We were both tired yesterday. I was falling asleep at work. It didn’t help that the internet kept quitting on us and when it was working, it was very slow. By the time I got home, I wasn’t falling asleep tired anymore, but I didn’t feel like doing much. I think Lion snoozed while I made dinner. We were both dragging.

I know I had Lion very close to the edge Sunday night. I should have kept it up with more edging last night. I’m just not sure he could have gotten there, given how tired he was. I’m not sure I could have gotten him there either. It was nice to have a day to recharge our batteries. We watched TV, and I played on my iPad.

Tonight, it’s back in the saddle again. I was actually thinking about riding Lion the other night. I wondered if it would get him to the edge any quicker. And then I decided, if it did get him there quicker, I wouldn’t be able to stop before he had an orgasm. Nope. It’s best not to ride him until I’m ready for him to have an orgasm. How turned on did that make him? [Lion — Need you ask?]

In his post this morning, Lion wondered how 4.0 would handle BDSM. We haven’t been doing much of it lately. I tied his balls about a week ago, and I jerked him off a bit, but then I think there must be more. What else am I supposed to do? Am I missing something? Obviously, I don’t have balls, so I can’t fathom why he wants them tied. I don’t understand bondage at all. If someone tied me up, I’d be spending so much time and energy trying to figure out how to get loose that I wouldn’t “enjoy” the moment. I know I don’t have to understand it. I just have to do it. But I get stuck on the is-there-more-to-this aspect.

Maybe 4.0 will step up and figure out how to get around that. I do have my moments. There have been many times that I’ve effectively tied Lion up and not worried about what’s next. He was tied tightly. His balls were shiny with the skin stretched. They bounced along as I jerked him off. He was having fun. I was having fun. Admittedly, it happens less often than it should. I know 4.0 can rectify that situation. She doesn’t have to be mean about it like she is with punishment. She needs to take charge and do evil things to Lion. I know he’d appreciate it.

This is my bottom after a pre-4.0 spanking. Her attention was limited to a smaller area. Click image to view larger.

As Mrs. Lion wrote in her post yesterday, she spanked me for not setting up the coffee pot and later teased me. My bottom wasn’t sore immediately after she spanked me. It was numb, I think. Lioness 4.0 does a very thorough job on my rear end. Later in the evening, it was uncomfortable to lie on my back. Sitting at my desk yesterday was painful too. Now that she has spread her attention upward from the crease where my thighs meet my bottom, the discomfort sitting is worse. When she focused on my upper thighs and lower butt, it was much less difficult to sit comfortably. I guess there is an advantage in covering a lot more rear real estate.

Obviously, this takes more time than the old method. 4.0 uses the DWC recommendation of ten minutes for the first offense. That gives her plenty of time to blister all of my butt. Besides, she generally goes well past the ten minutes. I’m writing this on Monday afternoon, and I can’t find a comfortable position to sit here at my desk. Poor me!

This is my bottom after 4.0 gets done. The coverage (and pain) is much wider. Multiple paddles and harder swats assure days of discomfort. Click image to view larger.

Speaking of poor me, Mrs. Lion edged the crap out of me on Sunday night. I was ready to come over and over. She pulled away just before I could. I was sure that she would finish me off. She usually does when she can get me that close. Nope, not this time. Clearly, 4.0 likes teasing more than her predecessor. There’s no good reason why she should get me off. Sunday was 14 days since my last ejaculation. That’s not so very long. Now that she can get me right to the edge, it makes sense for her to enjoy it for a while. I’m having fun, frustrating fun, but fun nonetheless. If her sexual evolution is similar to her disciplinary changes, I can look forward to many days of frustration.

I wonder if 4.0 has a different approach to BDSM. If so, it will mean more intense and more frequent playtime. Part of me is excited about the possibilities. The saner part of me shudders at the level of discomfort Mrs. Lion can happily deliver. Life here is certainly getting more interesting.

Lion got his butt blistered last night. I used three different paddles, and I was hitting fairly hard toward the end. I had a washcloth so I could mop the blood off of him, but the paddles still got sticky. I didn’t spank for very long after the ten-minute timer went off. I figured he’d gotten the message.

