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imageA few months ago we played a game with Jeopardy. Every incorrect answer Lion got, I put a clothespin on his balls. It was a slow process. I’d pause the show, put a clothespin on and unpause. We decided we needed to find a new game. We liked the idea of playing along with Jeopardy but there had to be a better way.

The other day I was thinking about it again. Tonight I decided the Jeopardy game will return tomorrow. This time Lion will be wearing his shock collar. For every incorrect guess, he’ll get zapped. The only thing I can’t reconcile is what to do if he gets a correct answer. I could remove a clothespin. I can’t unzap him. With the clothespins I put one on even if he had no answer. To be fair, I’ll only zap him for incorrect answers. I’m hoping that by not penalizing him for non-answers it will mitigate not being able to reward him for correct answers. I know it’s not apples to apples but it’s the best I can do.

Right now (I’m writing this Tuesday night), Lion is enduring the medium nJoy butt plug. It went in easily. I’m not sure how long he’ll have it in, but I do know he’ll have some fun later. An edged Lion is a happy Lion. And edged he shall be.

Last night I figured out Lion’s scheduled dates through next March. He’ll be pleased to know he’ll continue to have orgasms beyond June. I don’t think he has a wait time longer than 14 days but I can always make him wait longer. As you know, we’re not concerned with long wait times. I just try to vary the length. Lion doesn’t like short waits. He doesn’t like long waits. There’s a sweet spot in the middle that he likes. But Lion can’t always have what he wants.

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wheel of misfortune
Lion likes choices even if all of them are going to hurt.

Yesterday Lion and I had our customary email conversation. Here’s an excerpt:

Lion: Uneventful drive today. Uneventful day, pretty much.
2.0: I’m sure your day will pick up after dinner. 😉 I don’t know. Just a feeling I have.
Lion: I wonder what is happening after dinner?
2.0: Usually it’s Wheel of Fortune and Jeopardy 😉

Maybe not the funniest exchange we’ve ever had, but now I had to come up with something good for him. After my shower, Lion was snoozing. Undoubtedly resting up for the evening’s activities. That’s OK. I had my idea anyway. I just needed a wide awake Lion. He had a decision to make.

Sometimes, when he knows it’s orgasm night, I give him a choice of how he’d like his orgasm. Hand, mouth or penetration. But last night wasn’t orgasm night. His choice was between menthol rub and tiny clothespins. He tried to say neither and I told him that wasn’t a choice. It would have been far easier for him if I had given him a choice between an orgasm and menthol rub. I’m pretty sure he would have had no trouble deciding. I really wasn’t sure which he would pick. I even gave him a bit of a break by not having the nastiest tiny clothespins in the mix. I figured he would never choose the tiniest ones since they hurt so much. Finally he selected menthol rub.

The last time we used the menthol rub, I slathered Lion’s balls with it. He’d said it was a wimpy strength. I figured, if it was wimpy and he’s a strong lion, he should be able to take it. Nope. I had to untie him so he could wash off. It turns out the wimpy strength is stronger than Lion. Last night I took a tiny amount on my fingertip and rubbed it into a 3/4 inch circle. After a few minutes it started working. Lion wondered why I used so much. Who’s wimpy now? It’s a good thing he didn’t choose the clothespins. I used less of the wimpy menthol than I did of the stronger menthol with him in the sling.

Luckily it wore off after about ten or fifteen minutes and we resumed our normal edging. I’m getting pretty good at taking him just short of the edge. He’s reduced to a panting puddle. And then I stop. We’ve been cuddling when I’m done with him. Last night I even held onto Mr. Weenie while we cuddled. I didn’t move. I just held him for a bit. I don’t know if that gave Lion hope that I would continue or made him stay harder longer. I just wanted to keep touching him even if I wasn’t going to edge him anymore.

This morning Lion says he’s grateful he got a choice even if it wasn’t really a choice. Maybe he’ll get more no-choice choices in the future. [Lion — I agree the choices weren’t very appealing, but they were choices. It’s nice to have a menu even if the food isn’t so good.]

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chastity device key necklace
This is my new necklace with the “key” to Lion’s chastity device.

About a week ago my new key arrived. Lion had an additional key made that had been polished so I can wear it on a necklace. Mature Metal needed my permission, of course. There’s no telling how many caged males try to get an extra key. (Not many, I assume.) I bought a leather cord and last night we got a smaller ring than the one that came with the key to connect it. I thought the leather cord was very fitting given Lion’s years in the leather community. Today I’m wearing the “pendant of power”. That’s what I’ve decided I’ll tell people if they ask what it is. It does, after all, represent the power I have over Lion’s weenie.

