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In: Mrs Lion Comments, Edging, Orgasm

I took a break from thinking about how to torture Lion while he’s still in his cage. I unlocked him for some fun. I put some clothespins in strategic locations. Not many. Just a few in spots I thought would be painful. I wasn’t going for a record.

I was wondering if I’d need to get the Magic Wand. Lion wasn’t particularly responsive. No. That’s not exactly true. Mr. Weenie was at attention but I wasn’t getting much further than that. For all his talk of being horny, I thought Lion would be halfway there just by being unlocked. It wasn’t a problem though. Eventually I had him right where I wanted him. He got his orgasm.

Before he was locked up, Lion’s wait was about four days. Once I locked him up, I decided he should probably wait longer. I don’t know why. It just seemed like a good idea. Toward the end of his wild time, he’d get an orgasm then wouldn’t be interested for a day or two. On the fourth day he’d be interested and I’d give him an orgasm. That didn’t really seem right. If he had a day or two of not being interested, then he didn’t have time to feel like he was waiting. I guess in the cage, it’s the opposite. So why change the wait time?

I think at first it had to do with his wanting to be caged again. I know he has his reasons but it just seemed like extra work to me. So, initially, it was because of the hassle of dealing with the cage. Now I think it’s part of the game. He wants the cage on because it feels like bondage, because it makes it feel like I’m more in charge, because he’s really dependent on me for any sexual touching, etc. I get it. At least as much as I ever will get it. So shouldn’t he have to wait longer? I think so. We’ll go back to the way it was when he was caged last time. I won’t tell him when he’ll have an orgasm. No schedule. I’ll unlock him at least every other day for play. And I’ll try to figure out how to torture him with the cage on, which may or may not be in direct conflict with unlocking him every other day.

In the meantime, my balls have developed a bright red area where the cage seems to be rubbing. We don’t know what the issue is, but Lion is currently wild while the area calms down. We’ll double check to see if there’s a rough spot in that area of the cage. We may have to forego cage-wearing until the Jail Bird gets back. We’ll keep you posted.

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In: Orgasm

I gave Lion another orgasm last night. It was oral this time and I love the way he tastes so I just kept going after I’d edged him a bunch of times. It was a five day wait. For most of the wait we hadn’t even played. It’s been that way a lot lately.

Since our version of chastity has little to do with wait, it shouldn’t be a problem if he has short waits. But what about play? If he isn’t horny or doesn’t want to play and I just give him an orgasm the next time we play, is that wrong? I mean, I know Lion and I have to decided what’s right and what’s wrong, but should I be doing more playing and fewer orgasms? Does it matter?

Does it make the orgasm that much sweeter when he finally gets it if I torture him first? I know he needs a certain amount of play or buildup before an orgasm. I can’t just go right for the gold. Everyone needs foreplay in some form or another. I’m only talking about the time between orgasms.

Am I technically frustrating him more by not frustrating him? If I only play with him when I give him an orgasm, will he get mad that I don’t play with him more? I know I’m making more of this than I need to. I’m not always going to give Lion and orgasm every time we play. I just wonder what the short term effects are since I’ve been doing it a lot lately.

I’m not worried about having an unhappy Lion. I know he’ll send up a flare if/when he’s feeling like he needs play more than an orgasm. What guy would want fewer orgasms? Lion sure did during the time period he had one a day several years ago. We’re not going back there again. I guess the key is balancing out the amount of play with the amount of orgasms.

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In: Edging, Mrs Lion Comments, Orgasm, Ruined orgasm

As I was cleaning the last part of the house Lion announced that our company had landed at the airport. It will take them some time to deplane, gather their bags, pick up the rental car and drive here, but we made it. The house is clean. The Lions are excited. And now we wait.

I have just enough time to tell you about last night’s activities. I didn’t think there would be any. We were both tired and we were watching reruns of TV shows. We gave the dog her ice cream and Lion mentioned we hadn’t even snuggled yet. He said, “You never know what might pop up.”

Oh, I know.

True to his word, something popped up. As I was edging him I was toying with the idea of giving him a ruined orgasm. I was getting him closer and closer to the edge each time and he was almost sweating. Then I decided to stop. Lion was panting. I often give him a quick suck when I’m done edging him. He started bucking into my mouth and even put his hand on my back as “encouragement”. I didn’t like it when I pulled away. He wanted more. So I gave it to him.

It took longer than I expected but eventually I got the yummy crème filling. Now Lion was really panting. Just what he wanted! Me too. I love crème filling.

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In: Edging, Orgasm, Spanking

Well, it worked. Just as Lion said in his post this morning, if I whomp him he will come. Actually he said he’d get excited. I decided he should come.

I tried the new technique. No idea if it was actually any different from the old technique. I was already swatting harder at a certain point. The only difference I can see is that at that certain point I announced the punishment would begin. Of course, it wasn’t actually punishment. It was a maintenance spanking for practice.

Lion moved around a bit toward the end. I asked if he wanted me to start again. He did not. It just hurt and he needed me to stop. If this was a true punishment spanking I wouldn’t have stopped so quickly. I still swatted quite a few times before we were done but punishment would have gone on longer, if for no other reason than he needed me to stop.

Lo and behold, Mr. Weenie was on his way to full attention when Lion rolled over. I guess the butt bone is connected to the boner bone. I had some fun edging him. I was trying to remember if a ruined orgasm still allows for play the next day when I got greedy. I started edging him too quickly. Rather than give him the dreaded ruined orgasm, I salvaged it. He produced quite a bit of cum for me. We’re never sure how much I’ll get. The more the better.

Afterward I told Lion that if he insists on rolling over to get away from my swats, he opens up my weenie and balls for swats. Are they fair game? I don’t think he wants that. He just needs to learn to stay still and take his spanking. We’ll have to keep practicing.