I didn’t spank him before we went out. I think it might have been fun to see him trying to deal with a sore butt in clothes. However, he might have bled through his underwear and jeans. And I just washed those jeans. Lion said he wasn’t trying to tempt fate, but why did 4.0 not want to spank him before we went out. I didn’t want to. There was no other reason than that.

When I was done with my shower, I went around to Lion’s side of the bed and attempted to get him hard. It wasn’t working very well, so I suggested he lay across the bed. It took a while for my mouth to work its magic, but eventually, we were in business.

I used to slobber all over him when I sucked him. Sexy, huh? Within the last year or so, my mouth has been dryer. It’s probably a combination of medication and not drinking enough water. Sometimes I have to stop sucking so I can wet my lips. I try to go as long as possible, so I don’t break stride. He was fairly close when I had to stop. I started right back up so he would lose as little momentum as possible.

Eventually, I knew he was close, and I stopped and started to mess with him. He wasn’t going to have an orgasm, but I still like to play with my food. He was panting when I finally stopped for good. I’m sure he was cursing me under his breath a little for not giving him an orgasm. Am I wrong to want him to be super horny? He doesn’t have to be super hard or get to the edge any faster. I want him to want an orgasm so badly he starts humping. Maybe then I’ll give him an orgasm.

Maybe.

We went to the casino last night. They offered us coupons for free dinner. Obviously, we weren’t going to pass that by. Mrs. Lion had crab and pasta. I had prime rib. We also had mozzarella sticks and popcorn shrimp. We were stuffed. Our slot machine time wasn’t as lucky. We both lost some money. I never expect to win. I look for slots with the most noise and color. We found one based on “Little Shop of Horrors.” It was very entertaining, if not profitable. We don’t spend money on other frivolous activities, so this wasn’t all that expensive for a fun evening.

We got home early. It was 9:30 and still a little light outside. We both smelled like smoke and casino air freshener. We took showers. By the time we finished and settled in, it was 10:30, too late to start being frisky. I streamed repeats of “Mom,” and Mrs. Lion fell asleep. I didn’t watch much longer before I felt my eyes closing. Thank you, melatonin!

I woke again at 1:30 AM. That sometimes happens, and I fall back to sleep. This time, it was hot in the room, and I threw off my covers. Still no sleep. It smelled like cigarette smoke. The casino stink must have infiltrated my sinuses. I was also stuffy and uncomfortable. After trying to get back to sleep for a while, I gave in and turned on the TV. Mrs. Lion almost always sleeps through my middle-of-the-night TV watching. I also took an allergy tablet. Three “Mom” reruns, I was sleepy again. I turned off the TV and slept until 10 AM. Mrs. Lion woke up soon after. [Mrs. Lion — I was awake at 6:30 to let the dog out and went back to sleep until 8:30. I snoozed on and off until 9:30. I was contemplating breakfast when Lion woke up.] We both needed the rest.

I’m writing this post on Sunday afternoon. I just read what Mrs. Lion wrote in her post. It’s true. I forgot to set up the coffee pot on Saturday. You think I would remember given the very painful consequence of forgetting. I didn’t. According to her post, she’s going to spank me before we go out to run errands. I’m not happy about that. It isn’t that I have to get dressed and go out. It’s that I am absolutely not in the mood to be spanked. Yeah, I know, nobody asked me if I wanted one.

It’s times like these that make me question my sanity. Yes, the idea of a spanking is hot. Right now, my nose is running again (time for another allergy pill), and my head feels full of cotton. The beating will probably clear my sinuses that still smell a little like the casino. I admit that I’m curious about how a lioness 4.0 spanking is different from one 3.0 delivered. I’m sure 4.0 is a lot more severe and less interested in how I feel about the beating. Oh well, this is out of my control anyway. I’ll let you know what happens. Right now, I’m going to go set up the coffee pot for tomorrow. My momma didn’t raise any stupid cubs.