Last night I also decided on the second rule of my tax day resolutions. Lion has to thank me after I punish him. If I zap him with the shock collar because he’s done something wrong, he has to thank me. If I zap him for the heck of it, he doesn’t. Whenever he receives punishment swats, he must thank me. And now I’m thinking he should even thank me when I point out an infraction if I don’t punish him at that time. I am going out of my way to punish him for doing something wrong. If he does nothing wrong then I don’t have to punish him and he doesn’t have to thank me. Sometimes he does thank me, but it’s never been a rule. And now it is.

Lion is so horny now that he can’t tell how many times I’ve edged him. Last night I even gave him a little bit more time between and he still said everything was a blur. We played the clothespin game again, where every close call was followed by the removal of one or more clothespins. And then, of course, I kept going even after the clothespins were all gone. He’s well past his scheduled date. He made another comment last night about having only two orgasms for April. We’ll see, Lion. 2.0 operates on her own schedule.

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Monday night I got to growl and cheer fully sanctioned by Mrs. Lion. We watched the NY Giants win over the Miami Dolphins. I am allowed to express myself at the TV during football. After Monday’s post from my lioness, that permission doesn’t extend to “Jeopardy”. My mood is less than wonderful lately because I have an auto-immune disorder that gives me hives and makes me itch. It isn’t an allergy. It’s just my body deciding to fight with itself. The allergist says it is quite common and harmless; just uncomfortable. I’m on a cocktail of antihistimines that make me tired. I am getting relief for a few hours at a time, then the itching returns. I’m told that this condition will self cure in a year or less. Gee thanks! You wonder why I am growling more than usual? I told Mrs. Lion that my behavior shouldn’t be excused by this illness. I just have to apply more self control. She’s been very kind so far.

This time of year is when I got serious about wanting to try enforced chastity. I suspect that the holidays provide a good opportunity to embark on the enforced chastity adventure, There are a lot of family and friend distractions to make initial waits less difficult.

What better gift than a card with a check made out to Mature Metal and a reference to our Getting A Good Fit page. There is  no doubt that it will be the most memorable gift of his life. It also sets the tone for successful enforced chastity. This is supposed to be fun. Taking his ability to orgasm away is fun? Oh yes it is.

That is the secret guys won’t tell you about enforced chastity. They love it. Well, maybe they love to hate it. The point is that playing with orgasms is good, clean fun for many guys. There can be a lot of pleasure in sexual frustration. It causes heightened interest in sex and opens the door to sexual conversations that most couples would never have otherwise.

Male orgasms are generally regarded by both men and women as something he likes a lot and should be provided as often as he wants. It isn’t something to talk about. Most guys never discuss the quality of their orgasms. They have them and are  happy when they get to ejaculate. Enforced chastity elevates the male orgasm to something that is discussed, analyzed, rated, and bargained for. It is no longer a right. It’s the goal in a game that he doesn’t control.

That’s what makes enforced chastity fun. It’s a game with very high stakes (to him) where the “house” holds all the aces. If he wins, his keyholder lets him have an orgasm. If he loses, he remains frustrated and wanting. This is fun for him?

Oh yes! It is, at least, for me. After waiting long enough to be really horny, it’s extremely exciting for me to have a chance to “win” an orgasm. It is even more exciting to lose that chance. The game aspect of enforced chastity may seem odd to the keyholder. But to the caged male it can be an extremely engrossing part of his life. It may seem cruel, but it isn’t. Both of you know that sooner or later he will get his orgasm and the game starts all over again. Some people get so involved in the game that even the male doesn’t want an orgasm. He wants to keep playing.

In my opinion, that’s not a desirable outcome. It’s up to the keyholder to keep things balanced. Imagine that! A guy doesn’t want his orgasm. That illustrates how much males like me love the thrill of the chase. This game of enforced chastity plays on our deepest instinct: the desire to win a chance to mate with a desirable female — you! The prolonged chase for the orgasm is a perfect substitute for running after new females.

It took me a while to realize that chase is a big part of orgasm control for me. I love wondering whether tonight will be the big night or not. Even though my orgasms are scheduled, there is nothing to say that Mrs. Lion won’t make me wait longer or surprise me with a bonus. In fact knowing the date and then learning I didn’t earn my orgasm on that date is a pretty dramatic element of the game. Sometimes you win and very often you lose in the chastity game.