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Last night was supposed to be my orgasm night. Both Lion and I forgot. Just before we fell asleep Lion remembered. He asked if I had wanted one. I said no. If I had been horny I probably would have remembered. He was offended. He said it was nice to know I didn’t want sex with him. I can’t seem to win.

This morning he asked why I didn’t remind him. I told him I didn’t remember either. Orgasms may be on his mind but they are not on mine. That’s the reason we set up the dates to begin with. It has nothing to do with not wanting sex with him. It has everything to do with not wanting sex at all. That’s not to say that I would turn down sex. If one of us had remembered I wouldn’t have told him no. We are trying to jump start my libido, after all.

Today is Lion’s play day. He’s promised me a raincheck for last night’s orgasm. Hopefully we’ll both remember tonight.

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In: Mrs Lion Comments, Punishment, Rewards, Sex

Lion and I made quite a pair this weekend. His back was hurting off and on. My head was foggy and trying to decide between migraine and head cold. But we still managed to have some fun. I told you I don’t normally let headaches wreck our plans. I got my pet in his sling for some pain and pleasure. And he gave me some wonderful orgasms too. Now I am back to feeling under the weather. Oh well. It was a good weekend.

I rediscovered the coupons Lion made me so I can reward him or punish him. Optimistically he made about twice as many Good Lion coupons as Naughty Lion coupons. I guess that’s fitting since I’d rather reward him anyway. And actually I have been rewarding him with bonus orgasms lately. He’s been a very lucky boy. I know he likes to be rewarded but I’m sure he’d like to be punished too. I need to be more aware of his transgressions. Now that I think about it, I do owe him some swats for spilling tea all over the table and floor. He made quite a mess. I shouldn’t let that go unpunished.

He has been making dinner more often than not for the past few weeks. He’s a much better cook than I am and most of the things he’s wanted for dinner are above my skill level. He also tends to get home from work a little earlier than I do. He’ll start cooking so that when I get home dinner is almost ready. I would reward him, but, as I said, he’s been getting a lot of orgasms lately. What do you give the man who already has frequent orgasms? I guess I could give him coupons for future orgasms. The well is sure to dry up at some point. If we happen upon a fourteen day wait he might need to cash in a coupon.

Tonight is a play night for Lion. I haven’t decided exactly what I’ll do to him, but I’m sure he’ll love it. Or he’ll love to hate it.

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In: Lion's Journal, Male Chastity, Sex

This blog is a running journal of our adventure in enforced male chastity. Since last February, every sexual event in our lives is chronicled here. In the beginning I was a bit embarrassed with the level of detail I reveal about what most people keep private. You can easily learn every sexual act I have experienced, not only in the text of this blog, but also in the Lion Tracker, which is a database of my (and Mrs. Lion’s) sex life.

All this detail has been useful to us. Mrs. Lion uses it to assure she is keeping her commitment to tease me regularly and to increase the number of times I am edged at various teasing sessions. We record and comment on her orgasms as well. We both read each other’s posts and use the information to make things better for one another.

Over this almost-year, the number of people visiting us has steadily increased. I would like to think that means our sharing is interesting and maybe helpful to our readers. Virtually everyone who reads the Journal has seen pictures of my genitals in and out of my Chastity device. How many of your friends have seen yours? Sadly, since a miniscule number of our readers comment or send us an email, I have no way to know how you react to such an explicit look at me. It might make me blush to find out, but it would be nice to know.

Enforced chastity has become firmly rooted in our lives; so has writing here. Mrs. Lion has always been a very private person, but she now shares every intimate detail of our sex life here. Some of the feedback we have received indicates that following along with our struggles and successes has been helpful in our readers’ lives. That feels really good.

Sometimes I wonder if I happen to meet a reader in a locker room, if I would be recognized by my genitals. Probably not. While every penis is different in subtle ways, we all look enough alike that my anonymity would be safe. One of my early fears was what would I do if someone I know figures out who I am? I realized that the answer is, nothing. Why was that person reading an enforced male chastity blog? Wouldn’t that make her as guilty as I?

All this comes back to the idea of over sharing. That term implies that I am providing you with more than you want. If I were, you wouldn’t be reading this now. And if you know me in real life, and you figured out who I am, go ahead and let me know. We can have a great conversation about how my life affects yours.

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In: Lion's Journal, Male Chastity, Sex

Despite Mrs. Lion’s wonderful plans for last night, we were unable to carry them out. She came home with a terrible headache and had a hard time just showering and getting into bed. Never fear. Tomorrow is another day. The sun will come out tomorrow along with any more cliches I can think of. No real problem. I’m sure Mrs. Lion will say more tomorrow. Besides, this gives me a chance to tell you about some other stuff.

For the last few months I’ve felt that the base ring on my cage is too large. It was never tight, but it keeps my balls in place and my penis out of trouble. However, I think it is time for an adjustment. Right now it is 1 3/4-inches in diameter (oval). When I was trying devices, I could wear a 1 5/8-inch ring but it felt snug and a little irritating. I’ve heard that the skin on the scrotum thins a little over time. I’m not sure I believe that. But there is no doubt that the ring is a bit too loose.

Many guys find that a smaller base ring is needed after a while. Of course, there are always those who try to get the very tightest they can in the beginning. They generally spend a lot of time putting lube around the ring to avoid chafing, and end up out of the cage in a short time. In my opinion, it is way better to have a larger ring and then at a later date, in my case a year later, get it made smaller.

My plan is to get my 1 3/4-inch ring sized down to 1 5/8-inches. That 1/8-inch reduction may sound small, but if you do the math (circumference = ? * diameter; or the change in diameter. So, if we make the ring 1/8-inch shorter in diameter, the circumference is reduced 3.1416 * .125 = .39 inches ) it makes the circumference close to a half inch shorter. At the same time I’ll order a 1 1/2-inch ring as well. Mature Metal will reduce or enlarge a ring for only $10. A new ring, I think, is $55. So, for $65 I can get a better fit.

In order to get a new ring, I will have to send the device back. We have a Chinese cage I wore in the beginning and while the Jail Bird was adjusted to shorten the cage. Mrs. Lion hates taking that cage off and putting it on. I suggested that I could be wild instead. She seemed agreeable to that idea. So, if she will agree to the resizing, she can decide if she wants me wild or in the old cage. She’ll have to let me know.

I hope she feels better soon. Headaches are just horrid. Feel better my sweet lioness.