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lion strapped to his spanking bench

When I first started reading about adult disciplinary spankings, several women noted that their husbands seemed to have limited memories of what they had to do. They observed that their husbands needed spanking about once a month for forgetting a rule. At the time, I thought this was silly. However, the hard truth of this observation is painfully obvious to me now.

On Friday, I forgot to set up the coffee pot. You’d think that by now, it would be a daily habit to perform this chore. It usually is. I was tired, and my daily routine was interrupted by a nap. I forgot the coffee pot. The last time I forgot was on March 16, the last time Mrs. Lion spanked me. Here it is over a month later, and I’m riding the spanking bench again. The time before that was in October, almost six months earlier. I guess the March spanking didn’t take.

Generally, when I commit an offense too soon after a prior incident, Mrs. Lion makes the spanking much more memorable. I’m writing this post on Saturday Morning. Mrs. Lion informed me that I would be spanked right before we leave for the casino later today. She said my sore bottom would be a good reminder while we were there. She said that she had planned a five-minute “Just Because”spanking for today, but now it would be a full-strength ten-minute visit with her paddles. I should point out that a ten-minute spanking never lasts just ten minutes. That’s the minimum length. I’m sure this one will go on quite a bit longer.

The other day I wrote that we both get out of disciplinary mode if I’m not spanked fairly often. That’s the reason we have the “Just Because” spankings. Today’s spanking is a whopping 34 days since my last one. We’ve had a chance to forget, and I did. There’s a good chance that Mrs. Lion will be more watchful after today’s punishment. She noted that she hasn’t punished me for interrupting. She said that omission was going to stop now. OK, I’ve been warned.

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Yesterday, I said I was going to give Lion a “just because” spanking. He grumbled a bit. He’s been saying he needs a spanking. I was only trying to oblige. When I went to make dinner, I saw the parts of the coffee pot still in the dish drainer. Uh oh. His “just because” spanking magically turned into a real punishment spanking. What makes it real versus “just because”? Generally, it’s the length. A refresher course tends to be five minutes long. A punishment spanking is at least ten minutes. I also usually hit harder for a punishment spanking. I don’t think he intentionally forgot the coffee pot. He knew he was getting spanked. There’d be no reason to intentionally forget.

I had to make up time at work because of his boner injection doctor’s appointment. I worked late Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday. WTF, indeed. Neither of us has been sleeping well. I was tired after work last night, so I begged off with the spanking. My reasoning is that his freshly spanked butt will be unhappier while sitting at the casino tonight. The truth is, I don’t really feel like doing it today, either. Aside from not sleeping well again, my tummy is a little off. It’s nothing major. Just enough to make me not feel like doing anything. Unfortunately, there’s no shortage of things to do around here. Adding spanking to the list isn’t really a big deal.

When I said I was too tired to spank him, I could tell Lion was worried I’d be too tired to play with him. I didn’t do much, but I did rub my weenie under the covers. I know that doesn’t do much for him, but sometimes it gets him interested. He said it felt good even though he didn’t get hard. I didn’t expect him to. If he did, he wouldn’t need the boner injections. I’d say I’m sure he’d get hard if I tied his balls or sucked him, but I’m not at all sure. Again, if he did, he wouldn’t need the boner injections. That’s not to say I won’t do those things, even if he can’t have a boner injection until Monday. It still feels good to him. It still feels good for both of us to snuggle.

I’ll whomp his buns before we head out to the casino so he can feel it while he sits. And tomorrow, when I wax him, I’ll try to jerk him off with the help of some oil. It may not work, but it’s fun to try. Maybe he’ll hit the right dose on Monday, and we can have even more fun.

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Maybe I should stop researching Trimix. I’ve been reading articles written by MD’s on how to use the drug. Everyone agrees that you can only use it once a day and no more than three times a week. My doctor wants me to wait two days between injections. I’ll almost certainly wait at least that long once I get an effective dose.

One doctor wrote that the drug should produce a good erection only when the penis is stimulated. She also says that the erection should go down after orgasm. No one else said this. I’ve been waiting for a self-starting boner that lasts at least an hour. That is the expected effect according to everyone else. I also learned that most men need a .25 to .5 ml injection to get that result. On Monday, I’ll go to .20. The idea is to get the lowest possible dose to produce the desired boner.

I’m sorry if this ED talk is boring you. I want to share my experiences as a way to help others with the same issues as I have. It was difficult for me to make this move. I wish I had done it years ago. If I did, maybe Mrs. Lion would still have her libido. I’m surprised that I didn’t. Maybe I’m not really as open about sex as I imagined. Better late than never, I suppose.

There are choices we can make when a sexual dysfunction hits. One choice, the easiest one, is just to stop having sex. If arousal is difficult or impossible without medical help, resigning from an active sex life is a simple choice. I’ve considered going down this path. After all, if I can’t get it up and I’m not feeling physically frustrated, ending sex is easy. There are times I just want to put a “Broken” sign on my penis and go on with my life.

Doing this would make it easier for Mrs. Lion. Dealing with my sexual needs is a chore I’m sure she doesn’t need. After all, it’s been more than a month since my last orgasm. I’m still here and writing. I’m losing weight. I’m not beating the dog or annoying my lioness. Why should I go to the trouble and expense of getting orgasmic again? I’ve asked myself this question many times in the last month. Do I need sex?

I am pretty sure I do. Yes, I can go on without erections and ejaculating. We can still practice domestic discipline. We can snuggle without sex. I don’t think we will. Sex is more than orgasms. It’s a language of its own that communicates love and commitment. It’s the one big thing that is exclusive to our marriage. That’s why I think it’s so important that I get my erections back and that we keep our sexual connection.

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Lion tried his boner injection three nights in a row. He said he hopes we still try to get him excited even though he can’t do another injection until Monday. We can. When we snuggled last night, he asked if I was feeling alright. He wondered if I wanted to try to arouse him. Have I mentioned he tried the injection three nights in a row? I said I thought we could have a night off.

I’m not looking to abandon him until Monday. I know it’s been a long time since his last orgasm. I know it’s been a long time since his last spanking. I just needed a night to regroup. I didn’t expect the injection to work right away. However, I thought we’d get more of a reaction on subsequent days. It was discouraging for both of us. I didn’t want a fourth failure in as many days.

At lunch, he mentioned going to the casino. I didn’t ask if he meant tonight or Saturday. I can wax him Sunday. We can play whichever night we don’t go the the casino. Obviously, I’ll try my oily weenie trick when I wax him. Maybe we’ll get lucky. After waxing him, I rub oil all over him to get residual wax off. I assume this turns him on to some extent. I hope slathering even more oil on my weenie turns him on more. If nothing else, maybe it will get him ready for Monday’s injection.

Either tonight or tomorrow night, I’ll have to get him on the spanking bench for a reminder spanking. I did swat him playfully with the kitchen paddle yesterday. But we both definitely need a refresher course. He thinks I don’t pay attention after a while. I still haven’t punished him for interrupting, but it doesn’t mean I’m not watching out for the other rules. Still, it’s good to have a just because spanking to keep both of us on our toes.