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In: Nudity

Every time  I write a post about pubic hair, it gets a lot (for us) of comments. They come from men who also remove their hair down there. Women remain silent on the subject. Maybe guys think about their pubic hair more than women. I’m pretty sure that males are much more visual about genitals. Many aren’t particularly attracted to that part of a man. Male butts seem far more interesting to them.

I get this data from my reading on social media. I get that women feel naughty about showing their breasts and bottoms. They don’t feel inclined to show their vaginas. This limitation on their self-exposure may be the same as their disinterest in penises.

Even though my genitals are prominently featured in various posts, I have no illusion that those images are appealing to either sex. The only picture of me that seems to show my genitals in a good light is a full-length nude of me standing. My genitals are far from prominent. They are revealed as a natural feature of my landscape.

I am not particularly attracted to closeups of random pussies. Images like that don’t turn me on. I do like seeing Mrs. Lion’s vagina. She is very fond of seeing my erections. I think it’s because we are sexual partners. I’m not saying that female nudes don’t appeal to me. They do if I feel visual context. Maybe other men see things differently. Porn and closeups of vaginas never do it for me.

I admit that I am very interested in seeing a cute ass. Rear views are most welcome. One of my favorites is a woman with a cute butt in tight jeans. While I like it, anal sex has never been my favorite. However, I am very partial to reverse cowgirl. I get great sensations and a spectacular rear view.

I digress. My point is that women, at least publically, tend to agree that penis pictures are generally unwelcome. The exception is that closeups of aroused friends and lovers are generally welcome. I agree that it seems strange to imagine that a picture of your erection is a good way to introduce yourself to a stranger. I don’t think my cock is particularly special. I’m told I have a nice smile and a cute butt.

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In: Sex, Male Chastity

As I’ve written, Mrs. Lion lost interest in sex for herself some time ago. It’s been almost five years since I’ve had vaginal intercourse. I’m lucky that my lioness is willing to provide oral and manual release for me. I don’t masturbate, so I am dependent on her for release.

For the last nine years, we’ve been practicing male chastity. I was locked full-time in a male chastity device for the first several years. That’s what trained me not to masturbate. I lost interest in it, and now, even wild (no male chastity device), there is no danger that I will jerk off. Since she isn’t driven by her need for sex, my orgasms are arbitrarily spaced out by her and my slowing sexual clock.

Many of our readers are aroused when they think about orgasm control. I certainly was when we started male chastity. The idea is still exciting to me when I think about it. Most of the time, it doesn’t cross my mind. It’s just the natural course of things for me. That may be hard to understand if you are new to male chastity, but after all these years, it’s all I know.

I do think about fucking. I love how it feels to have two-person sex. I’m not fixated on it. Just as I’ve accepted orgasm control, I’ve learned to feel good about my limited sexual menu. Every so often, a sex toy company will contact me to test their stuff. I’ve tried a variety of male masturbators. So far, none get me very aroused, much less get me off. In case you’re wondering, I would never go all the way with one of those toys unless Mrs. Lion allowed it. That hasn’t been an issue.

There seems to be something new in the world of male masturbators. Many of them seem to include suction. They have vacuum pumps that cause the silicone sleeves to grab the penis. Suction was one feature of the old Venus 2000. That device is the only one so far that could reliably get me off. I’m not counting the Magic Wand vibrator since that requires an operator. Mrs. Lion sometimes uses it to make me come.

The addition of suction makes these new devices function as a penis pump. Penis pumps are sleeves that go over the penis. Then, a pump is used to remove some of the air in the sleeve. The resulting lower air pressure makes it easier for blood to flow to the penis. It can help produce an erection. It can also temporarily enlarge the penis. This vacuum effect is what interests me about these new devices. Perhaps I’ll review one.

Based on my mail over the years, there are a lot of guys whose wives lost interest in sex. Some even grew to dislike penises. That puts the male half of the couple into a bit of a bind. Some guys try male chastity as a game to get their wives to show some interest in sex. It’s a difficult situation. I’m very lucky because Mrs. Lion is happy to get me off.

I’m not sure what would happen if she refused any form of sex. I would be very unhappy. It’s good that she is so loving and hasn’t lost her taste for penis.

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In: Mrs Lion Comments

Lion has a doctor appointment this afternoon and then we’re running some errands. He mentioned going to the casino, but I’m wondering if it will be crowded since most people in Washington don’t have air conditioning and it’s already 77 degrees out. He also wants to find cherries and raspberries. We can’t do everything at once, of course, so we may have to decide what’s most important to him. I have a few chores to do, including mowing the lawn, which I hope to do early in the morning before the heat gets too bad. The rest of the weekend, we’ll probably be hiding out in the house with the air conditioners going.

Our farm is giving us a lot of lettuce. I just picked some last night for a salad and this morning it had grown right back up. Lion says that means we have to eat more salad. Yay. We have flowers on the tomato plants and the strawberries are trying to ripen. Lion is a very good gentleman farmer. What’s funny to me is that I mentioned having an indoor hydroponic garden many years ago. Lion laughed at me and said people would think we were growing pot.

In the relative cool of the house this weekend, we can take some time to play. I don’t know what sort of mood Lion has been in, but I’ve been sore. I know his hand hurts from his fall, but that shouldn’t stop him from enjoying some weenie attention. As a matter of fact, weenie attention should distract him from hand pain. We can certainly try it. Even if it doesn’t completely cancel out the pain, it should feel pretty good.

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In: Body Hair Removal

Many of us who wear male chastity devices eventually remove our pubic hair to avoid annoying pulling and difficulty getting the device on and off. Some simply like the look and feel or have partners who prefer smooth pubes. I decided to set up a Twitter survey to check up on manscaping. I read several articles claiming that most men either trim or completely remove pubic hair. My survey confirms those findings.

It’s startling to me that over eighty percent manscape. I would have guessed the total would have been closer to half. Of those who groom, half remove all of their pubic hair. I am among that number though I didn’t vote. A scant twenty percent stay wild and bushy.

These numbers reveal a big change in the way men think of themselves. Twenty years ago, a man who removed his pubic hair would be considered effeminate. He might be teased in the locker room. Guys who just trimmed would probably fly under the radar since they had some hair down there. My point is that most of us never gave much thought to how our pubes look. We might be proud of our cocks, but gave little thought to the surrounding territory.

I only had one lover who got upset when I stopped trimming. She disliked pubic hair and thought I was naturally under-furred. The net result was that she shaved me, and I’ve been that way ever since. I think it’s good that men are aware and considerate about maintaining their pubic hair. Women led the charge. It’s unusual to find a woman with a full bush. Now the guys have caught up.

Ironically, women’s magazines are claiming that the bush is back. Women are being encouraged to let their hair grow wild down there. That’s too bad. I never found a big bush very attractive. I can only hope that the ladies continue to groom. I know that I will.