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If Lion noticed he made no mention of the fact that I moved the Icy Hot so I would remember to use it. I told him I was going to put it on the bed but I worried the dog would chew it and get a mouthful of yuck so I left it front and center near my sink in the bathroom. He didn’t question it. He may not have been paying attention. Or he may have been ignoring it altogether. Sometimes it’s best not to think about burning things on your balls.

We didn’t play last night. Lion was watching the season finale of a show he really likes. I was tired and playing on my iPad while he watched. Just before bed he lamented that he hadn’t been unlocked. Poor Lion. No attention. Buh, buh, buh. And he’s so horny. What a catastrophe!

He was kidding. I knew he was. But today he told me he was very comfortable in his cage. It usually pinches while he drives or when he’s sitting at work. Today it’s smooth sailing. OK then. That must mean my weenie is very comfortable and doesn’t need to be unlocked. Maybe, despite Lion ignoring the Icy Hot, my weenie knows it’s waiting for his friends, the balls, and he’s being quiet and unassuming. “Shhh. Don’t make a sound and she’ll forget we’re here.” Not likely.

I will unlock weenie and the boys tonight. I’m 99% sure I’ll use the Icy Hot.

Poor boy.

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holy trainer nano
This is the Holy Trainer Nano. It’s a new model that is the right length for almost every man.

Monday night we got back to business. Mrs. Lion edged me over and over. I was desperate to ejaculate. That wasn’t to be. The way she was edging me felt a lot like going for a ruined orgasm. She got me to the edge once, then paused. She went back to masturbating me pausing when I got really excited. Of course, that’s what edging is. The difference to me was that she waited 10 to 15 seconds and then started again. That;’s typically how a ruined orgasm is produced.

The idea is to masturbate the man until it looks like he is just ready to come, stop stimulating him and then wait. Since it can take 15 seconds between stopping stimulation and the ruined orgasm, the woman waits to see if he will ejaculate. If nothing happens, she masturbates him some more, stopping when he looks ready to come. She waits 15 seconds. No semen, start again. That’s how it felt on Monday night.

Mrs. Lion didn’t want a ruined orgasm. She just wanted me desperate to come. She was very successful. I’m getting hard now writing about it. Mrs. Lion hates giving me ruined orgasms. I think that’s because I get them by accident. She pushes just a bit to far edging me. So, my ruined orgasm feels like a failure to her. I, of course, am not too happy about it either.

So far, our experience with ruined orgasms has been completely accidental. I think that soured her on the idea of using them as part of her bag of tricks. Maybe she should consider adding ruined orgasm to her Box O’Fun. Delivering one intentionally may feel a lot different to her. Also, she could give me multiples, one after the other. She could also make the last one she wants to deliver a full orgasm.

The reason I thought of this is that a ruined orgasm certainly qualifies as a dominant activity. The Box O’Fun is full of things that hurt. Why aren’t ruined orgasms in the same category? So far, Mrs. Lion has kept sexual activities off limits for play or punishment.

Replacing a full orgasm with a ruined one can be a punishment or play option, especially when I am told in advance that is what will happen. An intentionally ruined orgasm that isn’t a surprise is very different from one that just happens. Announcing it and then doing it is a powerful expression of sexual control. I can’t prevent it.

A new chastity device
I ordered one of the new Holy Trainer V3 Nano chastity devices. It’s the first off-the-shelf chastity device with a cage short enough for me. It also has exactly the right tube diameter to fit me. Mrs. Lion agreed to lock it on instead of my Jail Bird or the 3D-printed one. I’ll publish a full review after I’ve worn it a while.

The Nano has a tube length of 1.36″. My Jailbird is 1.25″. This length is almost certainly right for any man. The only factor that would justify ordering the “Maxi” (tube length 2.5″ diameter 1.4″) is the need for the wider tube diameter. This device is almost the same price as the CB6000. It’s considerably more advanced in design. It’s inexpensive enough for first-time chastity players to buy it. It’s also inexpensive enough to buy if you have a longer tube/cage and want to experience the improved comfort and security of a short cage. I find that it doesn’t matter how long your flaccid penis measures. It will comfortably fit in a very short cage.

