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Lion’s had some ongoing health issues. We both do, but his are more pressing at the moment. Stereotypically, guys are less likely to go to the doctor. I guess this is another way Lion and I are opposite. He’ll go to the doctor. I have to be cajoled and practically dragged there. One of the reasons we put play on hold is because life interferes. More often than not, it’s because of a health issue. I’m achy. His tummy is bothering him. I’m tired. He’s sore.

Last night I came out of the shower and then brought out the paddle I’ve been using for our spanking experiment. I asked Lion if he was warm enough. He’d been under the blankets since dinner. He said he was warm enough but didn’t think he was in the mood for our game. His eyes were bothering him. We’d already put off the game for one night since I’d forgotten. There’s not really any problem putting it off again. Even if it was a real punishment there wouldn’t have been a problem. A health issue, to me, is like a safe word. No more need be said.

Even if we had spent all week preparing for one night of playing, once one of us said there was something wrong, we’d have to stop. Has it been billed as a second honeymoon? Did we spend a lot of money on a lavish hotel? Headache! Hit the brakes. Let’s snuggle.

Lion is the most important person to me. Why would I want to continue doing things to him if he doesn’t feel well? Why would he want me to continue to do things to him if I’m hurting my back, for example? Not only is it common sense, it’s love. I will beat Lion’s butt until it’s bruised and bloody, but I will also bring him ice for his knee or Tylenol for his headache. And he’d do the same for me. Minus the bruised and bloody butt, of course.

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Wednesday night was a bit of a surprise for me. Mrs. Lion came over and we had our usual snuggle. She rubbed my tummy and then gradually moved her hand until she was stimulating my cock and balls. Of course, I responded quickly. She began masturbating me. When I was fully erect, she moved. I expected her to sit at my side ready to tease me. Boy, was I surprised.

Instead, she got up from the bed walked over to where we keep the Magic Wand vibrator. She returned to my side and took her usual position across from my penis. Deliberately, she turned on the vibrator and applied it to me. She put one hand under my penis in the vibrator pressing the other side; the sensitive one.

She brought me very close to orgasm a couple of times. The third time, I was ready to explode. The vibrator came off. Then to my surprise, she immediately returned it to my penis and vibrated me through a very nice orgasm. It had been eight days since my last ejaculation and this one felt amazingly good.

The vibrator is a reliable way to arouse me. I won’t say is my favorite, but it does work. After I calmed down, I asked Mrs. Lion if she intended to give me an orgasm. She said that she thought she had given me a ruined orgasm, and wanted to make it a full one. I told her that I was very close but I did not go over the edge. Still, it was very nice.

Now I am in my refractory period. That’s not entirely accurate. I woke up this morning with a nice erection and my interest in sex is actually pretty high. Unlike what others report, I don’t feel “down”. Quite the contrary, I’m bouncy and in a very good mood.

Blog stuff
I go through regular periods of worry about the images I put with my posts. The first image in any post shows up on Twitter with the beginning of the text each time one publishes. I don’t want to violate any obscenity policy there. However, so far it appears that my choices meet their standards.

Today, for example, I wanted to put the picture of me being stimulated by the Magic Wand. (Click here to see the image). I just don’t know whether something this explicit would be appropriate. Even though this is a sex blog, I don’t want to offend our readers. On the other hand, I like to share more than just words.

Is sharing a link to an explicit image better than just posting it? I know that many people don’t like clicking on links. They prefer text and pictures to remain together. You can see why I’m torn. Personally, I like including images with the post. The Twitter reposting makes me worry about being too sexual. Truthfully, nobody’s ever objected to pictures of my penis or butt. We are all grown-ups. Presumably, you’ve seen lots of penises — both flaccid and erect — and naked bottoms before. I would hate to think that I shock you.

The underlying philosophy of our blog is to provide accurate, factual information about our lives and how they incorporate enforced male chastity and a Female Led Relationship With Discipline. Both Mrs. Lion and I stick to the facts and show you everything, both good and bad, in our journey.

