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In: Spanking, Rules

Yesterday should have been Thursday. At work, we changed our meeting day from Thursday to Wednesday. That made it feel like Thursday. Logically, today would have been Friday. No such luck. The change in meeting day messed with everyone at work. I even wrote my post yesterday as if it was Thursday. Lion fixed it up for me. So if you want to know what we’re doing tonight, just read yesterday’s post.

Lion reminded me it was Thursday (punishment day) in his email this morning. I repeated it back to him. I know what day it is today. Damn meeting change. And then he said if yesterday was Thursday, that meant I’d already spanked him and shoved something up his ass. Ha! Nice try.

I think tonight I’ll try the nJoy butt plug rather than the dildo. It’s wider, but it’s not as long. I think it was the length that bothered him last time. Size does matter. Even if I clean him out, I think it would be a good idea to start slower. It’s been a while since we’ve consistently played Anal Invaders. If I can keep it up so that every time we do a “just because” spanking, we do anal play, he should get used to it again. Of course, it doesn’t have to be a “just because” spanking. There’s no reason we can’t do it with punishment too.

Lion thinks I haven’t been paying attention to him breaking the rules lately. He’s right. I mean, I’d notice if the coffee pot wasn’t done. I’ve been too tired to notice more than that. I’m even falling asleep watching TV. I don’t usually do that. If I can manage to stay awake, I’ll pay more attention to him. I assume he’s interrupted me at some point (or more), and I know he’s annoyed me. It’s not like I’m not already spanking him. I can just make a list of infractions and tell him before I swat him.

Piece of cake.

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In: Spanking

Tomorrow is ass night again. When I get home, the first thing I will do is give Lion an enema. He may have an easier time taking the dildo if he’s cleaned out first. He questioned his ability to do ass play the other night. I think he was just full of shit. Sorry. I had to.

The thing is, he had an orgasm Monday night. Will he even want ass play tomorrow night? He won’t be horny. On the other hand, does it really matter if he’s horny or not? I’m sure he won’t want a “just because” spanking either but he’ll get one. Having something shoved up his ass shouldn’t be any different. It’s not up to him.

If all this attention makes him horny then I’ll just have to give my weenie some attention. I might give him some attention anyway. I don’t think Lion would mind if I play with my weenie while we snuggle. Even if nothing comes of it, it will still feel good. It might even take his mind off his sore buns. Of course, I don’t really want that. I’d rather have him feel every movement.

Since we’re really just now getting into two “just because” spankings per week, I think we need more data before we decide if two is too many. I know his butt can take it. Despite his yelping, he has a tough hide. He may be getting wimpier in his old age. Oh well. The more I whomp him, the more scar tissue will build up. It’s a win-win situation really.

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In: Anal play, Orgasm, Orgasm denial, Spanking

I whomped Lion’s butt for about five minutes last night. It seemed like enough. He was red all over and possibly had a few bruises forming. I wasn’t tired. He was only bleeding a tiny bit. But I was happy with the way his buns looked. I don’t think I cheated him. I don’t think he thinks I cheated him. He was probably very happy to be done.

After my shower, I wondered what to do with him. I still haven’t really unpacked the restraints. I showed them to him, and we acknowledged that the straps were way too long to use as is. We’ll have to work on them a bit. I thought of ginger, but I wasn’t sure we had any. Still, I decided to make it a butt night. I took a vibrating dildo that isn’t very big and went to work. The other day, he got some lube squirters, so I squirted some lube and followed that by the dildo slathered with more lube. I’d say you can never have too much lube, but you really can. Let’s say you need more than you think you do.

I was going slow, and Lion didn’t seem to be able to get it in all the way. That’s fine. I had sprung this on him. When we really get into anal play, he does an enema beforehand. I started moving it in and out since it wasn’t going in any further. When it got uncomfortable (at least when I knew it was uncomfortable), I stopped. You have to start slow with anal. You can’t just slam it in there.

When he was all cleaned up, he moved into blow job position. When I give him a hand job, I concentrate the pressure just under the head. Why not do the same thing with a blow job? I did a few deeper thrusts, but I mostly stayed with the tip. It must have worked because he was very happy. So happy, in fact, that I decided to let him go all the way. It was 16 days, and I thought he should have a happy ending.

Next time around, I’m going to try to get him super horny. If I can get him to the edge consistently, then I can get him super horny. I want him to be panting and sweating when I leave him hanging. That will require more BDSM to get him turned on. We’ll fix the straps, get some ginger, break out the IcyHot and be on our way.

By the way, I suggested having ass night every time I spank him. We’ll see what happens. If we start with an enema, it might just work.

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In: Hand Jobs, Oral Sex

In yesterday’s post, Lion had a survey he did about handjobs. We were both surprised that many women don’t want to give men handjobs. Weird. Although I don’t imagine too many mothers give the options of oral sex and handjobs as alternatives to intercourse, it would seem to be a reasonable thing to do. It would protect girls’ virgin status and eliminate unintended pregnancies. Yes, I am aware that most mothers are going for abstinence rather than workarounds. But think of the pressure alleviated by handjobs and oral sex. Pun intended.

As soon as I read Lion’s post, I told him it was good and added that I like giving him handjobs, whether for teasing or orgasm. He said he appreciates it. Further, I like giving him oral sex for teasing or orgasm. And, yes, I do swallow. Yum!

I wonder what the aversion to handjobs is. Are those women not turned on by a hard penis? If it’s true that the respondents are women who follow Lion on Twitter, I’m even more perplexed. It’s true that some women are only slightly involved in the day-to-day workings of male chastity with their mate. The man may be responsible for locking and unlocking. He may masturbate under her supervision. If he springs to life when he’s released from the cage, she could just mount him and ride to her heart’s content. There would be no need for her to touch it at all.

It occurs to me that I may be thinking about this as normal versus abnormal. In my mind, it’s normal to give a man a handjob and oral sex. However, who’s to say I’m normal. I’m very rarely accused of being normal. Some women find it perfectly normal to have sex with multiple men, whether at the same time or not. That’s not my normal to each his or her own.