We use Alexa to set timers for Lion’s eye drops. Sometimes she says she sets the timer, but then it never goes off. We also use Alexa to time spanking. Luckily she always goes off then. I think it may be an issue with subsequent timers. She rarely misses the first one. I decided to use Alexa for the edging timer. She cheats.

First of all, we played earlier in the day. It may only have been by an hour, but it was earlier. I started with a dildo. It was a big dildo, but I thought I would make him nervous after he questioned how I could continue playing with him if I don’t get turned on by it. I didn’t really think it would go in, at least not very far. When he suggested a smaller dildo, I found one and got that one in quite far. We haven’t done any anal activity in a long time, so I knew we wouldn’t get very far, but I wanted to try to get Lion more turned on. He also seemed excited by the timer idea.

I made sure Lion was well on the way to being hard before I set a five-minute timer. I wondered if Lion would think ten minutes of sucking would feel longer than ten minutes of spanking. We’ll never know. Alexa went off after five minutes. I continued to suck and set her for five more minutes. I was wondering if Lion would make it to the edge or not. He didn’t seem to be getting anywhere. Then, every so often, he made a little noise that seemed like he might. Of course, there was no reason I couldn’t set another timer if he didn’t get there in the allotted time.

It became clear that he was getting somewhere. His noises increased, and soon I had my cream filling. The odd thing was that he wasn’t all that hard when he came, and it didn’t seem to be a big one even though there was a lot of semen. There really doesn’t seem to be any correlation between how long he waits, how big an orgasm it is, and how much semen comes out. The timer hadn’t gone off, so I thought he’d gotten there before the five-minute mark. A few minutes later, I asked Lion if he had stopped the time after we were done. He hadn’t. There was no timer set. Alexa had cheated so he could have his orgasm.

I just know the two of them are working together. Be wary of artificial intelligence. Just sayin’.

I postponed Lion’s punishment last night. Neither of us was feeling all that well when it was time to drag out the spanking bench. I have a feeling we’ll both be too tired tonight, but we’ll see how it goes. Lion had trouble sleeping and finally turned off the TV at 3 AM. Coincidentally, that’s when the puppy woke up. I took her out, played with her for a while, and put her back in her crate so that I could get a little more sleep. She woke up again at 5:30. I wish I could nap all day like she does. I’m sure I’d feel better than I do right now.

If all goes well, we’ll play tonight. I still have to get Lion to the edge. Maybe it would work if I shoved the small nJoy butt plug in for a while. I can spank him, go for a shower and then do the butt plug. He’ll have a chance to recover from the spanking before he has to get used to the butt plug before I can play with him. I know it’s difficult for him to have an orgasm with the butt plug in, but it might turn him on enough to get to the edge. I’ve tried clothespins, and it had a good effect to start with, even if it didn’t last very long. I’ll have to go down the list of activities. I hope something will work.

Eventually, Lion will come out of his slump. In the meantime, we’ll have some fun. Not getting to the edge doesn’t mean he’s not having a good time. It still feels nice to be sucked. And he’s getting some much-needed BDSM attention.

My latest experiment involves my anxiety meds. With the help of my doctor, I will start weaning myself off of the drug that may be causing my libido issues. It’s worth a shot. If it doesn’t work, or if I get too crazed being off it. I suspect, if I go off it slowly, it will be okay. If I suddenly morph into Lioness 7.0, maybe I need to be back on the meds.

I realized after I wrote my post yesterday, that Lion and I had discussed using the glass butt plug again, only this time I’d start with the larger end. I wasn’t going to jump right to the larger butt plug. However, I decided to give him a night off since he’d just had an orgasm. I reasoned that he wouldn’t necessarily want anything up his ass if he wasn’t even mildly horny to begin with. Instead, we snuggled and watched TV.

As we were about halfway through Jeopardy, Lion said it’s been a while since we’ve played Spankardy. I might have to pencil him in for a night or two in the coming weeks. He doesn’t earn very many swats when we play. I’ll have to revamp the rules or maybe just make those few swats count. I could do a warm up and then start counting.

I have a sinus headache. I’m not sure what we’ll accomplish today. I know we have an errand to run either today or tomorrow. I’m hoping I’ll feel better later and we can do some more anal training.

I guess I shouldn’t be too surprised that Lion took the glass anal toy in so far last night. I got about four of the bumps in easily. Even as I was moving it in and out, he didn’t seem to have any discomfort. I asked if he felt it, and he said he felt something. I think the difference between the bumps and the non-bumps isn’t much. The other butt plug I got will be much different. First of all, it’s much bigger. Then there’s a big difference between the bumps and non-bumps. Big. And, as Lion pointed out last night, that isn’t even the big version of that toy. It’s actually the small version, and it looks pretty daunting.

Once I was done with his posterior, I went to work on the anterior. My weenie responded quickly. I was somewhat surprised given Lion’s issues lately. I sat up and started giving him a hand job. At one point, I thought he was starting to lose it and asked if he thought we were done. It’s a valid question, especially so close to an orgasm. He wasn’t done. And eventually, I asked if he wanted me to suck him. I don’t think I’ve ever heard him say yes so quickly. He practically jumped into position. I’m glad he was so horny.

Lion doesn’t normally stay completely hard throughout the entire show. Maybe he used to, but not anymore. I always wonder if he’s done. I don’t stop until he tells me he’s done or if I’m done. It’s funny that he wrote about not making any noise during sex. He’s almost silent. Occasionally he moans a little or inhales sharply, so I know I’m doing something right. He also changes the angle of his pelvis when he’s pretty close. I was fighting off a cramp in my leg, and I was about to stop, but then his position changed, and I knew we were on our way.

When he was having some trouble staying erect or even feeling horny, we started an experiment of having an orgasm every chance he could. We thought maybe it would prime the pump, so to speak. I wasn’t sure if he was expecting to come or not. When I say “expecting,” I mean did he think we were still experimenting. We never talked about stopping it. I know he never really expects an orgasm. He may anticipate it or hope for one, but there’s never any guarantee.

On the other hand, I can give him an orgasm whenever I damn well feel like it. Except for a day or two after an orgasm, of course. Even if I had decided we were no longer experimenting. I could have surprised him. I could have edged him a few times to build up the intensity. However, he seems to have a hair-trigger again. If I stop at the wrong point, I risk giving him a ruined orgasm. Who wants that? Not us. So I’ve been continuing. Last night I was rewarded with Lion cream filling. Yum!

After work, I have a doctor’s appointment to discuss weaning off the anxiety meds to improve my libido. Lion needs a haircut. He says he’s looking shaggy. I’d wait till he looks like Scooby-Doo, but he’d hate that, so I’ll give him a buzz cut when I get home. And tonight might be a bigger butt plug night. I wonder if he’ll be able to take it.