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Last night I took Lion out of his cage for some exercise. I really just intended to give him some attention and maybe edge him. I hadn’t started out with spanking or any other playing so, while hard, he wasn’t very excited. Then I asked him if he wanted to come or if he wanted to wait. I wish you could have seen the look on his face! He was shocked. He probably thought it was a trick question. He said he will always choose to come. It wasn’t a trick question. And he could have easily said he wanted to wait. Of course, just because he wants to come doesn’t mean he will necessarily. I like to have his opinion.

I still didn’t have that sense of urgency to give him an orgasm, but I decided to give him one. I just felt like it. It really didn’t have anything to do whether he wanted one or not. I actually thought he would want to wait and I would have been fine with that too. I really just wanted to see what he would say. I told Lion he would have to eat it if I allowed his orgasm. He said he knew. I edged him a few times just to be sure he knew that he could never really be sure when, or if, he would get to come. Once I grabbed his balls he knew though.

As he came I wondered if he knew he’d have to eat it, is there a way he could control how much semen he produces? I didn’t really think he could, but he did wind up with just a tiny ejaculate. I attribute that to the fact that I didn’t play with him to get him excited. But it would be very interesting if he could. I would love it if he could produce more when it was my turn. When it’s his turn to eat it, it’s not the amount that matters. As long as he gets the (what he considers nasty) taste of it I think the message is received.

I need to get back into the swing of things. It’s been very low key around here lately and I’d like to get it ramped back up. The lazy days of summer are lulling us to sleep. Enough of that! Starting tonight I will be more attentive to my pet’s needs. I would say his wants, but we know he doesn’t really want all the mean things I do while it’s happening. He does, however, have a deep seated need for them. And he will get them. Fair warning!

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My current — all of ten minutes old — theory is that the reason it drove me crazy when Lion was imprisoned for twelve days straight without an orgasm is because I couldn’t give him an orgasm.  I wanted what I couldn’t have. When the wait time dropped to four days, I wasn’t as crazy. Probably for the same reason Lion wasn’t as horny. It was just four days.

Now that the time is flexible I wonder how it will affect us. We don’t have a date to shoot for. There’s no “oh my god, that so far away” feeling. Maybe knowing that I don’t have to wait will make me more inclined to wait. I know when I have a present for Lion I cannot wait to give it to him. Birthday. Christmas. It doesn’t matter. Just knowing I have to wait makes me insane. One year he got his birthday present a few months early and then he got his Christmas present for his birthday and then I had to get him another Christmas present.

I’m interested to see how teasing him factors into all of this too. We haven’t been playing much in the past week. If I up the intensity will it up our need to have him orgasm? I am on a mission to find out! I’m betting Lion will be more than happy to participate in this experiment.

This is just one more learning experience for us. Who knew I would feel the effects of Lion’s waiting? It’s all new.

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i made lion's weenie very happy last night.
I made Lion’s weenie very happy last night.

Lion was certainly a horny boy last night. I hadn’t really played with him in a few days. The closest he had gotten to play was the butt plug on Monday night. I started off playing with his balls. A few love taps. Then I just massaged them and told him that they probably want to run and hide since they are always front and center.

While I was fondling his balls, good ol’ Mr. Weenie decided to spring into action. He didn’t want to be left out. Not to worry, Mr. Weenie. I stroked him for a while before I decided to edge him. Then I gave him very little time to recover before I edged him again. Poor boy. He was so hard and so ready for his orgasm. It occurred to me that I didn’t have my usual sense of urgency to give him one. I almost told him he could wait another day. I’m sure he would have been disappointed, but he would have agreed to wait. Except I told him that he would be having an orgasm last night. At any rate, I moved into position for a blow job and again noticed how hard he was. Mr. Weenie was flying at full mast and trying to get bigger. I teased him for a bit before he gave me my appetizer of precum and then I finished him off. Yum!

I did not pick another card. This time we’re playing it by ear. I will give my pet the attention he needs but I will not give him an orgasm until the mood strikes me. As you know, that may not be long at all, but last night wasn’t one of those times that I absolutely felt the need to do it. But then again, I haven’t really been playing with him lately. I think the more I tease and deny him, the more I want to make him come. I get caught up in it.

In a recent post Lion spoke about caged males who feel sexually satisfied when their keyholders have an orgasm. Maybe, since I don’t care about my own orgasms, I am living vicariously through his. Would the “cure” for that be to keep Lion from having an orgasm of his own until my sex drive returns? I think we’ll explore other avenues first. Neither one of us seems too interested in making him wait for an extended period of time.

For now, I will string poor Lion along, wondering when (oh, when) his next release will be. I’ll let him practice his best “poor me” faces and wait for the grumbling to start. And we’ll work on getting him ready for that bigger Njoy butt plug. He may even have a teenie Lion weenie dildo in his future. You never know what I’ll pull out of my bag of tricks!

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In: Keyholder, Mrs Lion Comments, Rewards

The past few days have been sort of laid back for us. We did some work in the yard over the weekend and it was just so hot I think it wiped us out. For me it was the humidity more than anything. Neither one of us seemed to be much in the mood to play, although I did shove the smaller Njoy plug up Lion’s butt last night. Generally when he has it in him he’s laying down. I’m considering putting it in when he’ll be walking around to see if it’s more difficult for him.

Last night I worked a little late and we thought Lion would be home first, so I asked if he would make dinner. He agreed. It turns out we were both stuck in horrible traffic so I made it home first. I wound up making dinner, but he brought home dessert and breakfast for this morning. And he brought me flowers. If I didn’t know any better I’d say he was trying to butter me up so I will give him time off for good behavior. Well…it worked. His six days would have been up on Thursday, but I missed playing with him one night so I reduced it to Wednesday. Now that he brought me flowers, his sentence will be over tonight. I know he can make it longer and I’m actually not in any hurry to give him an orgasm this time, but fair is fair. He earned his time off.

In light of his disclosure that he doesn’t really care if he has a specific date for his next orgasm I’m not sure if I will be picking another number tonight. Maybe we’ll just play this one by ear. One thought I had was maybe using only the cards numbered one through four to determine how many times I would edge him on a particular night. Just a different twist on things. I haven’t decided if I’ll do that or not. Maybe I could set mini goals for him along the same lines as his goal for the bigger Njoy plug. If he reaches the goal in the specified time period he earns an orgasm. At one point we used a timer. I’d start stroking him and if he didn’t come when time ran out I stopped and we waited a bit before the next time period. So many ways to torture him!