Those of us who have been doing this a while and who like to experiment, have discovered that we were wrong in measuring the length of our flaccid penises. It doesn’t matter what you measure. When you’re soft try compressing your penis. You can get it down to just a little bump. It’s designed to be very flexible and easy to compress.

It turns out that the only critical dimension when ordering a device is the diameter of the base ring. Otherwise, just get the shortest length you can. You’ll fit. Don’t believe me? Invest in a device like the Holy Trainer Nano. You’ll be pleasantly surprised.

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This morning I decided I wouldn’t write a post until I had something to talk about other than our lack of sleep and Lion’s lack of interest in sex. Yesterday I asked Lion at a little after 4 what his next move was in making dinner. He said things were set until about 6 or 6:15. By my count that gave us almost two hours to play. Plenty of time. As I was about to suggest he put on the blindfold I realized he was asleep. He slept until about 5. When I told him he fell asleep right before I decided to play with him he wondered why I waited so long in the day to play. Well it wasn’t too late. We had a window of almost two hours.

Anyway, today I made sure we didn’t get sidetracked. A little while after lunch I gave him the blindfold. He actually turned off the TV. That’s surprising. Lion’s TV is equivalent to my iPad. If he’s home the TV is on. Once he was blindfolded and in a comfortable position I brought out the new 100 pack of clothespins Lion bought a few weeks ago. Our clothespins get used to re-close potato chip bags and some of them break. Plus, we have some in the dungeon and in the camper. Our supply had dwindled. It was time for new ones.

I put the first two on his boobies. He hates that. He also hates that I call them boobies. Too bad. I’d already started to get Lion hard before I did anything. If I had any doubt about the blindfold’s power it was gone now. He was a very happy, horny boy. Thirty-five clothespins on his balls later I wouldn’t necessarily call him happier but he was still horny. And edging him was easier. (P.S. it is a bit more difficult to tell when he’s almost at the edge)

When I was all done edging him and the clothespins were off I decided to give him some oral action. He was definitely horny enough for a real orgasm even though he’d had a ruined orgasm Friday night. I didn’t take long. He was bucking at the end just to make sure I wasn’t going to stop. I had no plans to.

I will say that this afternoon’s festivities took somewhere along the lines of 30-40 minutes. We could easily have done it yesterday in the late afternoon.

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Mrs. Lion’s ropecraft.

(Friday afternoon) It’s been cold with a little snow here. We rarely experience either. Our winters are consistently between 40 and 50 degrees. It snows a bit every couple of years. This past week the temperature has dipped into the twenties at night. It’s been a bit chilly here at home. Our heat isn’t able to handle really cold weather.

When we’re home, we’ve been spending a lot of time under the covers. It’s nice to hold hands while getting warm. Yesterday, Mrs. Lion brought an electric heater into the bedroom. Tonight is Box O’Fun night and it should be warm enough to play. If I don’t feel like playing or edging, for that matter, Mrs. Lion is willing to call the activities off. I did that on Thursday night. I  just didn’t have the energy to do anything. Tonight I expect to be ready and willing.

She mentioned in an earlier post that instead of the Box O’Fun she might just do ball bondage tonight. I think she likes her ropecraft. She also likes my balls. Tying them up is a chance to do two things she likes at the same time.

I like it too. When they are tightly tied, when she masturbates me, they bounce up and down. It feels good when they land against my perineum. If she’s going to let me ejaculate, she usually unties them first. Sometimes all that ball bouncing is too distracting and I just can’t reach the promised land.

Friday is only the fourth day since my last orgasm. I know that Mrs. Lion wants to give me a treat for doing laundry, but I would prefer to wait a bit more. Lately, I’ve been less than interested until I reach the fourth or fifth day. Mrs. Lion has been tempted to give me an orgasm when she can finally get me that aroused. I miss the edging sessions.

I’m sure Mrs. Lion will let you know later today what happens tonight.