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finger pointing and the word no
Lion says he wants more rules and punishments. I’ve just found a new rule that will improve our dining pleasure.

Lion keeps saying maybe he should be careful what he asks for. He wants more rules and more punishment. Whether he intends to or not, he gives me ideas all the time. He is not topping from the bottom. He’s just having a conversation.

It bothers me when Lion interrupts me. He does get swatted and zapped for that. But I’ve found something else that bothers me. My usually polite pet can be quite rude at times. For example, he’s very particular about what he wants on his hamburger. When he first orders he speaks slowly so the person can write it down or select it on the screen. If the person doesn’t get it on the first try, he speaks like he would speak to a child. Very slowly. Very deliberately. After multiple tries he gets frustrated and adds “moron” to the end of the request. I don’t think Lion ever worked in fast food, or any food service job. It’s a minimum wage job. Sometimes not even minimum wage if you are dependent on tips. For many of the fast food workers, at least around here, English is not their first language. They are only trying to get his order correct. And, I’ve worked in fast food and read books, you don’t piss off the person who is making your food. Who knows what they’ll do to it. (We used to nuke flies in the microwave when I worked at Burger King in high school. Just for the hell of it. Not in retaliation. But it gives you an idea of what goes on in the kitchen.)

He is also rude to customer service and retail people. He starts out fine and then gets frustrated. Again, I don’t think he ever worked in that capacity. Having worked in retail for a number of years, I can tell you that we try to be helpful, but the second you become condescending we see that you’re a moron and we give moron right back to you.

At any rate, his being rude to people in the service industries drives me crazy. Especially the food. I’m ordering at the same time, man. I don’t want hair in my food! So from now on Lion will be zapped or swatted when this occurs. Fair warning, my pet.

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I don’t know why it amazes me that Lion and I have such different reactions to the same thing. We are an almost perfect example of opposites attracting. And, by reading our posts, you can certainly see that. My second attempt at encouraging him during spanking is no exception.

As I’ve mentioned before, I don’t usually plan out a play session. I have no idea how long I’m going to spank Lion. Although I take out several things to spank him with, I don’t know if I’ll use them all, or in what order. So when he says he likes to be encouraged by my letting him know that he only has a little longer to go or how many swats are left, I find it difficult. It wasn’t as awkward as I thought it would be to actually encourage him. It didn’t sound stupid coming out of my mouth. But it was difficult planning ahead to tell him how he was doing.

I’m very glad he had a good time. I had no idea he was so into it. He did squirm a few times while he adjusted himself. I didn’t know it was because he was that hard. You could have fooled me that he doesn’t get hard from every spanking. I think his cock gives him away more often than he realizes.

I’ll have to keep working on the encouragement. Obviously he likes it. I’m sure I’ll get better at it. And I might even get more comfortable. It will just take some time.

[Encouragement doesn’t require saying “only x more swats”. Mrs. Lion did a great job of leaving things open-ended. She said, “Now you will get three hard swats to each cheek”. That helped me prepare without any promise of when she finishes. I think my lioness is much better at this than she thinks. – Lion]

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lottery
If I win the lottery, we will have the dungeon of Lion’s dreams.

I tell Lion there’s no way I would ever win the lottery. Aside from the incredible odds against it, I used up all my luck when I found him. However, that doesn’t keep me from spending all that money in my mind.

As many people would, first I’d pay off our bills. Not that there are many, but it would be great not having them hanging over our heads anymore. No more car loans. No credit card debt. And there are things we’ve been putting off buying because they are wants rather than needs. No more! I’ve got a lottery check burning a hole in my pocket!

Lion might be off buying the latest Ferrari, but I’d be searching for a house. We don’t need anything extravagant. Personally I’d like a kitchen that two people can fit at the same time without being in each other’s way. And for Lion I’d like a dungeon that rivals Christian Grey’s play room. We do have a dungeon now, but it’s not a dedicated room. There’s a treadmill and other exercise equipment. There are bookshelves. There’s a lot of extra stuff that just gets thrown in there because there’s no other place for it to go. There are the cabinets for the toys. And in the middle of the room is the sling. It doesn’t get as much use as Lion would like. His new dungeon would be just a dungeon. Decorated in whatever style he’d like. Stocked with anything and everything Lion wants. So many different crosses and benches and racks to restrain my sweet Lion. So many paddles. So many floggers. So many possibilities.

