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In: Mrs Lion Comments, Orgasm denial

Last night I surprised Lion by unlocking him. Based on my post, he didn’t think he’d be unlocked or played with right away. I told him I guess I came to terms with his being locked up again. In his defense, he thought I approved of both his sending the cage back and locking him up because I answered “OK” in an email. That “OK” was in response to us talking about things when I got home. So it was miscommunication. Live and learn and move on.

What I didn’t tell Lion is now that he’s back in the cage he’s going to wait longer for orgasms. I don’t know why I decided that. In my mind, maybe it’s a trade-off for making me unlock him and lock him back up. It’s not vindictive. I’m sure he’ll “like” being made to wait a little longer. I haven’t really thought about how much longer he’ll wait. But you know me, I’ll give in before too long. It certainly will not be 28 days.

When I unlocked him last night it took a while for him to respond. Once he did, it didn’t last long. Then, of course, he decided he’s broken because he wasn’t horny. Why would he be? He didn’t think he was being unlocked. He was just laying there minding his own business.

If I unlock him tonight maybe I’ll give him a little more warning. I could also use some handy dandy toys to help the situation. I know I can get him interested.

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Lion has been looking for ways to keep his balls hair-free. Electric razors tend to nick him. The hair removal cream irritated his skin but seemed to work fairly well. Yesterday we tried waxing. It did a good job. Of course, the directions say to remove the hair in the direction from which it grows. On balls this is nearly impossible. It grows every which way. Nonetheless, Lion was mostly hairless (Here is a picture of his newly denuded balls).

I told him I’d allow him to shower cage-free so he could get any remnants of wax off of him. Plus the wipes they provided for wax remnant removal had a scent that was not necessarily unpleasant, but it was strong. After his shower I didn’t make any move to cage him. We had dinner reservations for 8:30. When we got home at 10 I pulled out the plastic locks and put one on the bed. He asked why I was using the plastic lock when we could just use a padlock. Good point.

There was no pomp, no circumstance, no nothing when I locked him up. I didn’t edge him. I didn’t fondle him. Sometimes I give my weenie a good-bye kiss. Not this time. I’m still a little annoyed that he sent back the Jail Bird without discussion and has decided he wants to be locked up again. I’m not sure why. I mean, I’m not sure why I’m still annoyed. It’s a silly reason to be annoyed, but right now I think Lion needs to be in solitary confinement. At least until I work out my annoyance. How long will that take? No idea. I just get the feeling that if I unlock him before I’m over it, I won’t want to lock him back up again.

Lion had an orgasm Thursday night. We didn’t play Friday night. We didn’t play last night. What if we don’t play tonight? Well, first of all, I’ve already broken our agreement that I’d play with him at least every other night. Is recaging him technically playing? It is bondage. Plus, I’d like to let him ponder his predicament for a little while. He did want to be caged again. I lined him up perfectly but he still had trouble peeing. I don’t know if it’s pinched him yet. Even though it’s light, I know he knows it’s there. I assume it prevented some morning wood.

I don’t know if I am anti-cage at this point. I don’t know what I am, other than annoyed. That will work out eventually. Just as I want Lion to stew in his own juices in the cage, I need to stew in mine too.

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Despite what he wrote yesterday, Lion and I did not discuss whether the cage went back or not. I was busy at work when he wanted to talk about it and when I got home he had it all set to ship back. I’m not really sure I understand the need to shorten the cage since we hadn’t agreed that he’d be locked up again. As a matter of fact, I thought we decided he’d still be wild. After the cage was on its way, Lion said something about being locked up. I said the cage was gone, trying to be funny, and he said we still had the plastic one here. I guess that means I’m locking him up.

It’s true it is inconvenient for me to lock him and unlock him, but it’s more inconvenient for Lion to wear it. He gets pinched and has to be careful when he pees. I’ve never understood the appeal of wearing the cage. I know he likes the bondage aspect of it but overall I don’t get it. Good thing for Lion I don’t let that get in the way of doing things for and to him. We have a lot of chores on our to do list so I can’t exactly say when this will happen, but at some point over the weekend I’ll do manscaping I haven’t done in a while and lock Lion into the plastic cage.

If history repeats itself, Lion will be annoyed with the cage within an hour of the lock clicking shut. If it was my idea to lock him up, I usually tell him to suck it up. My weenie needs to be locked up to be safe and secure. If it was his idea to be locked up, I tell him he asked for it and he needs to be careful what he asks for. He can’t be like the dog going in and out of the door all the time. Cage on, cage off, etc. This time it’s his idea. I know I have the final say but if he’s “stupid” enough to want to be locked away again, then he’s going to live with the consequences. Pinching, peeing, no morning wood – too bad. Can’t help you. The cage stays.

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I gave Lion another orgasm last night. It was oral this time and I love the way he tastes so I just kept going after I’d edged him a bunch of times. It was a five day wait. For most of the wait we hadn’t even played. It’s been that way a lot lately.

Since our version of chastity has little to do with wait, it shouldn’t be a problem if he has short waits. But what about play? If he isn’t horny or doesn’t want to play and I just give him an orgasm the next time we play, is that wrong? I mean, I know Lion and I have to decided what’s right and what’s wrong, but should I be doing more playing and fewer orgasms? Does it matter?

Does it make the orgasm that much sweeter when he finally gets it if I torture him first? I know he needs a certain amount of play or buildup before an orgasm. I can’t just go right for the gold. Everyone needs foreplay in some form or another. I’m only talking about the time between orgasms.

Am I technically frustrating him more by not frustrating him? If I only play with him when I give him an orgasm, will he get mad that I don’t play with him more? I know I’m making more of this than I need to. I’m not always going to give Lion and orgasm every time we play. I just wonder what the short term effects are since I’ve been doing it a lot lately.

I’m not worried about having an unhappy Lion. I know he’ll send up a flare if/when he’s feeling like he needs play more than an orgasm. What guy would want fewer orgasms? Lion sure did during the time period he had one a day several years ago. We’re not going back there again. I guess the key is balancing out the amount of play with the amount of orgasms.