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cotton panties
These are similar to the panties I gave Lion when I cleaned out my underwear drawer. They’re more comfortable for him. than the frilly hip huggers.

So far my selection for Lion’s daily underwear is random. Well, not entirely. I usually know what he has planned for the day before I select. If he’s going to the doctor or physical therapy I have him wear his regular underwear. If he’s home or it’s just a normal day at work I have him wear panties. I’m not comfortable with his being caught in panties. I don’t think he is either but I’m sure there’s a turn-on factor in his wearing them. No one can see them until maybe they can. Is it sort of a thrill knowing that he’s hiding a secret from his coworkers? That may explain the “Really? Okay.” I get from him when I tell him to wear regular underwear.

I didn’t set out to have him in panties every day. I didn’t think he’d want to. I thought it was going to be a special thing for when I wanted him to be pretty. Maybe he’s telling me I’m wrong. The other day I had him in panties and, as he was doing something in the kitchen, he asked what was different about him. He’s been very excited about reaching for things with his “bad” shoulder. His range of motion has gotten better and he’s proud to show off what he can do. But he wasn’t reaching for anything. I didn’t see anything different about him. He said that was the problem. Huh?

He was referring to the panties. He said if I don’t mention the panties it’s like he isn’t wearing them. I can buy that. But do I have to mention it every time I see him in panties? Since he’s naked in the house (except when I tell him to wear panties or diapers) I’d always be mentioning the panties. I don’t think that would make them special anymore. For the record, there was nothing different about Lion in the example above because he was wearing the panties I told him to wear that morning. Had he not had them on, then there would have been something different. And, I might add, a sore butt in his future.

I do, however, recognize his need for the dramatic. From that point forward I have asked him how his lacy (frilly, sexy, pantied, etc.) butt is when we email back and forth. He’s sent me pictures of his pantied butt to prove he is in compliance with my wishes. I usually leave the house before he does so I don’t necessarily see what he’s wearing. When I walk past him in the kitchen or bathroom I rub his balls or buns and tell him how lacy (frilly, sexy, etc.) they are.

I get it. He needs to know I haven’t forgotten. But I still don’t think I want him in panties every day. I think it’s more powerful to tell him each day what my decision is. Will he be pretty or handsome? I’ll decide.

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ice cream cone
Lion is a complicated critter. Sure there’s some vanilla. But mostly there’s chocolate and a lot of nuts.

Lion wonders if we are just becoming a vanilla couple since we don’t often do things other than snuggle and he has sex of some sort. He wants me to take control and punish him and do things to him. I wondered if he would be complaining about vanilla sex while I was sucking him last night. I doubt it.

The things is, I think I am taking control by deciding when he comes out of this cage and what we do while he’s wild. And isn’t edging and wearing the cage in the first place pretty far from a vanilla thing to do? How many vanilla couples have rules and punishments? How many vanilla couples have the man wear panties? How many vanilla couples have a collection of paddles hanging on the back of the bedroom door?

I know Lion gets bored when “all we do” is snuggle and I “just” edge him. He should be happy he gets so much attention. He should be happy he gets unlocked as often as he does. Apparently, from what I’ve read in other blogs and comments to our blog, some men are locked away for weeks at a time. And some men have to wait a lot longer to have an orgasm. Lion is a lucky boy. [Lion – I’m lucky and I know it. I haven’t complained about being vanilla in ages. I love to snuggle with Mrs. Lion. I’m writing this while wearing a frilly thong. The power exchange is alive and well for me!]

Actually he was surprised by his oral orgasm last night. It’s only been three days since his last one. I told him I was looking to even the score between oral and hand orgasms. Most of his orgasms have been by my hand. But we both love oral orgasms. So I’m on a mission to move oral orgasms ahead. I’m sure Lion won’t argue.

