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Lion was late with his post yesterday. I didn’t do one at all. And I just realized Lion didn’t do one this morning. We’re really not on the ball lately. Lion says he has nothing to say. For my part, I didn’t write my post at work as I usually do and then we were busy in the afternoon.

I haven’t been feeling very well. I think it’s a combination of not sleeping well and the air quality around here. I don’t spend much time outdoors but the smoke permeates into cars and houses. It’s difficult to feel like playing when your body doesn’t want to move. Lion hasn’t been sleeping well either. He fell asleep for a while watching TV.

We have to snap out of this soon. Every day we don’t do something is a day closer to going back to what it was like before we started enforced chastity. I don’t want to panic about a few days here and there, but a few days can quickly turn into a week and then a month. I also don’t want to feel pressured into playing. I have a habit of feeling like Lion is pressuring me even when he’s not. He’ll say, “We haven’t done X in a while” and I take that as a criticism. He’s not trying to say we aren’t playing enough. He’s not trying to tell me I’m failing. But that’s how I take it.

Lion wants to bring back the Box O’Fun. He’s said it a few times now. I’ve been resisting. I know what’s in that box. Mean things. I know that’s the point. I just don’t know that I want to do the specific mean thing that Lion will pick out. I don’t know why. It’s perfectly fine if he picks the mean clothespins. He’s agreed to it. It’s perfectly fine if he picks Icy Hot. That was actually his idea.

Maybe 3.0 isn’t really here after all.

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Things have been very quiet here. Mrs. Lion is a bit under the weather. She’s not sure why. It could be the days of bad air quality. She doesn’t know. The air is better now. The wind is finally coming in off the Pacific, bringing with it clouds, cool temperatures, and clean marine air. It smells and feels great.

Because she isn’t feeling at the top of her form, we haven’t snuggled much. I haven’t been very interested in sex. I had an orgasm by Magic Wand on Wednesday night.. With the weekend starting tomorrow, perhaps I will heat up and Mrs. Lion will be feeling her old self. If she is, then maybe we can play.  I admit that I haven’t been in the mood for BDSM either. We’ll talk about it and report back to you.

Next week at this time we’ll be at the seashore in out deluxe camper. Maybe we can play there too. Mrs. Lion has a very complete toy bag for camper use. We have under-mattress restraints ready for me if Mrs. Lion wants to use them.

Meanwhile, maybe we can use the Box O’ Fun again. It adds suspense to our play time. It also reintroduces us to things we haven’t done in a while. Maybe Mrs. Lion will discover an activity that she now find fun to do. From my perspective, picking a card with a BDSM activity is potentially a high-stakes game. Some of the cards have activities that are difficult for me to handle. There is at least one card for those tiny, dollhouse clothespins that Mrs. Lion puts on the head of my penis. I’m afraid of them. They really hurt. But then, activities like that are what make the game exciting.

Without the external reminders that “force” us to do things, our play tends to get routine and relatively routine. It’s not Mrs. Lion’s fault. We are both creatures of habit. Mrs. Lion’s Box O’ Fun is a way to avoid getting in a rut.

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The Magic Wand did its job last night. Lion was only sort of interested until I started using the vibrator. It didn’t take long to get him to the edge. It always amazes me how excited he gets.

Lion was panting each time I stopped him from coming. I won’t say he was desperate. He’d had an orgasm a few days before. He’s almost always looking for an orgasm so you can’t tell anything by that either. But he was certainly excited and more than willing to come. Who am I to deny him? Well, yes, I am the person who “should” be denying him. But I didn’t. I like seeing him that excited and listening to him as he realizes he’s going over the top. He makes some great noises.

Today is punishment day. Technically Lion should be punished for yelling at me last night. Our poor dog had another seizure and I was the one closest to the door so I ran for the emergency medicine we keep in the fridge. Before I had made it halfway down the hall, Lion was yelling at me to hurry. It was dark and I was fumbling for the light switch and I was sure I was moving faster than he could have. When I got back he said I took a long time to go ten feet. For the record, the house must be about 30 feet long and I was going from one end to the other. In the dark. Barefoot. With a cabinet on one side and a mound of empty boxes on the other. Plus a garbage can and kitchen table/chairs. So I yelled back but I knew he was just panicked because of the dog.

This morning when he reminded me of punishment day, I told him I wasn’t going to punish him for it. We were both worried and I know when he’s gone for the medicine it seems like he’s taking forever but I know he’s moving as fast as he can. When your kid or animal is sick, every second feels like an hour. The good news is that once we squirt the drug up her nose, she comes out of the seizure fairly quickly.

So Lion’s butt is safe for now.

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Mrs. Lion is a virtuoso on the Magic Wand. She can arouse me, edge me, and make me ejaculate any time she wants.

As Mrs. Lion wrote in her post yesterday, the air quality around here has been horrible. I’ve been staying inside and worked from home until today. The air quality is finally improved. Sadly, it will get bad again once the wind blows from Canada and bringing with it the smoke from their wild fires. We have good indoor air at home. We have physical and electronic filtration in the air conditioning systems as well as a big HEPA filter in the bedroom.

It’s been almost three weeks since our first waxing session. Some hair is starting to appear between my legs. There are other spots here and there as well. I guess any area we want to keep hair free will need another treatment after we return from our Labor Day vacation. Mrs. Lion was very successful in her first shots at body waxing. It wasn’t easy. I don’t have a lot of body hair to start and what I have tends to be light. It’s easy to miss spots.

The jury isn’t in on which hair will continue to be removed. Currently, my arms have the only hair on my body below my head. I’m ok staying this way. It’s up to Mrs. Lion to decide what she likes. The actual waxing isn’t too painful and if she’s game, we can continue indefinitely. We have enough supplies to keep it up for some time.

I like it when Mrs. Lion uses the Magic Wand on me. I’m always amazed that no matter how I felt before she starts, l am erect and panting in no time. In the past, vibrators did nothing for me. But a Magic Wand is…well, magic. Mrs. Lion knows just the right spot. With her hand on the top of my penis and the wand anywhere near my spot, I’m turned on. It amazes me every time she does it. She’s learned to edge me with it as well. I don’t know how she does it, but she knows exactly when I’ve had as much as I can take before ejaculating.

I feel particularly helpless and vulnerable when she uses it. I guess it’s that all she has to do is is press a button and place it on my penis. She can make me work up a sweat without expending any energy herself. I’m not complaining. The devil of it is that it feels great. When she edges me with it, the sensation and frustration are incredible.

By experiment with my feedback, Mrs. Lion found the exact speed setting that is most efficient arousing me. The slowest setting isn’t very arousing, but one notch up and it has my resonant frequency. Similarly, dial it up one notch and its advantage is gone.  Before we got this toy and Mrs. Lion picked it up, I had absolutely no interest in vibrators. I was completely surprised by the effect the Magic Wand had on me. I bought it because I thought it might help Mrs. Lion get her sex drive back. Women love vibes, or so I thought. Mrs. Lion didn’t like it used on her at all. But she does like it because of what it can do to me.