There Is something new in the lion’s den. Mrs. Lion assigned herself a punishment when she forgot that Thursday was a punishment day. If you missed it, I forgot to tell her on Thursday. She also forgot, something she almost never does, and was surprised on Friday when I confessed to missing. She decided she deserved a punishment too. I’m being waxed this weekend. She knows that I like my legs waxed as well as the rest of me. She particularly dislikes waxing my legs because it’s very difficult and she actually likes them to be furry. So, she “punished” herself by deciding to wax my legs in addition to the rest of me. I was taken aback by this.
At dinner on Friday night, I managed to get some food on my shirt. I knew that I already have five days of spanking, soaping, and corner time coming and I asked her how much would be added for this offense. I was completely surprised by her response. She said that she would let my punishment for spilling go in return for her not having to get her punishment: waxing my legs. I wanted to discuss this. It didn’t seem reasonable to me that she would have to wax my legs if she didn’t want to in the first place. In the second, since she was in charge I didn’t understand why she would offer to cancel my punishment and cancel her own.
After a couple of minutes of discussion, she said that it’s up to her and that’s what’s happening. I wasn’t very comfortable with this, but she is the boss. Yesterday, in her post, she revealed that I annoyed her by arguing about her punishment exchange. So, I have two days of spanking and soaping added to the five I already have. She was very kind to just add two.
After my spanking on Friday night (there was no soaping or corner time), Mrs. Lion unlocked me and edged me several times. Later, before settling in for the night, I asked her if she wanted me to put my base ring on. I generally do that part of the chastity device mounting process. She replied that she did not. I asked why not? She replied, new,
“Because you are with me.”
Her message was very clear. As long as I’m under her direct supervision she sees no need to keep my penis in a chastity device. She strongly implied that when I am not under direct supervision, the device will be locked on. That’s certainly sensible. It’s also a brand-new way we are using enforced chastity. Up until now the device stayed on as long as she had no need for access to the penis. It was more for me than her. Clearly, when she is with me there is no danger I will play with myself. In fact, there’s very little danger I would play with myself any time. But that’s not the point.
The point is that the chastity device is now a tool she uses to assure that she can be comfortable that my penis remains undisturbed if she is not with me. Without trying to extend the deeper meanings of this, at any level, it means the chastity device is hers and she will use it to control me, not necessarily to feed any kink of mine.
This is clearly lioness 3.0. Actually, both actions are 3.0. Yesterday, in her post, she announced that she added two more days to my five day sentence for annoying her about the punishment trade she made on Friday. She pointed out that my input was not required and she didn’t like me arguing with her.
On Friday night, she told me that she was not in the mood to spank me and would begin on Saturday. I expressed a little surprise. She interpreted this to mean that I wanted her to spank me anyway. Maybe I did. Her reaction was to get up and get a paddle. She told me to get into position and she spanked me. It wasn’t a very long spanking. She was hitting harder than usual, I think. She normally hits pretty hard so it’s a little difficult for me to report on changes of intensity unless she really dials it up. I am much more aware of how long I get spanked at this point.
She used the tenderizer paddle which always creates little spots of blood. Most of the spanking was with the flat side of the paddle. She did cover me at least once using the little points. When she was done, she complained about the blood on the paddle. I resisted making a smart ass remark. I didn’t want her to start spanking me again.
I see one small problem with her new use of the chastity device. She frequently forgets to put it on me. Under normal circumstances, I will often remind her. However, if this is now my “babysitter”, reminding her doesn’t feel right to me. Will she remember on her own? She certainly remembers to punish me. I don’t remind her. I suppose, now that she has a specific need for the device, she may take ownership of that too and will remember to lock me up.
She could use the base ring as a memory aid. On nights when she wants me locked up, she could have me put the base ring on immediately after any sexual activity we have. It doesn’t get in the way or bother me to wear. That would remind her to lock the cage on when she’s ready. Regardless of how she works out remembering, the way I think about her chastity device has changed for me.