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Mrs. Lion has been working up a sweat teasing me. I wish it were easier for her. Maybe we can try a less taxing stimulation technique. I feel guilty seeing her work so hard. Maybe I can help, at least at the start–or maybe the end (LOL She’d never do that if she wanted to tease me.). I suppose she could argue that I’m not ready if I take so long. She could also argue that if I’m ready, I won’t feel guilty. I’m not sure either argument is correct.
I’ve done some research into how a male can reduce the time to ejaculate. If you weed out the scams and uninformed crap that litters the Net, authorities seem to agree that there is no way to train me to come faster. Ironically, it is possible to train a male to take longer. We have several male masturbation toys. None of them have worked so far. Mrs. Lion hasn’t persisted with any toys other than the Magic Wand. She has had pretty consistent success with it. The only issue is that if she starts with the powerful vibrator, it desensitizes me so much that her hand or mouth doesn’t work.
We haven’t spent much time with toys. We also haven’t experimented with other techniques. One that helps build arousal is progressive edging. I experienced it in the past. I’m stimulated near orgasm about an hour before the “serious” session. Sometimes the warmup is repeated. The value of this technique, other than focusing me on getting off, tunes up the sexual hardware in my body. This sort of activity can increase semen production in many men.
One benefit of this technique is that if the Magic Wand or other masturbator is used in the warmup sessions, the waiting time before the next activity is enough to resensitize my penis for less violent stimulation. Similarly, CBT or other BDSM activities can be in the warmups but not in the final session. Mrs. Lion uses this technique when she spanks me. She allows time to elapse after the spanking before any sexual activity is started.
I suppose these preliminary activities are analogous to stretching exercises before a race. They are extended foreplay. Daily teasing doesn’t fall into this category. While it makes me hunger for release and frustrates me, twenty-four hours later, that has worn off. Yes, I’m more interested in sex because of it, but any physical benefits have expired.
A warmup is more valuable as we age, though it is great at any age. When I was younger, I went on a vacation trip with a woman. We drove from New York City to New Hampshire. She decided it would be fun to tease me for the full five hours we were on the road. She didn’t push me too close to orgasm, so I didn’t get distracted. I was ready for anything by the time we arrived. Unfortunately, all that rubbing caused my penis to swell from edema. At least that’s what I think it was. I could still have fun, but it was a little uncomfortable.
I don’t know if it is just me, but I seem to need direct penis stimulation to get my motor running. That’s what works best for this guy. Mrs. Lion knows just how to pet me. I’m suggesting that at least one warmup an hour or less before she goes for the gold. More warmup is most welcome.