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As promised, I pulled out the spanking bench and gave Lion a “just because” spanking last night. When I was cleaning earlier in the day, I found the large zebra wood paddle and made good use of it. I can whomp his whole butt with it, so that’s how we started out. Beyond that, I used a variety of paddles, including wood, leather, silicone, and rubber. His buns were very red and a little bloody. Of course, it’s sometimes difficult to see how much of the red is Lioness-made and how much is transferred blood, but I still saw red around the edges just before bed. This morning he said it hurt to sit. Job well done I think.

large sporkwood paddle on lion's ass

After dinner, I came around to his side of the bed to see if I could get his motor running. I didn’t have clothespins or rope so I figured my success would be limited. But I had to try. I then suggested he’d be more excited by oral stimulation. Of course, he said he would. And off we went. I know Lion doesn’t like it when I go for gold right off the bat, so I teased him a little with my tongue. He was purring at certain points. I don’t think I ever got him really hard, but I wasn’t giving up.

The thought crossed my mind as I was sucking that he always apologizes when he hits a roadblock. He even said I shouldn’t take no for an answer in those cases. However, the decision I came to last night was that it shouldn’t matter if he can’t get any further. I’ve had fun just trying. If anything, he should be apologizing to himself. He’s the one missing out on the bigger fun. I mean, I miss out if I was going for an orgasm and I didn’t get it. You could argue that he loses even more in that case. I still don’t think there’s anything to apologize for and there’s no problem if I stop when he can’t get anywhere. While it’s true that I can get him hard again sometimes, at other times I’m fighting a losing battle. How long am I supposed to keep sucking? If his mind isn’t in it anymore, we won’t succeed.

I believe it’s been fourteen days since Lion’s last orgasm. I haven’t lived up to my side of the bargain of giving him attention every night, or even every other night. He hasn’t lived up to his side either since he hasn’t been very hard when I have tried. Clearly, there’s still work to be done. It’s a good thing it’s fun work.

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I didn’t set up the coffee pot on Friday. By the time I thought about doing it, we were close to leaving for my medical appointment. I asked Mrs. Lion if I could hold off doing it. I have a 5 PM deadline. She agreed. When we got home (after 5), I asked to be excused from doing it. She agreed. It’s very rare for her to be so agreeable about a chore. I was grateful.

Chore or not, Mrs. Lion said (and wrote “Checking Out His Ass“) that she was going to spank me on Friday night. It had been twelve days since my last trip to the spanking bench. It had also been the same number of days since my last orgasm. I didn’t expect to get one of those. In the same post, Mrs. Lion promised to do a lot of teasing before giving me a chance to ejaculate.

The spanking didn’t materialize. Mrs. Lion’s arm was bothering her. I assume that I can expect a sore bottom as soon as it feels better. Edging might be part of the same package.

Mrs. Lion sometimes needs reminding to do things. I don’t remind her to spank me. I’m not sure she would welcome that sort of reminder. Sometimes, I remind her that my penis would love attention. I find that difficult to do. I know that she will do something if I ask, even if she doesn’t feel like it. That makes me feel guilty.

We have a magnet covered with the word “Ouch” that Mrs. Lion can use to remind herself to paddle me. I think she forgot to use it after announcing that she was going to spank me. I hope she remembers that she owes me one. It isn’t so much that I want to be spanked. I need consistency.

While I’m grateful that she gave me a pass on Friday, I’m also a little unhappy that she did. I like it when Mrs. Lion is consistent. I realize that I prefer that she punishes all infractions without worrying about being fair. I’m sure there will be times when fairness has to win out. Mrs. Lion is too willing to give me the benefit of the doubt. I don’t want that. Ultimately, we are both happier when she is less flexible.

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Lion had an MRI yesterday. Now we wait for the results. I hope they let him know the outcome on Monday, but I don’t know how realistic that is. He may have to make an appointment to go over them. I guess it depends on what they find. Waiting may be worse than the actual test.

I don’t know if Lion was in the mood for anything last night. I played with my weenie a bit. He didn’t get very hard, but that doesn’t mean he wasn’t enjoying himself. The angle is wrong for any lengthy play. My arm started to hurt so I didn’t try very long. For a while I’ve wondered if there’s a nerve in the arm that’s similar to the sciatic nerve in the leg. It turns out there is. If it flares up like a sciatic then it should be letting go soon. I’m not saying we can’t play until then. I’m just saying the mystery has been solved.

At some point today I’ll bring out the spanking bench. We have no appointments. I’m not working. I just have the regular old weekend things to do. There’s no reason I can’t whomp a Lion. If I do it early enough, I can even play with him. I don’t know if it will be as adventurous as anal play or tying him to the bed, but we can certainly do something. It’s been a while since his last orgasm. I have to edge him to prime the pump and maybe tomorrow he might get lucky. Of course, one could argue that he gets lucky every time I give him attention. It depends on what you consider getting lucky.

Now that his MRI is behind him, there’s no need to worry about metal accessories. I can lock him away again. The first step is remembering to do it. Spanking, edging, locking. Spanking, edging, locking. That will be my mantra for the day.

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In: Anal play, CBT, Spanking

It seems counterintuitive that on a male chastity blog, so much attention is paid to my rear end. Since we practice domestic discipline, my bottom is spanked fairly regularly. Mrs. Lion has also committed to regular anal play as well. This makes sense. Male chastity is about regulating my orgasms. Mrs. Lion limits them to when she thinks I should get release. Anal activity and spanking are unregulated and occur more frequently.

We spent years working out the best placement of my bottom for spanking. Over the knee never worked for Mrs. Lion. Other placements, like on the bed, didn’t afford her the easy access she needed. We finally discovered our spanking bench. It’s at just the right height, and my legs dangle down so that my entire rear is fully exposed for her attention.

Before moving to our current home, we had a sling that she put me in. The sling kept my bottom high in the air. My legs were spread so that she had excellent anal access. The height was adjusted to be perfect for her. Even though we had this setup, Mrs. Lion usually preferred the bed with me on my knees.

She feels that this arrangement isn’t ideal anymore. We have no place to hang the sling. I suggested that she could also use the spanking bench for anal activities. The only difference in my position would be with my legs apart, riding it. This might give her good access. The bench is lower than the sling. Fortunately, Mrs. Lion’s office is right next to where we use the spanking bench. She can roll her desk chair into the room and comfortably sit while she tortures me.

Maybe the spanking bench could do triple duty as a CBT handjob platform. If I lie on my back with my legs dangling off the end, Mrs. Lion could sit in her desk chair and deal with me in comfort. We have straps to hold me down. My hands and feet could easily be attached to the legs of the bench. Who knew it would turn out to be such an excellent multitasker.