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Lion had a fairly anticlimactic climax last night. I asked him if it was because he’s received two bonus orgasms within this waiting period. He said he thinks it’s stress. I can certainly understand that. We have stress coming out of our ears lately. I was wondering if withholding orgasms would add to his tension. To me, having that outlet would make sense. But then I was thinking that staying the course and doing what makes him happy (even if it doesn’t really give him pleasure in the traditional sense) is probably better.

Before we went to sleep last night, he asked if I was really going to make him wait twenty-one days for his next orgasm. I told him it could be worse. It could be a full month. I think I made him very nervous with yesterday’s announcement that I could punish him by eliminating a play session. Poor Lion. Yes, my pet, the wait time is twenty-one days. That will match his record wait of earlier in the summer. Now I get to set the rules.

The love coupons are in play. With Lion’s gift of a perpetual calendar, keeping track of days will be easier so adding or subtracting days should not be a problem anymore. If I do impose extra day(s), I will do so with a Naughty Lion coupon and I will decide how many days are added based on the infraction. He will be able to use his coupon to move up the date, but he needs to be careful. He has two coupons. I have an unlimited supply of Naughty Lion coupons. I would never add a day simply to counteract his coupon, but he does have a limited supply. He should choose wisely. If he uses one of his bonus orgasm coupons, the clock starts over. If I give him a bonus orgasm, the clock does not start over. In that respect he’s lucky I have an unlimited supply of coupons. He can use his wild Lion coupon any time, but if I see him doing something inappropriate while he’s wild I will punish him for it. What’s inappropriate? If I feel he’s touching himself too much especially if he’s hard, for example. Unfortunately for him, it’s at my discretion. I will play with Lion at least every other day, unless he earns a punishment. If any questions arise we will discuss them and I will decide what action to take.

Depending on how things go, Lion may be waiting a month anyway. We’ll see if he can earn days off as quickly and easily as he can earn added days. Poor thing. I can hear him grumbling already.

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Obviously Lion and I aren’t communicating as well as we think. I know I’ve told him that ok does not necessarily mean yes especially when we are talking about new rules and changes to the status quo. By the same token, I’ve been misinterpreting his suggestions as changes he’d like to make. We need to get on the same page. In addition to that, Lion lives and dies by his calendar. He has many meetings every day, and sometimes multiple meetings at the same time that he has to weed through to decide which he needs to attend. I have three meetings a month, all on Tuesday. I never have to look at my calendar.

My post yesterday was more of a knee jerk reaction to my misinterpreting his suggestions and the ensuing changes that seem to keep coming. And how do I remember what the rules are and when he is supposed to have an orgasm? Quite often I see his suggestions as a sign that I’m not doing something right. Why else would he want a change? This makes me more unsteady. I know he writes posts praising me for things, but I really do wonder if I’m doing anything right. And when he writes a post that says we are definitely doing something that we only talked about, I feel steamrolled. So I retreat into the “safety” of the original rule and try to regroup.

I don’t want to uncage Lion. It wouldn’t make me happy. It would make me feel like I’ve failed. Lion has promised me a fix to my faulty memory. He ordered it on Amazon. I wasn’t aware they sold new brains, but Amazon does sell everything from A to Z. Maybe it’s something that will smack me in the head and tell me when to give him his scheduled orgasm.

As far as non-scheduled orgasms are concerned, I’ve got that covered. Last night Lion had the Njoy butt plug firmly inserted and I decided to play with him. He said he was very horny. I knew I was playing with fire, but I really was going to just tease him with my mouth. Then I remembered it had been a long time since he’d had an orgasm with a butt plug in. He said it’s difficult to come with something in his ass. I told him that sounded like a challenge to me and he said he didn’t intend it as one. Too late! It didn’t take too long and he said it actually hurt a little. Well, that just gives him something to remember me by.

I was going to leave him wild for a day just because, but I was afraid he would take that as further evidence that I don’t want him caged anymore. So back in the cage he went. I’m not even sure it matters if we call his next orgasm scheduled or not since he’s had two bonus orgasms, but it is still set for Tuesday. I will decide at that time what the next date will be and what rules will apply. And we will continue to try to improve our communication.