I think that’s true of pictures as well. Not every image we publish is of me. Some are stock images that better illustrate the point of the post. By this time, I’m sure you can recognize my naughty bits without me telling you who modeled for a particular picture. If you’d like to contribute your opinion on our use of Lion naked pictures, please add a comment to this post.

I’ve gone through phases in regards to this. In the beginning, I needed to show penis pictures in relation to wearing a chastity device. I wanted to soften the blow, if you can call it that, of my genitals right in front of you, by converting the images to black and white. After a while, I decided that was silly. So, I went to color when I could. I also decided that I should only show you my flaccid penis. I don’t know, I guess I figured it was more clinical.

Over time, I decided that if I’m writing about erections and ejaculation, shouldn’t I feel free to publish images of me having them. They are always in context with what I’m writing (or what Mrs. Lion is writing), so I don’t consider them gratuitous porn. Actually, I don’t think I’ve posted an ejaculation image. To keep from being a liar, here’s one taken a long time ago of Mrs. Lion jerking me off. I had a penis piercing then. Part of me enjoys exposing myself to you. For a while, I worried that my pleasure at exposing myself meant that the images I publish are for my sexual pleasure rather than expanding our sharing.

Our blog gets less comment traffic than many others. So, feedback is almost nonexistent. Of course, that’s just the nature of our relationship with many of our readers. I don’t think it has any meaning beyond that. Possibly, what we post is more for reading than starting a conversation. in the case of the images we publish, I would like a conversation. I like some idea about how you react to what I show. Here is a gallery of my cock and ball images, most published with posts.

By the way, you can communicate with us privately. Click on the “Contact Us” link at the top of the page and you can send us a private message. I don’t always respond by email to general questions about chastity devices and fitting them. I do reply about other more personal subjects. Please feel free to use this to start a conversation. I look forward to learning how you feel about my “show and tell”.

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I didn’t do the punishment experiment last night. I just forgot. By the time I remembered we were already snuggling and I didn’t want to do it. Today is punishment day. Lion has already reminded me. He’s not due for any punishment but we can always do the experiment. I’ll just need to remember.

I’ve been somewhat achy lately. I don’t know why. I haven’t been doing anything above and beyond the usual. Lion’s been tired and achy too but he’s been doing PT homework to strengthen his right leg. We’re just a mess again.

This weekend I have to clean up the dungeon to give Lion better access to an exercise bike we have. I also have to put my new rowing machine together. That might help Lion as well but he needs to take baby steps. We both need to get ourselves into better shape but we can’t go too fast.

Lion has a new monitor for his work computer. His home office is a mess so he’s enlisted my help to get it under control. Of course, the rest of the house needs some attention in the cleaning department too. We have our work cut out for us.

You might be asking, “Where’s the plan for fun? No bondage? No menthol rub?” We’ve been putting off the cleaning for a while. Neither of us felt well and then Lion was still down. Now that he’s a little more mobile, we have to get the house back to normal. It’s true we need to step up our play but we also need to prioritize. I’m afraid boring chores will win out this weekend. That’s not to say we won’t have some fun. It just won’t be the focus.

Somehow I’ll carve out some me time. And we have to watch some football. Go Rams and Chiefs! Don’t worry. Lion will get some attention.

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In: CBT, Lion's Journal

Cock teasing is a time-honored female hobby. At least, that’s what movies would have you believe. And in our case, teasing is the staple in our sexual diet. Being teased is what most often happens to me when Mrs. Lion pays attention to my penis.

Mrs. Lion and I are creatures of habit. Almost every night, after her hair has had a chance to dry, Mrs. Lion comes over to my side of the bed and puts her head on my chest. Her hand plays over my tummy and eventually my cock and balls. Once I’ve achieved a full erection, she will sit up and begin masturbating me in earnest.

