When I drive home from work, I often have conversations in my mind about enforced male chastity. Ok, I need a life. But some of the stuff may be of some use. I imagine myself talking to a guy who is anxious to try enforced chastity. Here’s how it goes:
I’ve read a lot of posts by guys whose wives or girlfriends buy them a chastity device and “surprise” them with it. I’ve dropped a few hints, I wonder why my wife hasn’t done it yet?
The number one myth in enforced chastity is the one where the guy comes home from work and his wife/girlfriend presents him with a package and tells him to open it. When he does, he asks her what it is, and she tells him. She then tells him to put it on (or puts it on him) and lets him know he will be wearing it from now on. I get five or ten of these stories a month as comments to various pages. They go right into the trash. This is a story, nothing more. Virtually every caged male got that way because he asked someone to lock him up. The story usually includes “sins” the guy committed that prompted her to cage him. Well, wrong again. The last thing a pissed off partner is thinking about is locking up his penis. If you want to be locked up, you will have to ask your partner to become your keyholder.
Guys often write that once locked up, they want to do housework, wear panties, and service their keyholders endlessly.
If you didn’t want to do those things before, being locked up and horny probably won’t change anything. You don’t become a different person because your dick is in a cage.
I’ll give my keyholder any kind of sex she wants when she orders me to do it.
Damn big of you, fella! Is the reason you want to be locked up that you want her to take the sexual initiative? If so, you’re like me and many other caged males. The thing is, don’t even start to pretend you are being forced. Look at it from her perspective. She is with a guy who needs her to cage his cock and then demand he lick her in order to get sex. It can’t make her feel very good about herself to believe you need physical force to go down on her. It can’t help her self esteem, or for that matter, her opinion of you to be in that situation. Try telling her how much you want to please her and how hot it is for you to hear her let you know what you can do.
I need a chastity device that will make it impossible for me to get out and jerk off.
Really? Ok, here’s the deal. There are devices that are pretty hard to escape. They are also not terribly comfortable. You’ll see guys writing about how they need the smallest possible base ring (the ring that goes around your cock and balls) so that when the cage is on, they can’t pull out. Guess what? The smaller the base ring, the more pain you will be in. What doe those guys do? They lube the area the ring covers several times a day. It still hurts, but hurts less. If they were a bit smarter about things, they would realize that what prevents the from jerking off is their commitment to their keyholders, not the security of the device. My device fits me well. It would be difficult to pull out, but it is possible. However, I will never do that. My sexual pleasure belongs to Mrs. Lion. Period. As a result, my device is so comfortable, I frequently forget I am wearing. Isn’t that better?
There you go. A bit of Q and A hatched in my car on the way home from work.