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Sometimes Lion amuses me. First, I think he capitalizes on my poor memory. Then he tells me how the coupons should be redeemed, always careful to add “if it were me” somewhere in the conversation. Then he writes about it as if it is written in stone. What he never seems to remember is that anytime I say “ok” during these conversations it’s just an acknowledgement of what he said. He’s not running the show. I will take in all information and suggestions and form my own decision.

Now, I did initially say that if he redeemed his Orgasm of his Choice coupon, it would restart the clock. For this specified wait time I told Lion he would have a chance to earn both time off and time added. I then told him that if he earned an added day he would not be permitted to use a coupon to negate that added day. During the conversation in the car, he said if any time is added the coupons should not be allowed to be used. Then he further said if he earned time added it should be for more than one day because one day is nothing. This is why I hate making rules. They are too hard to keep track of. Days off. Days added. The party of the first part, henceforth known as…. It starts getting as complicated as lawyer gibberish. (No offense to the lawyers out there.)

Who is making the rules? It should be me. I will entertain his suggestions. In entertaining those suggestions I may say “ok”. This should be construed as an acknowledgement of hearing the suggestion. It should not be taken as an acceptance of how things are going to be done. I don’t want to keep track of a week added onto a “sentence”. Why did I pick September 9 as his next orgasm date? It’s easy to remember 9/9. Done. Why was I toying with September 30 and October 9? 9/30 and 10/9. Easy dates for me to remember. Once we start adding days and subtracting days it becomes less easy to remember. A week may be impossible. I don’t need added chores.

I said I would figure out the conditions under which the coupons can be used when I give him the next wait time. I’m thinking I will just let him use the coupons in the spirit in which they were intended. After this wait time, he can use them however he wants, regardless of whether I have added or subtracted a day. If he uses his orgasm coupon I’ll decide then if it changes his original date.

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It should come as no big surprise that Lion and I remember things a little differently. We have a habit of writing posts about the same thing from vastly different points of view. It’s not that either one of us is right and the other wrong. However, sometimes I do wonder if Lion isn’t thinking about someone else.

I don’t remember Lion needing to ask me to ride him in the early days. I also don’t remember his giving me oral orgasms after Lion riding. If anything, I think he licked me before I rode him. Afterwards I would have been done. No oral stimulation needed. As for last night, I didn’t have plans for Lion. I knew I needed to do something since I said I would be paying some sort of attention to him every night rather than every other night. I was thinking about spanking because we were talking about leaving marks. He kept saying he was horny. Boy was he horny. Just ask him. He was horny.

Earlier in the day I had tweaked my back moving some boxes. Then we went out to dinner. Afterwards my back was still twinging. I decided spanking probably wasn’t going to happen. Moving at all was questionable. But after the football game I decided to unlock him and go from there.

Somehow I always think I’m not going to actually edge Lion. It’s my intention to unlock him, take him for a spin around the block so to speak, and lock him back up. And then I wind up edging him anyway. It’s unusual for me to get wet while playing with him. I know that’s the way it’s supposed to work and the way it works for most people, but it usually doesn’t for me. So I figured since I was wet, and he was horny (he’d mentioned that a few times) I would ride him. And I knew that he’d never be able to keep himself from having an orgasm so I didn’t even tell him to. I didn’t make it easy for him though. I went very slow at first and then I even stopped. I’m surprised he didn’t keep bucking when I stopped. He just let out a small moan. Maybe he thought I was done and wasn’t actually going to let him come. Would I do that to him? Well, yes, but not last night.

It was actually an afterthought to have him clean me up. I remembered I told him a long time ago that if he came in my mouth it was mine but if he came inside me or on my hand he had to eat it. I haven’t been doing that. I’ve been greedy. Last night it just seemed like a good idea to have him clean me. And, of course, he gave me some wonderful orgasms too. It was definitely a win-win situation.