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I was so distracted yesterday I misrepresented Lion’s thoughts on maintenance spanking. I should have reread his post before I offered my tarnished two cents.

Today, however, I’m more on the ball. The hurricane is weakening and it has changed its course a little. The winds may not be as strong but my family will probably still get a lot of rain. Overall, a better scenario than they were looking at yesterday.

I decided to use the Magic Wand on Lion last night. It’s only been a few days since his last orgasm and I figured he could use the boost. He got hard fairly quickly and eventually made it to the edge. Had he made it to the edge again I was considering another orgasm. Alas, the Magic Wand was too much for him and we stopped. I’m not at all disappointed. We’ll keep trying till we get it right.

While I was edging him the second time, I was trying to decide if I like frustrating him or giving him an orgasm more. Each has its merits. Keeping him frustrated does not mean he’ll bow at my feet or give me back rubs. He doesn’t turn into my slave when he’s horny. Getting an orgasm doesn’t mean he ignores me until he’s horny again.

I think the best part of keeping him frustrated is that he’s usually so quick to attention when we play. Sometimes it seems like a gentle breeze will do it. Giving him an orgasm generates my favorite snack. And Lion makes such great noises when he has an orgasm.

There’s not really a down side to edging him. He will make silly little comments about being horny. For example, if he drops something on the floor, he might say he wouldn’t have done that if he wasn’t so horny. Similarly, the only downside to giving him an orgasm is that he might not be ready for action for a few days. Neither are major things.

I guess it all depends on my mood. Do I find it amusing at the time that he’s so horny and wants to come so badly that I just let him suffer? Do I see how hard he’s working to hump my hand for that orgasm that I let him achieve his goal? Yes, to both. And no, to both. One night I might think it’s funny he’s working so hard, knowing that I won’t let him finish. Another night I might see that beautiful penis that’s waited so long for an orgasm, even if it’s only been a few days, that he’s so hard and the tip is so full, that I let him come.

At one point in our journey, I’d ask him if he wanted to come. Of course he’d say yes. I’m not sure what I’d have done if he said no. But then Lion got to the point that he wanted me to decide. He’d tell me it was up to me even if he was desperate. So I stopped asking. Now I just stop and tell him it doesn’t look like his night. Unless, of course, I start in again and let him come.

You just never can tell what I’m going to do when it comes to orgasms.

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Now 167 is the number of orgasms Lion has had. He’d already written his post when I decided he was sufficiently horny to warrant an orgasm. Actually I was thinking of making him wait seven days, but, oh well. You know how it goes.

I thought about getting the Box O’Fun but I was too lazy. Instead, I swatted his balls. I tease him that he has wimpy balls because he winces at seemingly little swats. I know it’s a sensitive area, but I think he used to be able to take more force. At first I thought he was just out of practice but no matter how often I do it, he winces.

It didn’t really matter anyway. Lion was horny enough without any other play. I wasn’t sure, but then as I edged him more and more, he got very hard. I stopped when he looked like he was straining to come. And then I started right back in. No rest for the wicked. And finally I gave in.

He didn’t produce much semen. Lion usually worries about that. I don’t see that as an issue. Sometimes he produces more. Ebb and flow. I’m pretty sure it’s natural.

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Lion’s choice from the Box O’Fun was spanking. I know he was dreading making a painful pick, but he was lucky. Not all of the selections are as wanted as that one. Next time will probably involve more pain.

The last time I gave Lion a play spanking, I started out kneeling and then moved to a seated position. I leaned on him while I swatted. Lat night I started out sitting. We both liked that I leaned on him. It may not be the best position for a “good” spanking but I like how close we are. Besides, I had a slapper that didn’t require long strokes. I even parted his cheeks so I could slap between them. It’s a very sensitive area.

I usually swat all over his buns and I did that last night as well. But I also concentrated quite a few swats on the sweet spot where he sits. Not that he really sits while we watch TV in bed. I just wanted to do it. I called it his “sit spot”. By concentrating the swats I knew the soreness would last a little longer. It wasn’t a very vigorous session. I just got him rosy. But Mr. Weenie was at attention when he rolled over.

He was nice and hard. Maybe not as hard as he’s ever been but certainly hard enough to tease. And tease I did. I know it was only a few days since his last orgasm but I don’t care. I like to give him orgasms. I don’t think it has anything to do with his being wild or not. There are times he’s very horny and almost begging to come that I don’t give in. Other times he’s not necessarily all that horny and I’ll let him come. There’s really no rhyme or reason. Something just makes me want to give him an orgasm more than other times.

Lion, wisely, doesn’t argue with my decision. Sure, he used to ask why I gave in so soon. He’s stopped asking. Smart boy!

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I know Lion doesn’t think about sex all the time. Just most of the time. I imagine, from his posts, the conversations in his head must go something like this: Maybe tonight we’ll play. Maybe tonight I’ll finally get that orgasm. Maybe tonight.

Obviously he thinks about sex more than I do. Of course, I rarely think about sex for myself. But I do think about sex for Lion. And playing with him. That’s why I had my brilliant idea of tying edging to his behavior. Lion seems to be opposed to this idea. Oh well. It wasn’t a done deal. I just offered it up as a suggestion.

I don’t know if it’s just me or if Lion hasn’t been exactly trying to be a good boy, but I haven’t seen any reason to reward him with an orgasm. It’s not that he’s been bad. He just hasn’t done anything like putting food in the camper or washing sheets. Nothing above being a normally well-behaved Lion. But he’s still on the hunt for sex. For play.

He often points out that we don’t play while we’re away. In general, the reason for this is that we’re of exploring during the day. We don’t sleep well. We’re tired. Lion often snoozes in the evening so he has energy later. I don’t normally snooze in the evening. But I’ve been trying to make sure Lion gets attention.

So, if he hasn’t done anything particularly good, why would I give him an orgasm? Especially when it’s only been a few days since the last one. It’s the same reason it always is. Because I can. If I have to wait for him to do something over-the-top good, he may be waiting for a while. Again, it’s not that he’s been bad. He just hasn’t been overly good.

I think this is the reason I’m not sold on the reward orgasms. What does Lion have to do to earn one? Sure, he might have earned one for getting the camper ready, but how often does that happen? This is our last trip of the season. Will he have to wait till next July for his next orgasm? Of course not.

Just to be clear, I’m not opposed to giving Lion a reward orgasm when he does do something wonderful. However, I think he’ll be better off if we continue the way we’ve been doing it. And I can give him a random orgasm even if it has only been two days since the last one.