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I know Lion doesn’t think about sex all the time. Just most of the time. I imagine, from his posts, the conversations in his head must go something like this: Maybe tonight we’ll play. Maybe tonight I’ll finally get that orgasm. Maybe tonight.

Obviously he thinks about sex more than I do. Of course, I rarely think about sex for myself. But I do think about sex for Lion. And playing with him. That’s why I had my brilliant idea of tying edging to his behavior. Lion seems to be opposed to this idea. Oh well. It wasn’t a done deal. I just offered it up as a suggestion.

I don’t know if it’s just me or if Lion hasn’t been exactly trying to be a good boy, but I haven’t seen any reason to reward him with an orgasm. It’s not that he’s been bad. He just hasn’t done anything like putting food in the camper or washing sheets. Nothing above being a normally well-behaved Lion. But he’s still on the hunt for sex. For play.

He often points out that we don’t play while we’re away. In general, the reason for this is that we’re of exploring during the day. We don’t sleep well. We’re tired. Lion often snoozes in the evening so he has energy later. I don’t normally snooze in the evening. But I’ve been trying to make sure Lion gets attention.

So, if he hasn’t done anything particularly good, why would I give him an orgasm? Especially when it’s only been a few days since the last one. It’s the same reason it always is. Because I can. If I have to wait for him to do something over-the-top good, he may be waiting for a while. Again, it’s not that he’s been bad. He just hasn’t been overly good.

I think this is the reason I’m not sold on the reward orgasms. What does Lion have to do to earn one? Sure, he might have earned one for getting the camper ready, but how often does that happen? This is our last trip of the season. Will he have to wait till next July for his next orgasm? Of course not.

Just to be clear, I’m not opposed to giving Lion a reward orgasm when he does do something wonderful. However, I think he’ll be better off if we continue the way we’ve been doing it. And I can give him a random orgasm even if it has only been two days since the last one.

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Lion was very horny last night. He’s still horny today. And he’ll be horny for at least a few more days. When I stopped edging him he said he still needed attention. He really wanted to come. Poor thing.

Tonight we have to concentrate on getting things into the camper for our trip tomorrow. I’m not sure how early we’re leaving. It takes about four hours to get to our destination. It takes about a half hour once we get there to connect everything and then we’re free. After the morning I had today, I’m ready for a long, long weekend.

I’m not sure how tired we’ll be when we’re done packing. Maybe not too tired. We can always just snuggle. But I think Lion will be looking for more. My weenie has a hair trigger right now. Any breeze will excite him. I’ve been mean and made Lion wait a little bit longer than he’s used to waiting.

A long time ago, Lion was trying to get me to add days to his wait as punishment. I finally decided to do it and now he has another idea. I’ll let him tell you about it tomorrow. It just proves to me that Lion only wants what he wants until he gets it and then he’s off in another direction. Silly boy. It’s a good thing I know how to hold on tight for the roller coaster ride.

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When we finally snuggled last night, Lion said he might need a little help getting hard. I asked if he had a preference of helpers. He did not. I did.

I always tease him about mouth to cock resuscitation. I love to bring my weenie back to life with my mouth. He starts off soft and small, and grows hard and tall. It didn’t take long. It would have taken a lot longer with just my hand. And I’m not sure he would have made it at all.

This way, with some creative tongue work, he was excited and well on his way to an orgasm. Or he would have been if I hadn’t stopped short. Again and again. And again. Lion was frustrated when I stopped. I don’t think he’s all that horny or he wouldn’t have needed the help, but I left him horny.

I think I’ll keep him that way for a while. At least for the next few days. He might get an orgasm sometime over the weekend. I guess it all depends on him. From a horniness point of view and a behavior point of view. If he annoys me, I might add a few days on to his wait. Of course, I’ll still spank him if he misbehaves. I’ll just add on a day or two to his wait. So let’s assume he’ll have an orgasm Sunday night and go from there.

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I knew when I soaped Lion’s mouth the other night, that I hadn’t gone as far as I should have. In the past he’s told me I need to use my fingers to “really get in there” with the soap. This time I’d only lathered up the bar and put it in his mouth. I figured that was enough for that particular moment. If his post is any indication, it wasn’t.

To be fair, Lion didn’t actually say it wasn’t enough. If anything, he was happy that’s all I did. However, he pointed out that he got off easy. That’s not a good thing. If he’s being punished, he shouldn’t get off easy. In future mouth-soaping, I’ll make sure I slather soap all over and make him hold it in his teeth. It may not be harsh soap but he should remember he had it in his mouth.

I don’t remember how long it’s been since Lion’s last real orgasm. [Lion — According to my records, it’s been 12 days since the last full orgasm]  A few days ago I gave him a ruined orgasm. Since then I’ve been trying to get him back to the super horny stage. I have no doubt he thinks he’s super horny, but I haven’t been able to get Mr. Weenie to agree. He’s just not cooperating. I’ve vowed to make Lion wait for an orgasm until Mr. Weenie is standing tall and proud and bursting at the seams. I want that beautiful penis! And I’m going to get it.

We have late dinner reservations tonight. I’m not sure we’ll get to play but you never know. Lion has been horny later at night recently. Whenever we do play next, I’m going to blindfold Lion. I won’t say anymore about that because it would defeat the purpose of the blindfold to tell you (and Lion) what I have in store for him. I think the “threat” of a blindfold and whatever play is to come, might be just then thing Mr. Weenie needs to get him to beautiful penis status.

If that doesn’t work, we’ll keep trying. I’m willing to take all the time it needs. More practice for me.