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Lion asked if his orgasm yesterday was part of an experiment. At first I didn’t know what he meant. He explained that he didn’t think he’d be able to have an orgasm so soon after a ruined orgasm. Ah. No. It wasn’t an experiment. At least not a planned one.

Lion has said for a long time that a ruined orgasm doesn’t take any of the horniness away. His theory is that it doesn’t check all the boxes necessary for his body to think it’s had an orgasm. There’s some tension and some semen, but it doesn’t go all the way. As far as the sex gods are concerned, nothing happened.

I’ve never thought about giving him an orgasm the day after a ruined orgasm. However, this time I reasoned that he wouldn’t want to play Sunday if he had an orgasm on Saturday so I allowed the ruined orgasm to happen with the hopes that his theory was correct. It was!

I didn’t consider semen production. I just wanted him to have another opportunity to be strapped in the sling and to take the new dildo. Not that I couldn’t have done those things with a non-horny Lion but I want him to enjoy himself most of the time. I didn’t even think about ejaculate when he started producing pre-cum. It wasn’t until after he came that he commented about how much he produced.

It’s a definite win for me. I love Lion’s cum. Two days in a row is a bonus. Maybe I’ll have to rethink my hatred of ruined orgasms.

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Lion is not sure he wants to go on writing the blog. I suggested maybe he could stop writing every day. Perhaps once a week would work out better for now. He doesn’t often have anything to write about and feels it may be because we’ve been slacking off lately. I suggested his wearing the cage again as a way to get us focused. I don’t think he really wants that but he’s willing to consider it.

As I’m writing this I’m thinking Lion is saying that I haven’t been consistent. However, it’s been his allergies that have stopped play most recently. I’m sure neither of us is really pointing a finger at the other but I can see how those feeling might be in the back of our minds.What we need to do to combat those feelings is get back to basics. I guess that’s why I suggested locking him up again.

Whether or not I banish Mr. Weenie to the Jail Bird, I do need to be more consistent. Even on nights that I don’t feel well I can shove a butt plug into Lion. I can make him move over to snuggle with me instead of me always moving over to snuggle with him. I do have options available to show him who’s boss. On the other hand, if he’s the one who is in pain or itchy, I don’t really want to subject him to anything. I don’t even want to suggest that he’s in trouble for not wanting to play. That’s not what our power exchange is all about. First and foremost we care about each other.

Yesterday we didn’t play but by nighttime I was feeling well enough to tease Lion. I edged him several times and then I surprised him by giving him a full hand job. At the time he had no idea how long his wait had been. He thought it was only three days. Nope. Five. His previous wait had been four days. Perhaps the next will be six. I haven’t decided yet. And I don’t think I’d tell him if I had decided. I like the element of surprise. I think he does too.

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Last night Lion asked if he should take a boner pill. I said if he thought he’d need it I guess he should take one. This was before his punishment swats and mouth soaping. I only made him hold the soap for a minute and a half. It was probably too short. Afterwards he said I had previously decided not to use soap anymore. Well, yes. I remember saying that. Now. But I didn’t before I soaped his mouth.

I don’t know why I decided to soap him again. I think it was because he broke the bar of soap and when I saw it in the shower it looked like the perfect size for his mouth. I didn’t do it to punish him for breaking the soap. It just unleashed a course of events.

For a while afterwards Lion complained of having a horrible taste in his mouth. Yup. I bet. But it was a clean taste. Small consolation.

Lion did take a boner pill. I still decided to use the Magic Wand on him. It isn’t just for when he has trouble getting an erection. I was merciless with it. As soon as he got to the edge I stopped and started right in again. After at least five times I let him go over the edge. And then I fed him his cum. When he made a face I told him it was to cure the horrible taste in his mouth.

I didn’t plan to give him an orgasm. I didn’t plan to feed him his cum. They were just spur of the moment decisions. Why not? And trying to interact the horrible taste of the soap with the horrible (he thinks) taste of cum is funny. To me. Lion didn’t seem too amused by it. Oh well.

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As I was playing with Lion in the sling yesterday I came up with a title for today’s post. It was going to be “No-vember” because at that point in time I was considering having Lion wait until December 1 for his orgasm. The problem I’m having is that I think we’re closer to the end of November. There’s still quite a bit of month left over after Thanksgiving. Ultimately I decided his wait was long enough.

What happens now? As I’ve said, I was not prepared for how the long wait would affect me. I like giving Lion orgasms. I hate being under the stress of having to stop short to avoid an orgasm that would end the try for a record run. It’s been at least two years since we set the previous 21-day record. (I deemed his 22-day wait inconsequential since it was after his surgery and he didn’t care about sex at all.) Clearly we’re not concerned about long waits. We’ll probably go back to our normal four to ten days with a few slightly longer thrown in for good measure.

Yesterday Lion said he thinks he misses wearing the cage. He says having access to an emergency key is not the best idea. I wouldn’t put the cage back on him if he didn’t have the emergency key. What if he’s injured and needs medical attention? He can’t go in an MRI with the cage on. It will show up plain as day in an x-ray. “Do you have any metal implants?” “No, but I have a cage on my cock.” I’d rather he has the means to remove it than have it cut off. I’m putting my foot down on that one.

Will we go back to the cage? I don’t know. I think I view it the same way I view diapers and panties. It’s not an every day thing but once in a while would be fun. I also stand by the idea of it perhaps being used as punishment. If Lion can’t follow rules he should feel my power.

While we’re on the subject, I might try something different for a bit. A new experiment of sorts. Maybe I’ll tell Lion when he’ll have an orgasm and if he breaks a rule I’ll decide whether I want to spank him or make him wait another day. I haven’t worked out the bugs yet. I just now thought of it. But if I were to tell him, say on a Wednesday during our normal email conversations, that he would be getting an orgasm that night and during the course of the day he spilled food or interrupted, the punishment could be spanking or loss of that orgasm. My choice, of course. And I guess it wouldn’t be limited to one day. There’s no reason I couldn’t make him wait two or three or more depending on how severe infraction. Every so often Lion brings that idea up in a post and wonders why I’ve only ever done it once. Well, new experiment. We’ll try it and see how it works.