October 2019 (Page 13)

Yesterday, I suggested that Unlocktober could be a very interesting way to spend the month. I mentioned it to Mrs. Lion and she replied, “I don’t think you could do it for long.”

Maybe not. I think it would be a very interesting exercise of her power. I guess I’ll ask her directly rather than just simply mention it. It’s a challenge that I may very well fall down trying to get through.

I asked. Mrs.  Lion said, “We’ll give it a try.”

Anyway, since I decided that I am the inventor of Unlocktober I figured I would lay out the rules (which, of course, you don’t have to follow):

1. Unlocktober is open to anyone of either sex without regard to whether or not they practice enforced chastity.
2. Ideally, Unlocktober begins on October 1 of any year. However it can be started later. It requires 31 consecutive days of activities to complete. If you begin on October 5, for example, your Unlocktober would end on November 4.
3. You must be masturbated or, with permission, masturbate at least once every two days to orgasm. Ideally, you will have one orgasm every day.
4. Orgasms may only be produced by hand without any other sexual activities or foreplay.
5. Once begun, masturbation must continue until orgasm no matter how long it takes.

That’s it. Those are the five rules. You are only allowed one orgasm per day at most and one orgasm every other day at the least.

It may sound like fun. I think it will end up being an eye opener to many. It will push me very hard to get through the minimum of 15 orgasms at the rate of one every other day. If Mrs. Lion chooses to go for one a day, it could stop being fun in less than a week.

Since today is October 5, if we start now, this will go on until about November 5. We should point out that you can start out getting or giving one orgasm a day and if it proves too difficult, you can back off to one every other day.

I give Mrs. Lion credit for inventing this. When we first began enforced male chastity, she interpreted it to mean that she could make me come as often as she wanted. My idea was that she would prevent me from having orgasms until I was very horny and desperate. She started out jerking me off every day. After several days, I begged her to stop. Being an agreeable lioness, she decided to go along with my idea and frustrate me.

Unlocktober is a chance to return to those original days when orgasms were plentiful and permitted. This annual orgasm orgy will probably teach those who participate that you can have too much of a good thing. If we do it, I’m pretty sure my penis will be sore from the extensive rubbing it will receive. I’m also sure that I will be very glad to resume much longer waits.

Please let me know if you are playing and how it goes.

Locktober is a synthetic, month-long male chastity holiday. Some blogger decided it would be fun to set up October as the official month for being locked into a male chastity device. Apparently a bunch of guys take this seriously and get themselves into their chastity devices not to come out before November 1.

It’s an interesting idea. For one thing, it celebrates the power exchange wearing a chastity device represents. It also sets a target for abstinence. Very few guys, me included, experience waits between orgasms as long as 31 days. My longest was 28 days and that was helped along by the fact that I had had surgery and was in pain for much of that time. When I did recover enough to get horny, 18 days had gone by. So I only actively suffered for a very-long 10 days.

As of yesterday, I’ve been waiting 10 days. If Mrs. Lion decides to participate in Locktober, it will be 38 days before my next orgasm. I’ll also have to go back into my cage. I’m not asking her to do this. Although it would solve the problem of me draining her energy by wanting sexual activity.

I don’t believe there are any explicit rules for Locktober. Our agreement is that I get edged at least every other day until my orgasm. Our move has forced Mrs. Lion to break that agreement. She’s been exhausted and not up to getting me up very often. Wednesday night was the first all-out edging session in some time. She edged me unmercifully using all of the patented lioness techniques to drive me wild. She even ended the session by taking my penis in her mouth and edging me that way as well.

At the end of an edging session, she usually takes my penis in her mouth. Unlike her normal oral sex position, she is next to me, sitting up on the bed. At the end of the session, she moves down and takes my penis in her mouth from the side. For the record, it feels just as good that way as when she is between my legs sucking me.

Usually, she spends just a few seconds giving me this oral attention. On Wednesday night, she kept at it until I was trying to hump her mouth and I was clearly just about ready to ejaculate. She stopped moving but left me in her mouth. Then, after I cooled off a bit, did it again. Finally, with a gentle kiss the tip of my cock, she withdrew and told me that was it for the night. I wasn’t very happy about that. I wonder if the Locktober rules prohibit teasing?

If I believed that the chastity device makers were good marketers, I would suspect that they were behind Locktober. It could be the male chastity version of Valentine’s Day. Guys and their partners would be encouraged to purchase chastity devices to wear for the month-long celebration. Even though our house is filled with untouched boxes of  possessions, one of the first things to surface when Mrs. Lion began unpacking was the Ziploc bag containing my Cherry Keeper and Jail Bird. Wouldn’t you know it?