After his orgasm I was looking for panties on my iPad. If his hip huggers fall down, he’ll need replacements. It’s too bad. Some of the hip huggers would have been fun to see on him. I suppose he can still prance around a bit for me in them. But I’m getting away from the point of my looking at panties. When Lion looked over and noticed what I was doing he groaned. Part of him “likes” wearing panties. Another part hates it. I’m pretty sure there’s another part that hates that he likes it. Lion is a complicated man.

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It’s been a long time since Lion had a play spanking

Lion was looking at panties again last night. He wants something that will stay up under his jeans. The thong worked out well yesterday, but the hip huggers probably won’t. Maybe he needs suspenders for his panties too. The panties he was looking at were straightforward with no frills. Literally. They look like my underwear. I see no point in his wearing panties if they aren’t flowered, lacy or frilly. Where’s the fun in seeing him in a pair of undies that don’t look particularly feminine?

The other thing I was wondering was how many panties does he need? He has seven we just bought, the manties he bought a while ago, and three pair I ordered online. If I’m not making him wear them every day he should be set at this point. A few of them might only be worn around the house. If the hip huggers don’t stay up when he’s around the house he’ll just have to keep pulling them up. It’s annoying, but not as bad as if he’s got pants on. He’s already saying he has no place to keep his panties. More will just be a bigger problem. That’s not to say he won’t ever get more panties. If I see something he just has to have I’ll make sure he gets them. He might even get some for Christmas, birthday, and almost definitely Valentine’s day.Tonight I think I’ll have him model his new teddy and thong set. We were both so tired last night I forgot all about the other new things he had. We snuggled for a while and I got him hard and then I think his tiredness got the better of him. Snuggling is always welcome though.

I brought the small Njoy butt plug on our trip but I didn’t use it. When we were anywhere near playing, I didn’t think of the butt plug. And I was also thinking how long it’s been since he had a play spanking. We’ve been putting so much emphasis on punishment and panties that we’ve let other things fall by the wayside. Perhaps it’s time to circle back and have a nice spanking for a change.

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rodney may not get any respect but lion still does.
Rodney may not but Lion still does.

This morning I told Lion I wanted him in his pink hip hugger panties. When he put them on he said he might have a problem keeping them up. It was travel day for us and I didn’t want him to be uncomfortable sitting for hours in the truck. I suggested the green Manties and he said a thong might be okay. Thong it is! I told him to pick any of his new thongs and he chose the blue pair. I think all of the thongs have pretty bows and lovely lace.

Four hours later we dropped the camper of at the RV repair place to see if they can fix the satellite they broke when they repaired the roof. We both used the restroom before we left. Lion said he’d forgotten what underwear he had on until he went to the restroom and saw the bright blue thong. They must be very comfortable. *evil grin* As he was undressing at home I told him I wanted the panties on. He said he figured I did. No grumble or anything.

I’m not trying to make Lion into a sissy boy. He suggested wearing panties a long time ago. I think it’s funny when he grumbles about wearing them. He’s embarrassed and I’m the only one who sees him. I’m the only one who sees his toenails when they’re painted too. He “hates” it and that makes me smile.

Yesterday Lion asked if I’ve lost any respect for him since he’s been wearing panties. Nope. I didn’t lose any respect when he asked me to spank him for fun, nor when he asked me to stick things up his ass nor even when he asked me to lock his penis away. I thought about it for a while and decided I would probably lose respect for him if he insisted on sucking my toes or drawing a bath and bathing me, or something else like that. Now if I asked him to turn on the tub so I could finish what I was doing before I took a bath, that’s entirely different. That’s similar to asking him to take out the trash. He’d be helping me. I also think if he started calling me mommy when I spank him I would lose some respect for him. If that happens we’d have to have a long talk. I don’t want to be his mommy. I don’t want to be his mistress. I want to be his wife who’s in charge of more things and loves him enough to put up with all his suggestions that wind up causing him more trouble than he ever imagined. Silly blue-thonged Lion.