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One of my coworkers is leaving so we had a get-together for her last night. Normally I go right home after work. Lion was left to fend for himself for dinner. It wasn’t a problem. There’s plenty of food in the house. Lion wondered when I’d be home. (He gets lonely.) I stayed about an hour and headed home.

We watched TV and didn’t snuggle. We did hold hands for a long time. When it was time for bed Lion remarked that we hadn’t snuggled and joked that it must have been my night off. I thought that holding hands, while arguably not as close as snuggling, counted for something. I wasn’t on my iPad. Lion was kidding about snuggling. But I know he really likes the closeness.

I started to wonder this morning how other couples similar to us interact on a daily basis. They also have chores to do, work, friends, etc. Does one watch TV while the other reads? Are they on the same couch somehow touching? Are they in separate rooms? Is one out with friends? Do they play every night?

I guess some of these questions could be answered if there was a Federation of Kinky Couples with meetings every third Wednesday of the month. Similar to the Lions Club, if you will. Maybe Lion is onto something when he’s looking for some sort of club or organization where we could meet like-minded people. For the moment all I can do is ask you to comment on this post. It’s an informal poll.

I’m not railing against snuggling or playing every night. I’m just curious.

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My dry spell ended as suddenly as it began. Tuesday night I found myself responsive to Mrs. Lion and got hard soon after she started playing with me. That, of course, isn’t unusual. However, when she masturbated me in earnest, my excitement kept rising and didn’t just stop as it has been. My arousal grew until I reached the edge and then Mrs. Lion stopped.

She soon started again and this time kept going. I had a great orgasm. It was as though all those days of being stuck never happened. I have no explanation for getting stuck and returning to normal. I tried to explain it by associating Mrs. Lion demonstrating control (making me wear panties one day and a diaper the next). But I don’t think that is the entire explanation.

I’ve gotten suggestions that the problem is hormonal and I should get a testosterone test. The fact that the problem had a sudden onset and an equally sudden end. That’s not how hormonal problems generally manifest. There are situational possibilities. I had a rather poor reception of a presentation. That’s a real possibility. We had retreated from our usually active play time. That could be a factor.

Maybe our involvement with male chastity and FLR makes us take things too seriously. Perhaps being under a sexual magnifying glass makes every little glitch look much bigger than it really is. It could be as simple as that. Who knows?

There’s no question that Mrs. Lion’s actions helped me. I’m sure of that. But it doesn’t feel like they clicked a switch. I may be wrong. Maybe the effects of her actions were so subtle I couldn’t feel a causal relationship. Regardless of what brought me back, I’m glad to be home again.

 

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Lion was in diapers all day yesterday until about 4:30 when he asked if he could take a shower. I gave him permission and told him he was done with diapers for the day. I think he’d gone through four or five.

When I was in the shower later on, I thought about pegging him. Maybe that would snap him out of his slump. But he’d spent the day in diapers so pegging didn’t seem like too much fun for him. It had been a while since his balls have been tied up and bondage always sets his heart aflutter. I grabbed a rope on my way to the bed.

I separated his balls with the rope and tied them up. For some reason I got him lopsided. One ball looked so tiny in its loop I wasn’t at all sure I hadn’t missed it, but it was there. No matter. The effect was the same. He had bouncing balls as I jerked him off.

I wasn’t surprised when he got hard almost immediately. Between bouncing balls, tickling balls and squeezing them lightly, he didn’t stand a chance. I got him to the edge at least twice. I was debating whether I should let him come or leave him hanging. On one hand he’d been waiting for over a week. That’s been his average for the year. On the other he’d been in a slump. He can’t possibly be all that horny if he’s in a slump, right?

Lioness logic doesn’t always match up with general logic. Good thing I’m the one who makes the decisions. Lion certainly didn’t argue when I decided to give him an orgasm. Sometimes he questions me, but I think he was just happy to be out of his slump. I’m happy too.

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No matter how hot the stimulation, I just can’t get over that hill.

Monday night, after a day in panties and encouraging signs of life in my penis, nothing, not even the Magic Wand, could bring me to the edge. Yes, I got hard and it felt good, but not good enough. This is exactly what happened last week when Mrs. Lion tried to edge me. This is really disappointing. I’m stuck. This has happened a couple of times before over the last four years. When it does, eventually we work it out.

Some people consider this a good thing. It’s almost the ideal state for a chaste male. He has the ability to get erect which permits him to provide sexual service and an available erection to torture without the risk of making a mess. It truly depersonalizes the penis. It’s now useful to its owner (not the male) and completely unrewarding to the male carrying it. I don’t want to be that way and I know Mrs. Lion isn’t a fan of it either.

I have no idea what causes this condition. It it were a food, we could make a chastity pill. Just think, feed your male one a day and he loses the ability to ejaculate. He still gets aroused and hard, but no matter how hard he tries, no orgasm. From a fantasy perspective this sounds very cool. The reality is something else.

As I think back, I’ve been stuck before in the distant past. In one case, my partners told me that women have similar issues at times. Arousal just stops at a specific point. It doesn’t go away with continued stimulation, but it refuses to continue to climb to orgasm. This isn’t unlike a car trying to climb a snowy hill. It gets a good start at the bottom and surges up the slippery slope. As it climbs, it goes slower and slower until it stops and starts sliding back down. That describes my male version of being stuck.

In the past, being stuck disappeared as suddenly as it arrived. There was no warning. The snow melted enough for me to get to the top. There’s no way to predict the thaw. Frustrating!

I tried a boner pill. All it does is make it easier for Mrs. Lion to get me hard. After that, no matter what she tries, my erection just stands there while I get more and more frustrated. She doesn’t like me to be frustrated this way. I think she blames herself. It isn’t her fault. Also, while I am aroused by wearing panties and diapers, that’s not the root cause of my problem. They turn me on and make the erection easier to achieve, but I’m still stuck.

I’m sitting by the side of the road hoping for that road to thaw.

Guess what? We had a late thaw last night. After I wrote this post, Mrs. Lion brought out her deicer. As suddenly as it began, I became “unstuck”. She tied up my balls and went to work. She edged me a couple of times and then brought me over the top. Go figure!