And, since we’ve won the lottery, we don’t need to work. We’d have a maid and a gardener and a cook and a butler. No more housework. No more yardwork. We’d have all sorts of time to play. Lion could be restrained more often. I can almost hear him purring at that idea. Of course he’d still be caged. He may be allowed out a bit more so I can play with him, but he certainly doesn’t need to be wild to be restrained. With all the new equipment I could get him in the best position for whatever I’m doing to him. Buns front and center for a good spanking. Ass front and center for butt plugs and dildos. Balls front and center for clothes pins or bondage.

I think I might just have to go buy a lottery ticket.

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In: Keyholder, Lion's Journal, Male Chastity, Male Control (training), Sex
lion carrying lioness tail
I’ll do anything Mrs. Lion wants if it pleases her. Now that she is starting to realize that, my assignments may get more interesting.

(Saturday, May 24 2014) If you’ve been following our lives, you know that Mrs. Lion is about to turn over a new leaf, so to speak. Her post on Saturday afternoon informed us all that she plans to have me use a dildo to please her. That’s really new for us. She worried that I would feel she prefers a rubber cock to mine. She actually might. It never gets soft and it’s bigger than mine. Am I about to be replaced by a piece of silicone? I don’t think so. I am counting on the fact that she really loves to ride me. I guess if I have a strap-on harness on, she can do that with a dildo too. Interesting. We have a fairly large collection of dildos which at one time or another ended up my ass. I wonder if she has selected one of them for her entertainment. I wonder if while she is in the wonderful world of rubber she will reciprocate and use one in me.

In the years we have been together I haven’t known Mrs. Lion to use any toys. I think we are seeing the start of some big changes. I know she is concerned about what I want or expect, but the fact is that I am happy with orgasms whenever she wants me to have them. I am also happy to please her with toys, my tongue, fingers, cock, or anything else she wants. I don’t feel deprived. What I have wanted from the start was for her to take sexual control of our relationship.

This began when I started wearing the shock collar. She gives me a jolt now and then for fun. Today for the first time she gave me one in the supermarket for dropping an ear of corn. I think that was her first behavioral correction. I hope there will be many more as her confidence grows. I think she is internalizing our chastity activities. They started as an effort on her part to please me. She certainly has! Now, I think she is planning to go to the next level and use my confinement and submission to provide pleasure for herself.

In prior posts she worries about being selfish. We have talked about this. It really isn’t a matter of selfish or unselfish; not with what we are doing now. What she may consider selfish is actually exactly what I want and need. I want her to take the pleasure she wants from me. That, in her terms, is unselfish. It pleases me no end. I absolutely want her to give me wonderful orgasms when she feels I should have them. I will never feel badly about coming. Well almost never. It was getting a bit difficult for me being masturbated daily. On one level I enjoyed it, but because it was something she just started and kept going till I ejaculated, I didn’t get the chance to get fully aroused. As I age, I need more foreplay. I’m happy she noticed how excited I got when I ate her. I love doing that!

We had another interesting discussion today. She wondered out loud about whether I need to be out of my cage when I please her orally or with a toy. She worried that it would hurt me to get so aroused inside my little chastity cage. Like most males in chastity devices, getting aroused isn’t painful at all. I just fill my cage to overflowing. It feels nice. I do get temporary dents in the head of my penis from the bars, but they don’t hurt and go away next chance it gets to stretch. Of course if she wants to have me turn over and ride me, then being uncaged will facilitate that nicely. In her post, Mrs. Lion mentioned that one risk of letting my penis please her was that I might have an unauthorized orgasm. That’s always a risk, but with training that risk is reduced. Also, since we have all that nice silicone and my tongue, there is no chance she won’t get lots of chances to come over and over. I love that!

One area that seems to be difficult for Mrs. Lion and for other new keyholders is the idea of correction and male training. One reason I love the shock collar is that it offers an easy and effective way to change my behavior. The challenge for Mrs. Lion is to figure out what she wants to change. It isn’t that I’m perfect. I’m far from it. It’s just difficult to come up with things you want to condition your man to do or not do. If, for example, you don’t like him touching himself (most of us do that a lot unconsciously), then a jolt every time he does it will quickly train that behavior out of him. It’s not easy to come up with things like that. Too bad. However, Mrs. Lion has been growing into all this very rapidly and thoughtfully. I’m delighted by that and I am happy to wait to see what her next revelation will be. Don’t quote me if I whine about it!