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I “cured” Lion last night. I got him to the edge. Again and again. He was so close he was almost sweating. I don’t know if he thought he was going to have an orgasm or not. I’ve tried to keep him guessing. Since we abolished his scheduled orgasms, he never knows when he’ll get one. Is that more fun for him?

We’ve been round and round with things. How long should his wait be? Should he know when it’s time? Of course, I’m in charge and I can do whatever I want. But I like feedback. Sometimes he’s advocated for the schedule, but here we are with no schedule. His input for wait times has been a little more concrete. Uncured concrete, but still more concrete.

At one point I gave Lion an orgasm every day. That proved to be too much of a good thing. Ironically, when we first got together, he wanted an orgasm every day. Either I’ve become boring or age has gotten the better of us.

Now Lion’s sweet spot seems to be between four and ten days. I’m sure he could do two days in a row, but much more than that probably wouldn’t work. Much longer than ten days and he starts to lose interest. I can’t have that. A horny Lion is a happy Lion. Yes, that does seem backwards. You’d think he’d be happier when he’s had an orgasm, but I really think he’s happier when he’s horny.

Actually he’s happier when I’m making the decisions. As long as I’m calling the shots, he’s a happy boy. If I said the schedule is back and he’ll know what night he’ll have an orgasm from now until the end of time, he’d happily play along. I’m leaning more toward the element of surprise. What if I don’t feel like giving him an orgasm on May 18th at 8:45 pm? Obviously I wouldn’t have to. I can change anything I want at any time. But why even make it an issue. Nope. The schedule stays gone. I like that he never knows.

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lion's new fleshlight
This is the Fleshlight.

Lion was looking forward to being less needy. He didn’t want to bother me for help to the bathroom or getting medication or getting food. I never saw it as a problem, except for when he’d ask for something and I’d get it and just get sitting down and he’d ask for something else. That part I could do without. Luckily, he paid more attention to his requests after I pointed out my up-and-down behavior.

Now that he’s getting around better, we’re trying to get his sexual activity back on track. And now he’s becoming needy in that department. Not overly needy. I think it’s just the difference between no activity and activity that it’s so noticeable.

I’ve been edging him the past few nights. At this point, he’s very horny. I was wondering how long I should make him wait. My initial theory of having an orgasm every time we played, sort of priming the pump, fell by the wayside the other night. Lion said he’d rather be edged to build up some steam. So how long until the steam is built up?

If memory serves, there’s a sweet spot. A bell curve of sorts. The first few days gets him horny. Another few days gets him frustrated. And then another few days gets him to the point that he doesn’t care anymore. I may be off in my counting. There may be more than a few days in each category. And there may be more categories. The point is, I should aim for the sweet spot.

However, as we told you the other day, Lion ordered a Fleshlight. He wasn’t happy about how long it would take to get here so he ordered another one from Amazon. It arrived today. All I can say is, “Wow! It’s weird.” It’s gooey. It reminds me of the do-it-yourself dildo goop we got. Before it set, it was like pudding. The Fleshlight seems to be a cross between pudding and gelatin texture.

Needless to say, Lion is eager to test it. He’ll get his chance later on. I wonder if I’ll just try to edge him with it or let him come. I guess that all depends on how much he likes it. Sweet spot or not.

[Lion — FYI I start to get horny by day four. This keeps increasing until about day 10. At that point, I get very frustrated as well as horny. By day 14 or 15 I start losing interest.]

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tender9zer paddle on lion's buttI lied. I said I was going to give Lion orgasms until he had a normal one. Oops. Last night I just edged him. So sorry.

I’d like to say it occurred to me that he’d get to a normal orgasm faster if I edged him a lot before I let him come again, but I just now thought of that. I was really just being mean to him by leaving him frustrated. Except that I wasn’t being mean. I was trying to get back to the fundamentals of enforced chastity. He doesn’t get to come every time.

On that note, he shouldn’t even expect to be edged every time we snuggle. He asked if we were going to snuggle last night, after he woke up from one of his many naps. A few minutes after I snuggled in he asked if we were going to do anything. My first thought was that we were doing something. We were snuggling. But Lion’s “do anything” means something sexual. I know he went three weeks or so without any sexual activity, (perish the thought!) but not everything revolves around sex. Right now he’s thinking, “It could.”

I’m sure he’s also lamenting the fact that his sexual activity has been largely vanilla. I tied his balls up once. Apparently swatting his balls doesn’t count as play. I don’t think it’s a very vanilla thing to do but from a post a few days ago it doesn’t seem like he agrees. I don’t want to break out the Icy Hot just yet. He needs to be able to get to the bathroom quickly to wash off if it gets too hot. I can certainly use clothespins and Velcro.

Lion even thinks he could handle punishment swats. I think he could handle modified ones since he hasn’t had any in quite a while. I’m more concerned with his being able to get into position at the bottom of the bed for them. Of course, I could just have him roll over and deliver them. Where he is in relation to the bed isn’t crucial. So maybe the rules should be in full force again. He’s been following them anyway.

Let’s see how it goes. I’ll enforce the rules starting today. May god have mercy on his butt.

[Lion — There are other punishments just as effective as spanking and Mrs. Lion’s disposal. No, I don’t mean Icy Hot. She has lots of soap that can be used and plenty of very mean pinchy things. However, I agree that spanking is her preferred way to punish me.]

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Well, two of the hated teams are out of the playoffs. The Cowboys lost Saturday and the Eagles lost Sunday. Unfortunately, the Patriots won. I took a picture of Lion’s butt before our spanking game but it didn’t look much different afterward. Although there were quite a few points scored and Lion received a lot of swats, there was sufficient time between scores for his butt to recover. Oh well. However, the point of the game is not to bruise him or cause any lasting effects. It was just designed to get him some swats.

Lion was still a horny boy last night. And nothing has changed as of this morning. I edged him orally last night. It’s a bit more difficult to gauge his reactions but I figured if I went too far I’d keep going to a full orgasm. Luckily I was able to stop in time, several times. Lion doesn’t agree that this was lucky. He really wanted to come. I’m sure he thought he was going to. Alas, he’ll have to wait. I told him I didn’t think he was horny enough yet.

It’s been a long time since Lion’s been so frustrated. I’ve been giving in way to quickly lately. I think he can manage a longer wait now and then. According to his email this morning, he’s been waiting six days. That’s nothing. It’s true that I tend to give him an orgasm after four days, but I have made him wait seven days fairly consistently in the past. I’m not saying he’ll have to match his longest wait of 28 days, but he can make it a few more days. He’s a strong boy.