his approval he should be able to – with no help from Lion.

As far as punishment spanking are concerned, he may find himself getting one if he continues to be “helpful”. I’ve been doing a lot of the chores around the house the past few weeks. This is not the kind of help I need.

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In: Lion's Journal, Spanking
This is a Black Walnut hairbrush-shaped paddle. Click image to purchase.

In times gone by, women had large, sturdy hairbrushes. These tools were perfect for grooming and frequently served double duty as educational aids. Generally with an oval head and a long handle, these brushes were perfect for spanking. They were made from oak or other hard woods.

Nowadays, women’s hairbrushes are made of light materials like plastic. They may do a good job on hair, but are worthless on a naughty bottom. A few lucky women have antique hairbrushes they use for husband education. Most women, alas are not so fortunate.

Years ago, I stumbled across a handmade hairbrush-shaped paddle on ebay. I bought it and Mrs. Lion has made some use of it over the years. She inherited my large collection of spanking implements, most of which are larger and more effective than the hairbrush shape I got way back when.

I happened to be browsing on the web and came across a lightweight, black-walnut hairbrush-shaped paddle by Walt. The shape is authentic. It’s fairly thin, not unlike the hairbrush bodies of yore. There’s no question that it will sting, but I doubt it will leave any lasting marks.

This could be good news for some spankers who want to leave a yowling naughty boy without bruising him. Others may find this tool too light to make the impression they want. The heavier the implement, the more “thud” I feel. Light ones sting and I find that sensation very annoying.

“Ah ha,” you say. Then Mrs. Lion should look for lightweight, stingy things to use on me. A stingy implement requires much more force to make a point. A full overhand swing is required to get a full-throated yelp from me. A heavier, meaner paddle requires a fraction of that energy to get the same reaction.

Mrs. Lion is at some disadvantage. My spanking implements are all heavy and pack solid swats. I don’t really have any quality spankers like the hairbrush paddle illustrated. I wonder if she would be happier with a lighter implement. I know I won’t be. Yes, yes, I know; that’s the point. Of course if she chooses to go the light hairbrush route, she will need to develop a new technique; one that requires considerably more force.

That’s the problem with inheriting a toy collection. The toys were selected by someone else who may have had a different idea about how to use them. Should Mrs. Lion work with a lighter paddle? What say you who use hairbrush discipline? Is this a nice Mothers Day gift for her?