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Yesterday I wrote that, because of a snafu regarding the schedule, Lion was due for three four-day waits in a row. I wasn’t sure if I would give him his orgasm last night. That’s not technically true. I was pretty sure I was going to give him one. He was too. And why not?

If I take it down to the basic form, all Lion cares about is that I’m in charge. As long as I do what I want and not (necessarily) what he wants, he’ll be happy. There are some nights he’s not so ready for an orgasm. Too bad. Is it a scheduled night? If so, then he’ll have that orgasm whether he wants to or not. Now there are some exceptions. Is he not into it because he’s tired or not feeling well or he got bad news? I won’t force him to have an orgasm. But if it’s just an average Tuesday night and he’s just not as horny as he could be but I still have enough to work with, he’s having the orgasm. There are some nights he’s very ready for an orgasm. Too bad. If it’s not a scheduled night, he’s out of luck. Unless, of course, I feel like it. He can always hope for a bonus night.

In four days, Lion will have yet another orgasm. Then he’s in for a longer wait. I think he only has two orgasms scheduled for November. The poor boy. Fairly long waits for a Lion used to having a ten day wait on average. I know, he’s a lightweight when compared to some males in chastity. Our little game is less about the wait and more about the teasing. I don’t think I ever looked at is as an exercise in making him wait. Pre-chastity he waited a few weeks at a time before he’d take matters into his own hands. It’s not the wait that bothers him so much. It’s the constant reminder that he can’t take matters into his own hands. It’s the constant reminder that I can torture him and lock him back up. It’s the constant desire that I will go just a tiny bit too far edging him and he’ll get to the promised land.

Four days, four weeks, four months. It doesn’t matter. And if it doesn’t matter, I’d rather stick to shorter waits. Not necessarily four days, but not four months. I think Lion agrees. And if he doesn’t? Too bad.

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In: Edging, Orgasm

Last night I realized that Lion’s next orgasm is scheduled for today. It wasn’t initially. He had his birthday orgasm and then another scheduled four days later. I questioned whether he would be horny enough for an orgasm that quickly. He needed a date for the website so I said October 16. This was all subject to change if he got his original orgasm as scheduled. I should never have doubted him. He got his orgasm after only a four day wait. But I never corrected the schedule.

As it stands right now, Lion will receive an orgasm tonight and then go back to the original schedule, which gives him another one on the 20th. That’s another four day wait. Hmmm…. That’s three four-day waits in a row. A Lion could get used to that. One of the things I tried to do was to make sure none of the waits are the same from one orgasm to the next. I know I give him bonus orgasms from time to time which throws the schedule off, but the actual schedule was varied.

On the one hand, I could forget about tonight’s orgasm and just make him wait until the 20th. On the other hand, I know his next wait is fairly long and giving him somewhat rapid fire orgasms could make that wait better – or worse. I was also teasing him last night that after January 1, he has no orgasms on the schedule. He may never come again. Poor Lion. That’s just because I haven’t sat down to create it. Or is it? We all know Lion will get more orgasms. I like giving them to him too much to stop giving them to him.

So what’s the answer? Well, Lion will definitely have an orgasm on the 20th. As for tonight, I’m keeping my options open. Let’s see how play goes tonight. If he’s desperate enough I may give him one. Or not. You see, sometimes I like the element of surprise. I like it when Lion has no idea if this buildup is the one that will take him all the way. I like it when I stop just short and he keeps bucking the air. I like the little noise he makes when I stop and he’s frustrated. I also like the noise he makes when he comes. So I’m not telling. I’ll figure it out later.

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In: Mrs Lion Comments, Orgasm

Yesterday I checked my schedule to see when Lion’s next orgasm will be. October 12. Wow. That’s a very short wait. I was going to change it, but then I decided if his birthday weekend festivities really create a frustrated Lion, then he can have his orgasm as scheduled. If not, I will reschedule things. He has a sixteen day wait coming up in November. That means only two orgasms that month. December has four scheduled. January has only one. Then, sadly, no more orgasms for Lion. Ever.

Not exactly. I just haven’t sat down to create the schedule beyond January 1. When I planned it all out, January was months and months away. Now, as usually happens toward the end of the year, time is moving at warp speed. I’ll have to work on it. In the meantime, the website says his next orgasm is in six days. Still not a long wait. It was not the subsequent scheduled date. I just decided if it’s not Monday, a six day wait is fine. At this point, it’s to be determined.

Last night was sort of weird. Lion had his osso buco with polenta and broccolini, and then we waited a little while to have his cake. He was very excited about the dinner and his favorite cake. It didn’t seem like he was really interested in playing. While we watched TV he said, if it was all the same to me, he’d like to wait until today for his orgasm. Not a problem. By 10 I was struggling to keep my eyes open. I guess, when I went to get the dog her ice cream Lion — special homemade frozen yogurt that is good for dogs], I must have gotten my second wind. At 11 Lion said he was horny. That’s late for him. What the heck. I was awake again. He was horny. Sure, we can play.

I decided I wouldn’t actually edge him first. I just got him excited and then I wanted to play some more with my mouth. Again, I didn’t edge him. When I knew he was ready (probably beyond ready, really), I did a long, steady build-up and then took him over the top. It was the perfect end to the perfect birthday. And now, this morning, he says he’s horny again. He might be ready for his orgasm Monday after all. It all depends on how frustrated I can get him this weekend. Challenge accepted.

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The training wheels are off. We have one week of Lion’s new job under our belts. It’s true that we haven’t ironed out all the details of when he’ll get home and who is doing dinner, but going forward we just need to do it. Lion is back in his cage. The semi-nightly (at least) play will resume. Back to business as usual.

Yesterday, Lion had his orgasm. I didn’t really think I was going to make him wait the extra day. When I saw how horny he was Friday night, there was little doubt he’d meet my horniness criteria Saturday. In fact, when he was putting the ring on Friday night he got himself all excited again and I had to wait a few minutes to put the cage on.

Since we were going to the movies last night, Lion wondered if we were playing before or after. Well, after would have put it past his new turning-into-a-pumpkin hour of 9 p.m. so it had to be before the movie. It took no time at all for him to get hard. So much for his worry about never being turned on again. (For the record, I don’t worry about my not being turned on ever again either although Lion does.) I edged him a few times by hand and then decided I could do a lot more “damage” with my mouth. I got him so close a few times, I thought I went too far. The only problem with using my mouth is that by the time I’m ready for his orgasm, he’s beyond ready and it only takes a few strokes before he’s done. It’s not really a problem. I just like to suck him longer. I guess I’m just greedy.

We’re now into Lion’s next wait. Thirteen days. It’s a fairly long wait for him. It’s not undoable. He’s done it before. He doesn’t like it, but it’s better than a fifteen day wait. Or twenty. See? You just have to put things into perspective. It’s not like I handed down a thirty day sentence to him. I don’t think he’s ever gone thirty days. I could have, but I don’t think either one of us wants to wait that long. That’s not what our chastity game is about. We just want reasonable waits with me determining those waits. And, of course, torturing him throughout the wait.

Tonight, he will be unlocked and edged. Will he be horny again tonight? I’m not sure. I haven’t gotten the Lion weather report yet. My guess is that he might not be very horny, but I can have some fun with him anyway. Even if I can’t edge him, he’ll get the attention he craves. And that will start our week off right.