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We didn’t play last night. Both of us are still tired and Lion had the ruined orgasm on Thursday night. I just decided we needed a break. Near bedtime, Lion mentioned that he’s out of alignment in the cage. His urethra is not matching up with the holes in the cage. I said I put him in there correctly on Thursday night. He said over time it moves. Then he said sometimes he gets tired of being in the cage. I get that. I get tired of wearing a bra, and I get to take that off every night. And a bra isn’t made of metal. Well, it can be, but mine isn’t. Anyway, I’m wondering if Lion wants to wear the cage anymore. Or is this just a momentary annoyance? I like having him wild, but should it be a full time thing? Do I like having him wild because it’s an oddity or because I don’t want him caged anymore? That would certainly change the dynamics of things.

If he’s not caged anymore it wouldn’t necessarily mean the end of chastity and FLR. As Lion has said in many posts, a good way to test out if chastity is right for you, you don’t actually need a chastity device. Just the understanding that you are not in control of your sexual needs anymore. We could continue chastity without the cage. But would that be the beginning of the end? In our case, I need the additional reminder that Lion is dependent on me for sex. It would be very easy for me to let things slide and tell him to take care of things himself. I am not consistent. Well, that’s not entirely true. I am consistent when it comes to not making an effort to do things. The cage forces me into action. And by “forces”, my pet, I do not mean that I don’t want to play with you. I mean if it weren’t there it would be easy to not do it. We would regress into pre-cage behavior. I don’t want that.

So when Lion says he gets tired of being in the cage, it has two effects. The angel on my shoulder says, “Yes, let’s free the poor dear. He’ll be able to run wild in the fields.” The devil on my other shoulder says, “Tough sh*t! He wanted to be locked up. He made his bed. We’re not done with our experiment yet. He’ll get out when I say he gets out.” I think the devil and 2.0 are closely related.

I am chalking his statement up to the disappointment of not being unlocked last night, coupled with being tired, and the worry of looking for a job. I believe he does not really want to be wild for good. It’s just annoying when he has a lot on his plate and then peeing becomes messy or difficult. One more straw to break the Lion’s back. I don’t think we’re in any danger of doing away with the cage. It’s still too important to us.

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In: Edging, Mrs Lion Comments

Lion did very well at Jeopardy last night. He missed only two questions. And he didn’t skip many. He thinks the questions are easier this week because it’s a celebrity week. If that’s true it certainly isn’t helping some of the celebrities. Either that or they aren’t well-versed on very many topics. At any rate, Lion even got Final Jeopardy correct. It was a good night to be in the shock collar.

Before we started Jeopardy, Lion said he was tired and asked if I was too. I’m always tired, but I was more awake than other nights. I thought that meant he didn’t want to play. Nope. He was up for playing. I was doing so well and then I gave him a ruined orgasm. I just get carried away. I like teasing him. He makes such good faces and noises that I go too far. I had even taken a peek at his scheduled date to see how close we were to it. Not close at all. I know that doesn’t matter. I can sneak an orgasm in any time I want. And if I had realized it was a ruined orgasm I might have continued on to a full one. But I thought I stopped in time. I knew it was close but I thought we were good. Nope. Damn.

Lion is no longer wild. When we first started playing last night he mentioned that I had easy access without the cage. That’s why I like when he’s wild on our trips. He can pee more easily and I have better access to Mr. Weenie. When we’re sitting in our chairs watching TV I can just reach over and touch him. I can also sneak a squeeze as Lion walks by. If we’re on vacation, why shouldn’t Mr. Weenie be on vacation? It’s only fair. But right now, Mr. Weenie is all safe and secure again. And, thanks to the damned ruined orgasm, Lion isn’t as horny as he should be at this point in his wait. Oh well. That just means I have to start over making him horny again. I can do that!

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Lion and I have been exhausted. I had a change in medication and he’s worried about his job situation. Neither makes for good sleeping. Not that we sleep all that well when things are fine, but any added things are a problem. So it wasn’t really a surprise when I went to unlock Lion and he said he might be too tired to play. I suggested we try and if it didn’t work we could snuggle. Well, we wound up snuggling and I’m pretty sure I fell asleep while we were snuggling. Yup. We’re both exhausted.

When it came time to lock Lion up I decided he could stay wild. He assumed I meant for the night. There’s too much going on in the morning and I barely get myself out the door in time to make it to work. I meant he can stay wild until tonight. First he was happy and then he wondered why I wanted him wild. There he goes again. Why ask why? He thought maybe I was tired of his being locked up. I’m not sure why his mind jumps to that. I just wanted to give him a cage-free day. Like the chickens who lay our eggs. Sheesh! Does everything have to have a well thought out reason?

Last night, by the time we finished dinner and I washed the dishes, I was so hot and tired I decided we’d put off our new Jeopardy game until tonight. Lion got a lot of answers right and bemoaned the fact that we weren’t playing. Tonight he’ll probably have an off night and get zapped a lot. Then he pointed out a flaw in my rules. Nothing happens if he doesn’t answer a question at all. Theoretically he could remain silent the entire game and not get zapped at all. Hmmm…. I told him if he did it then there would have to be a new rule put into place. But I don’t think he can remain silent the entire game. It’s not really in his nature. He even answers in his sleep.

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In: Chastity games, Mrs Lion Comments

imageA few months ago we played a game with Jeopardy. Every incorrect answer Lion got, I put a clothespin on his balls. It was a slow process. I’d pause the show, put a clothespin on and unpause. We decided we needed to find a new game. We liked the idea of playing along with Jeopardy but there had to be a better way.

The other day I was thinking about it again. Tonight I decided the Jeopardy game will return tomorrow. This time Lion will be wearing his shock collar. For every incorrect guess, he’ll get zapped. The only thing I can’t reconcile is what to do if he gets a correct answer. I could remove a clothespin. I can’t unzap him. With the clothespins I put one on even if he had no answer. To be fair, I’ll only zap him for incorrect answers. I’m hoping that by not penalizing him for non-answers it will mitigate not being able to reward him for correct answers. I know it’s not apples to apples but it’s the best I can do.

Right now (I’m writing this Tuesday night), Lion is enduring the medium nJoy butt plug. It went in easily. I’m not sure how long he’ll have it in, but I do know he’ll have some fun later. An edged Lion is a happy Lion. And edged he shall be.

Last night I figured out Lion’s scheduled dates through next March. He’ll be pleased to know he’ll continue to have orgasms beyond June. I don’t think he has a wait time longer than 14 days but I can always make him wait longer. As you know, we’re not concerned with long wait times. I just try to vary the length. Lion doesn’t like short waits. He doesn’t like long waits. There’s a sweet spot in the middle that he likes. But Lion can’t always have what he wants.