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In: Communication, Orgasm denial
I’ll have to cancel this billboard.

Lion said he was horny yesterday. When we finally got to snuggling I couldn’t get him excited. He asked if we could try again later. I’ve taken this to be code for “not tonight dear”. Sometimes he feels he’s let me down when he’s not in the mood. It never bothers me. I think I’ve let him down.

We got some dessert, watched TV and Lion asked if I wanted to snuggle. I didn’t try to arouse him again. I figured if he wasn’t in the mood I didn’t want to make him feel like he had to be in the mood. Eventually I moved and Lion said something about getting my bag of tricks. OK. So maybe he was in the mood. I clothespinned his balls and Mr. Weenie sprang to attention. Weird. Maybe he just needed more than some stroking to get him going. Nope. He said he’d taken a pill.

Hmmm…. I don’t mind that he takes boner pills when he needs them. I don’t think it says anything about my ability to turn him on. My issue with boner pills is that I need to know when they’re in play. As far as I was concerned, trying later was not an ironclad request. I thought, especially since it was getting late, playtime was over. Sometimes we don’t communicate very well. Lion said he doesn’t like that he has to take boner pills and doesn’t want to advertise it. OK. I’ll cancel the billboard I had planned. But he should still share the information with me.

Round two of our play time ended with a very frustrated Lion. I got him oh-so-close several times. At least twice we both thought it was too far. Lion was almost sweating. He asked when he’d last had an orgasm and was surprised to find it had only been three days. The earliest he can come in the four-to-fourteen day wait scheme is today. And that’s not going to happen. Poor Lion.

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In: Mrs Lion Comments, Orgasm denial

Of course Mr. Weenie never really left. He was just not interested. Last night he was back in full force. Standing tall and proud while I edged him. I love the feel of Lion when he’s very hard. Such soft skin covering a powerful cock.

I believe we’ve concluded our experiment. We now know if Lion will lose interest with a long wait and how long it will take to get him interested again. I never wanted him to wait 28 days but here we are. I wonder, since he kept insisting on 28 days, if he didn’t somehow subconsciously lose interest and regain it so he’d have to wait 28 days. Is it possible for him to have done that? If it is, I know he didn’t do it on purpose.

We’ve done all of our Thanksgiving shopping early. Except for picking up some prescriptions from the store, we have no errands to run. I have to clean the house both for Lion’s allergies and for guests we’re having for Thanksgiving. And I have the usual laundry to do. Other than that, the weekend is free for play. Lion will be in the sling at some point today and, if I remember, he’ll be in the perfect position for part one of manscaping. I can shave him while he’s splayed out in front of me.

Before Lion is even done with this wait, he’s angling for November to be a one orgasm month. I’m not so sure. I like having the freedom to make him come whenever I want him to come. This long wait (for us) was sort of stressful. In some areas I do well under pressure. In others I don’t. Plus, I love Lion’s crème filling. I want it. I’m fairly sure Lion will end his wait this weekend. I don’t know about November being a one orgasm month. That would be another longish wait back to back with his record wait.

So I’m hearing you scream, “Go for it!” and “Make him wait!” The thing is, I’m realizing that he’s so close to a month (30 days) without an orgasm and the longer he waits this time, the less his wait will be next time and now I’m thinking it would be better to wait until he’s actually made it the thirty days before giving him his orgasm. And then later I’ll get him in the sling and feel his hard cock and change my mind. I don’t know.

What I do know is that if I make him wait for a full 30 days, that record will stand for a very long time if not permanently. We proved we could wait that long. We found out how long it takes for Lion to lose and regain interest. End of experiment and of experiments like it. I’m happy with our shorter waits. I think Lion is too.

[Lion – 30 days? Oh no!]

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In: Edging, Mrs Lion Comments, Orgasm denial

Today is the day! Well it may not be, but it’s the earliest day Lion can have an orgasm. We might go out to dinner. I have some cleaning to do. The dog needs to be brushed. Yes, Lion will probably be last on the list again, but it’s a matter of timing. Dinner has to be first. And Lion hasn’t been very comfortable so the dog and cleaning should be next.

I tempted fate last night and used the Magic Wand on him. Lion loves the Magic Wand. Sometimes he requests that I use it if he thinks he’ll have a problem getting aroused. Last night he had no problem. I just like to use it on him. We got very close to the edge several times. He produced quite a bit of pre-cum.

I may make Lion wait a few more days. We’ll have to see how it goes. I don’t anticipate it being beyond Wednesday. Perhaps in the sling. Perhaps while pegging. On the other hand, I was going to ride him for his last orgasm so that’s another option. I could give him the choice of method. That might be a nice reward for waiting so long. So many possibilities.

Lion finally did something to earn a punishment. He spilled food on his shirt at dinner. We were out with a friend and it was just the tiniest amount of food. It was almost imperceptible in the low lighting and I’m not even sure I would have realized it had I not seen it happen.

When we got home and Lion was in his uniform, I selected a paddle and told him I needed his butt. I started out with a hard swat. It’s been so long since he’s needed a punishment spanking I’d forgotten how to do it. I adjusted to rapid fire smaller swats. I didn’t do many – maybe 50 or so – but I ended with a fairly hard swat on each cheek. He’s been a good boy but he needs to remember what happens when he’s not.

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In: Mrs Lion Comments, Orgasm denial

Lion is definitely looking forward to his impending orgasm. Last night he was itchy and said he gets that way from lack of orgasms. I laughed. He said he couldn’t sleep because of lack of orgasms. I laughed again. He pretended to be humphy because I didn’t believe him. At least he’s creative.

Last night we played in the sling again. I think it’s his new favorite thing. He asks me if we’re going to play in the sling all the time now. Apparently it was unnecessary for me to declare Wednesday sling day because he wants every day to be sling day. He even drops “subtle” hints that he’s trying to make things easier on me so I’ll have more energy. Wink, wink, nudge, nudge.

I’ve been getting very good at getting Lion very close to the edge time and time again. However, I’ve noticed the past few nights that I’ve been holding back a little. I’m afraid to go too far. It’s not that Lion doesn’t get the full show. I do edge him. But now that we’re on the brink of a record – the edge, if you will – I find myself stopping a stroke or two shorter than I might have even a few nights ago. I suppose that’s better than stopping a stroke or two too late, but I feel I’m cheating Lion.

Today is day 22. Tomorrow is his first possible orgasm day. I’m really not sure if I’ll just go for it or not. I don’t have any plans on what day it should be. Similarly, I don’t have a wait in mind for the next time around. I know it won’t be another twenty-something day wait again. Once we hit tomorrow we’re back in the realm of every day being both a possibility and not a possibility for an orgasm. I like it that way.