Sort of a Routine
I think Lion forgot we had diapers in the camper. It was a small sample box and they weren’t the kind that he could wear out anywhere because they’re thin and any pee could potentially leak, but they were useful nonetheless. As we were off on another adventure, I told Lion he’d be wearing diapers when we got back to the camper.
It didn’t surprise me when he made a face. He really doesn’t like wearing diapers. I reminded him that he had suggested diapers all those years ago. I’m sure he both likes and hates when I make him do something like wearing diapers.
When we got back to the camper, Lion got himself halfway naked. It’s been very cold (37 this morning) so he’s been keeping a T shirt on, but no diaper. I asked if I should give him a reminder or just go right for punishment. He had no idea what I was talking about. I gave him a hint and he said he didn’t know he was expected to get into the diaper without my telling him to. But I did tell him. I specifically said, “When we get back and you’re getting yourself naked, you need to put on a diaper.” Oh well. Ultimately he put the diaper on.
The deal was that he pee in the diaper and then he could change for a new one. The thin diapers weren’t good for more than on pee. Sometimes I make him stay in the wet diaper until he needs to pee again. That way he’s always wet. But I didn’t want to take a chance on the diaper leaking. Luckily for Lion, we only had three diapers.
By nine o’clock he was still in a diaper. I hinted that we couldn’t play until he was out of them. Eventually I asked him if he wanted to go into the bedroom. Once he stood up and moved around, he had to pee. Finally! He cleaned himself up and we were off and running.
Lion should always be careful what he asks for. He hasn’t figured that out yet though. He wants to play. I’m not sure he knows what he’s getting himself into. He certainly didn’t think his balls would get swatted. I’m pretty sure he didn’t think he’d have to eat his own cum. Since I didn’t really plan any of it, I didn’t know any of that would happen before we started.
Yes, I know. He just had an orgasm the other day. Why give him another one? Why not? Who’s running this show? I really don’t know why I gave him another one. It wasn’t so he could eat his cum. I didn’t decide that until after his orgasm. I guess I just like to keep him on his toes. I’m pretty sure he likes that too.
What She Said (Yesterday)
Mrs. Lion and I wrote our posts at the same time (Sunday morning) because we have no cell service here and have to go to town to upload our posts. After we finished writing, we read each other’s post. We’ve done it again! We both wrote about the same subject without discussing the topic. We just naturally operate on the same wavelength. My post below was written before I had any idea what Mrs. Lion was going to write. After she read this post, she said, “We can try that.” Tune in to Mrs. Lion’s post today to find out what happens next.
We still haven’t played this vacation. I think that we will have better luck at both play and sex if we move it much earlier than bedtime. I can understand why most people do sexual things at bedtime or first thing in the morning. After all, those are the times we wear the least amount of clothing; none in my case. Intimacy is highest at those times.
I don’t think either of us are at our sexual best at those times. My history with BDSM has me playing during prime time (9pm to 1am). That’s because play parties I attended were during those hours. When I think about it, the worst times for me are when I have a full belly or I am tired. I suspect Mrs. Lion feels the same way.
What’s the problem with making play time happen away from first and last thing of the day? Mostly it’s because at those times we have always done other things. Even though I am most likely naked, we have the lifelong habit of filling those hours with non-sexual activities.
We know we can add new things to our daily routines. We are more than three-quarters through our third year of enforced chastity. I think one reason we have been so successful is that we have specific activities we agreed to do almost every day. I’m not suggesting we do BDSM on a daily basis, though if Mrs. Lion wants to, we could. I am suggesting that as a start we agree that every weekend day, including holidays, we play sometime between beakfast and dinner.
I think this will work because once we make an agreement, we do it. For example, every Monday and Thursday is punishment day. If I have done something needing correction, in the early evening after dinner and Mrs. Lion’s shower, the paddle comes out and I am spanked. We always seem to do it at that specific time.