She has the ammunition. All she has to do is load my cock into it and I’m joining the festivities. Of course, Locktober could be the time that all of us chaste males could celebrate by being free of our hardware. Maybe that could be called Unlocktober. I could get behind that.

Unlocktober could be celebrated as a festival of male orgasms. Instead of enforced male chastity, it would celebrate enforced male orgasms. Guys who celebrate this holiday would be required to have an orgasm at least every other day.Devout followers would have one each day.

This could be even more difficult than no orgasm for 31 days. It would certainly challenge me. I’m happiest if the spacing between orgasms is two to four days. Unlocktober is every bit a celebration of female control as Locktober. 31 days of enforced orgasms may sound like a lot of fun. I think after a week or so it will have the same sort of flavor that being made to wait has.

One way to make this celebration obviously female-centric is to restrict the kind of orgasm the guy gets to something very simple like being jerked off. Maybe that should be a rule. For Unlocktober; the man is masturbated while lying on his back. There is no foreplay, just getting down to business jerking him off. If the keyholder permits him to do himself, he can be required to jerk off the same way.

Unlocktober is a no-frills sexual holiday. It’s not a celebration of male sexual fun. It’s a demonstration that being made to have orgasms is every bit as difficult as being made to wait. It may even be harder. It won’t take very long before it becomes tedious to be mechanically masturbated day after day.

I think that if Mrs. Lion decides to celebrate Unlocktober, I will be very glad to see November arrive. There is another benefit to this: It resets our sexual clocks. By the end of the month we will be in the habit of very frequent release. Returning to orgasm denial will be difficult, almost the same as when we first started.

Sound like fun, Mrs. Lion?

Traditionally, women enjoy handiwork. Some knit and others enjoy making clothing and pursuing various crafts. Mrs. Lion has handiwork she likes to perform.

The vast majority of my sexual experiences are provided by Mrs. Lion’s hands. She is an expert at masturbating me. Over the years, she’s tried different hand job techniques. She’s used different kinds of lube. after much experimentation, she prefers jerking me off with a dry hand. This, of course, requires a firm grip so that her fingers don’t slide over the head of my penis.

Six years ago, on the same evening I asked Mrs. Lion to lock my penis in a chastity device, she asked me to jerk off for her. The image (left) shows my technique for jerking off. Mrs. Lion took careful note of exactly where I put my fingers. She reasoned that if she held me in the same spots, I would get maximum pleasure.

Mrs. Lion’s technique (image, right) is a little different than mine. She gets more of her hand around my penis.

She’s had lots of practice. Over the last six years, she’s edged me an average of 25 times a week and has given me orgasms on average every seven days.That’s over 8,000 times to date. That’s a lot of jerking off.

About 20% of my orgasms are orally generated. Mrs. Lion knows that I love blow jobs. What man doesn’t? I know that she likes giving them to me. However, she hasn’t found a comfortable position to deliver them. Admittedly, we haven’t experimented. I will move up the bed until my head is up against the headboard. She will kneel between my legs. This doesn’t work too well because her shins generally sit on the hard footboard.

I suggested that we might try this with me sitting in a chair, or with me standing up and leaning against the wall. She hasn’t shown much interest in trying these new positions.

If you add it all up, in the last three years (that’s when I started keeping track)  I had 8,000 hand jobs and about 50 blow jobs. Of the 8000 hand jobs and 50 blow jobs, only 226 resulted in me ejaculating, that’s just 3% of the time.

What this means is that I get a lot of sex. I don’t get a lot of orgasms. That’s expected since we practice male chastity. Virtually all of my sex is external. None of it is by my own hand. I suppose that I am unusual in that respect. From what I’ve read, most of the men who practice male chastity, get many more opportunities for penetration even though it doesn’t result in them being able to ejaculate.

My experience over the last six years has changed how I think about sex. For one thing, I don’t expect to ejaculate when Mrs. Lion masturbates me. I don’t expect anything but her hands providing me with sexual stimulation. It’s very unusual and exciting when she decides give me oral sex. I never expect vaginal intercourse.

Sometimes when I think about it, I miss being inside her. I miss those reverse cowgirl sessions. By and large I am very satisfied with Mrs. Lion’s manual attention. She has great hands and knows how to use them to drive me wild.