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I don’t normally put so much emphasis on Lion’s orgasms. I don’t. Really. OK, a little. But tonight is his first orgasm since we hit reset on things. Lion is finally horny again after unemployment and job distractions took him off his game. He didn’t feel like playing. Now he’s back to his horny self, giving me Lion weather reports and grumbling (mildly) about how horny he is.

Monday is our anniversary. Lion will be a few time zones away. However, today is the anniversary of the day we first “met” online. Tuesday is the anniversary of the first day we met in person. See? We have this cluster of days that are special. His missing our wedding anniversary might be annoying if it weren’t for the fact that today is special too. And, really, every day with Lion is special. I did schedule his orgasm date for today on purpose. It was never going to be his “maybe” date. It was going to be an orgasm for sure. I scheduled one for Monday too, but he’s obviously not going to get that one. No, Lion, you may not give it to yourself.

Last night, in addition to edging my poor Lion within seconds of coming, I made a list of assignments for him. I’ve assigned points to each task. I’ll give him a goal and we’ll see how he does. If he doesn’t reach the goal, he’ll be punished. These tasks are not difficult. It’s almost as easy as tying his shoes. Those are worth the fewest points. The more difficult tasks are worth more. It’s up to him if he wants to go straight for the most difficult right off the bat and complete his goal early, or take his time. What if he earns more points than he needs? I bet I could come up with some sort of reward for that. But Lion tends not to use the rewards I give him. I’ll have to make him an offer he can’t refuse. I won’t allow him to carry points over to the next trip. It would be too difficult to keep track of and we’re not at all sure how often he’ll be travelling. I’m not going to hold three points for a trip six months from now. Nope. He’ll have to settle for a reward.

Today we’re doing laundry and running errands to get Lion ready for his trip. He leaves early in the morning. That gives me all day to putter around an empty house. Neither of us is looking forward to being alone. I guess that will make the homecoming that much better.

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In: Mrs Lion Comments, Orgasm

Lion was the perfect gentleman yesterday. Except for a few times he was snarky to me. But that’s OK because I snarked right back at him. When we met up with friends he was well-behaved. There really was nothing to complain about anyway.

He also had nothing to complain about in the bedroom last night. When we first started snuggling, he said he was losing interest. I told him I could fix that. Lion can almost never resist my mouth. And he couldn’t last night either.

I got him right to the edge several times. I was trying to decide if I should give him an orgasm. Since we haven’t been doing anything lately, it seemed rational to just edge him. On the other hand, we both like his orgasms. Ultimately I decided to give him a slow buildup to orgasm. It might just be the thing that gets us back in the swing of things.

Today we’re wandering around the area while our friends go whale watching. It’s a beautiful area. We’re on the island with a few more islands around us. Lion is looking forward to taking some pictures. He loves landscape photography. Later on we’ll meet up with our friends for dinner. And after that?

I don’t normally have plans for Lion at night. Sometimes I’m leaning toward spanking but I change my mind when we start the festivities. Really, it’s more of a spur of the moment thing. It really depends on our mood. Mostly my mood, but if Lion isn’t in the mood, that drives it too.

So we’ll play it by ear. I’d like to do something tonight, but since I gave Lion an orgasm last night, he may not be interested tonight. And that was a consideration last night when I was deciding whether he should have an orgasm or not. It’s not like he can’t be interested but the odds are against it. It’s my job to convince him.

One thing that might help is that yesterday I had a twinge of horniness. He was excited when I told him about it. He wondered why I didn’t say something. It was just a twinge. It wasn’t anything I would have knocked him down and ridden him for. But it is good news. Maybe my interest is on the uptick. We’ll have to keep an eye on it.

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In: Orgasm

We arrived home safely last night, unloaded the camper, and collapsed in the house. We were both very tired. We took turns driving on the way home. After dinner, however, Lion made it clear that he was horny. Normally, on a travel day, we don’t play since we’re tired. But we hadn’t played Sunday night so Lion was due.

It was nothing spectacular. I just used my hands. No clothespins, ropes or other toys. Just me and my little fingers. Lion wasn’t instantly hard. He’d had an orgasm just two days earlier. It takes a little while to rejuvenate. But does he have the luxury of time? When he forfeited his reward of choosing when to have an orgasm (and how many), he lost his ability to have a say in the matter. It’s all up to me. As usual, but this time with a bit of a twist. I know Lion loves orgasms. I know his optimum wait is three or four days. I know he can wait longer. I also know I don’t care. All-you-can-come is just that. It has nothing to do with optimums or abilities.

We’ve all been there. All you can eat buffet for $19.99. In order to get your money’s worth, you have to eat all you can. Dieting? Not that hungry? It doesn’t matter. Dessert? Yes, please! Even if you have to roll yourself out to the car afterwards, you’re going to eat as much as you can. So why wouldn’t Lion take advantage of that same principle? Well, I know why he wouldn’t. He wants me to decide. But he should still get his money’s worth. Make him wait? I can do that any old time. Go, go, go! I mean, come, come, come!! Let’s move. We’ve got things to do. So last night was, of course, another orgasm.

I don’t know if he thought I was going to give him one or not. I edged him a few times and got him very close. Almost too close once. And then I backed of to a very slow rhythm. I knew it would get him eventually. It doesn’t always need to be fast. Especially since I tossed in a few ball tickles for good measure. Lion loves to have his balls tickled right before he comes. But I didn’t do it right before he came. I just used it to get him closer. Even when he was in the throes of it, I maintained the slow, steady stroke.

And when he was done, I made him eat it. He hates the taste. I love it. Consequently he doesn’t get it often, which is fine by him.

So when is his next orgasm? Tonight? Tomorrow? The next day? Yes. One of them. All of them. I don’t know. But he will get his money’s worth.

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In: Edging, Orgasm

I debated right up until the very end whether I would give Lion an orgasm last night. Part of me thinks I should give him more orgasms than he would ever ask for in the all-you-can-come orgasm buffet. Part of me thinks I shouldn’t give him any at all just to show him that he could have had all the orgasms he wanted and he blew it. So I edged him for a while by hand and then I moved down to one of his favorite positions and teased him orally.

And tease him I did. I got him so close I bet he was positive I would keep going. I wasn’t. I was still debating. He was so excited that any movement might have pushed him over. I was very careful. In the end I decided it would be cruel and unusual punishment to make him wait.

However, I still haven’t decided if he’ll get more orgasms. You know me, though. I love giving Lion orgasms. I’m not fooling anyone. He’ll get more. I doubt I’ll push him to have one a day or even one every other day. But he’ll definitely get more. Denying him orgasms also denies me giving him orgasms. That’s a sacrifice I’m just not willing to make.

Lion is also excited about his job. He has a start date. He has his first business trip lined up. And now we start the countdown to the start date. Two weeks at this point. We have to cut one of our trips short by a day so he can get back for his first day. Sadly, that first day of work is August first. Sadly because he unlimited orgasm buffet is set to end on July 31.

I wonder if he’ll have an orgasm on that last day to get him all ready for work. I think he can bet on that.