Even though we haven’t discussed it, the regular time helps. So, maybe we should do the same with play. Even if it is juat edging, maybe we need to move it further from bedtime. Maybe BDSM could be on Wednesday evening and Saturday and Sunday afternoons. That doesn’t restrict Mrs. Lion. She can do things any other times as well. But we agree that those three days are no-excuses occasions.
On days when she wants, Mrs. Lion can also substitute BDSM to go, with me wearing a take-out butt plug, diapers, or whatever else she wishes. The point is that play is happening. We aren’t pushing it into the background. Similarly, maybe we could try moving the daily edging away from bedtime as well. Perhaps move it out of the bedroom entirely.
I am unintentionally trained to react to being edged in bed close to sleep time. It might be more interesting to vary that a lot. I have only been edged on my back. If teasing moves out of the bedroom, I might learn to get hard almost anywhere once I have been conditioned to be teased in other settings. Oh my!
Creating a Routine
Last weekend I had the brilliant idea that maybe we could plan our summer trips around county fairs in the state. I went so far as to find out that there are 39 counties in Washington. After yesterday, we’re pretty sure we don’t want to do that; at least not all county fairs. I’m sure there are some counties that have wonderful fairs. We’ll have to do some research before we commit.
Despite his orgasm the other night, Lion was horny yesterday. That doesn’t happen often. He usually takes a day or two to recharge. Maybe he really likes the return of 2.0. Unfortunately we were both very tired last night, so there was nothing more than snuggling going on.
Lion and I have every intention of playing when we’re away. I have my travel bag of tricks. This time I even brought the nJoy butt plug. There is a small box of diapers in the camper. But for whatever reason, we wind up not playing. Not always not playing, but more often than not we “just” snuggle. I think it’s because we don’t have a routine in the camper.
At home, we come home from work, eat dinner and then go into the bedroom to watch TV. After showers and settling in we have the opportunity to play. Maybe we’re tired. Maybe we’re not feeling well. But we have our routine in place.
In the camper, we tend to sit in the living room and watch TV. We’re usually tired from whatever adventures we’ve had during the day. Sometimes we both fall asleep in our recliners. By the time we move into the bedroom, we’re ready to snuggle in to snooze.
This is our last trip of the season. I don’t see us making any great strides on the play front. We may still play, but it won’t be a routine. We’ll have to work on it for next year. And, of course, we’ll work on our routine at home as well.
Just Us
One thing about being so far from the busy world is that my mind drifts away from our power exchange. I suspect that Mrs. Lion’s does too. We always have good intentions of using these days together for play, but it doesn’t seem to materialize. The same is true so far on this longer trip.
Of course, Mrs. Lion has had on and off stomach issues. That certainly gets in the way of other things. We also enjoy exploring the local area, even though we’ve been here several times before. It’s just so beautiful. This trip, the weather isn’t terribly good. Night time temperatures have gotten down to 40 deg. F and the days briefly hit 65. It’s not the traditional Labor Day weekend heat we generally get. This does give us more in-camper time. However, with the exception of a fantastic oral orgasm Friday night, we haven’t done much.
I should say that I am writing this Saturday morning. Since we have no Internet or cell phone access here, we have to do our writing and then drive 12 miles into town where we get a cell signal and can upload our posts. So, with most of Saturday in front of us, I don’t know what may be in store for me between now and Monday morning’s post.
To tell the truth, I haven’t much felt like playing so far. I was very horny until Friday night, but I wasn’t craving the activities I had written about in recent posts. I am just enjoying the companionable comfort of our time together. That’s certainly not a bad thing. There is so much more to our relationship beyond BDSM, enforced chastity, and domestic discipline.
The one thing we always do on our trips is appreciate the opportunity we have to spend all of our time together. We even like riding in the truck and enjoying the scenery togetether. The conversation is easy and comfortable. I just love being in the same place as my lioness.
That’s the thing. Enforced chastity and FLR helps us fill in some gaps we believe are important. But without them, we still have so much we can be happy without them. That may be why play always seems to slip away on our vacations. Even though it is something we have both decided to do, everything else is just so wonderful, we forget what we planned to do. We are a little less than halfway into this trip. Who knows what we will do with the rest of this time?