It’s a ritual that I really like. And it’s effective keeping me horny. This morning, while  lying in bed half awake, penis at full mast, I began thinking about the teasing process. For example, is she teasing me when Mrs. Lion spends a few seconds massaging my penis while I am cooking in the kitchen? Is seductively rubbing my butt teasing too?

I don’t think so. At least as far as I’m concerned, teasing is a process. It has a few phases. The first is getting my attention. By that, I don’t mean getting me to notice that my penis is being handled. I’m aware of that immediately. That’s not the same as getting my attention. Mrs. Lion has my attention when I stop thinking about what ever I was doing at the time, and focus on the fact that I’m being sexually stimulated.

Most of the time, this doesn’t happen immediately. At first, I may feel a little annoyed at the distraction. Or, I may believe that her hand will stop almost as quickly as it started and there is no need to be particularly aware of what she’s up to. If she persists and stimulates those spots she knows turn me on, within a short time (it can be as much as four or five minutes) I will respond. My penis will get hard, my breathing may get a little irregular, and Mrs. Lion has my full attention.

Phase two begins at that point. This is what I call the “con”. I may be hard and enjoying the stimulation, but I probably don’t believe there’s any real chance I’ll ejaculate. I’m having fun and feeling good. Phase two convinces me that there’s a real chance that I’ll be producing semen before Mrs. Lion stops.

I know that every time I get to ejaculate, there are generally quite a few starts and stops building my arousal. So, I’m not surprised if she gets me very excited and then stops. She’ll start again most likely. After a couple of these interrupted masturbatory massages, I begin to believe that she is building me up for the grand finale. Mrs. Lion is an expert at this. I believe it every time. She can tell when I’ve fully bought in. Sometime after that, we go into phase 3.

This phase is the “big sell”. This is when I get edged. The closer I get to actually having an orgasm, the more convinced I am that she will let me finish. Recently she’s taken me into excitement but not near the edge. My breathing quickens my heart beats faster and my body gets ready for a nice orgasm. Then she stops. It turns out, that being pushed right to the edge isn’t necessary to sell me the expectation of ejaculation.

After she stops, and tells me, “Not tonight, dear.” She will lie back down on my chest and often resume masturbating me from that position.

“Oh, boy!” I think, she’s going to surprise me. Nope. It doesn’t happen. I end up with my erection bobbing in the wind with no way to finish. That’s the tease.

Since we are creatures of habit, teasing happens once a day, almost every day. It doesn’t happen more than once and it only happens in the bedroom. Too bad. What if Mrs. Lion played with my penis, let’s say, in the kitchen. Only, instead of the affectionate rubs, she persists and gets me hard. And, she convinces me I may ejaculate standing there next to the stove.

Aside from being a lot of fun, it would add a new context to teasing. This would be especially true if she picks other times when we are alone and not in bed to do this to me. Aside from being very exciting and fun, it also teaches me that I never know when I will find myself hard and panting.

I think we need to be more spontaneous. I know that we are both most comfortable with predictable patterns. Another example of this is that spanking always occurs in the bedroom. We have a paddle hanging on the side of the refrigerator ready to be used at any time. A few weeks ago, I did get a couple of swats from the kitchen paddle when Mrs. Lion noticed it hanging there. Years ago, I received regular, painful spankings bent over the kitchen counter.

We both enjoyed that. I think we will both enjoy outside-the-bedroom sexual teasing. Both teasing and spanking are expressions of our affection. I think they both serve to remind us to interact as a couple. Too much of the time, we are a loving couple who do things in the same place but not necessarily together.

I’m writing this on Wednesday. It’s been eight days since my last ejaculation. This is my longest wait in a couple of months. I’ve been wild the whole time. I’ve noticed that I get erections spontaneously with very little mental stimulation. This effect has been growing every day. I like it.

It doesn’t feel like a dry spell to me. The teasing feels more intense and I like experiencing full erections at odd times. Don’t get me wrong, I can’t wait until I get to ejaculate again. However, if there ever was a good time to try outside-the-bedroom cock teasing this has to be a really good one.