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Lion was the perfect gentleman yesterday. Except for a few times he was snarky to me. But that’s OK because I snarked right back at him. When we met up with friends he was well-behaved. There really was nothing to complain about anyway.

He also had nothing to complain about in the bedroom last night. When we first started snuggling, he said he was losing interest. I told him I could fix that. Lion can almost never resist my mouth. And he couldn’t last night either.

I got him right to the edge several times. I was trying to decide if I should give him an orgasm. Since we haven’t been doing anything lately, it seemed rational to just edge him. On the other hand, we both like his orgasms. Ultimately I decided to give him a slow buildup to orgasm. It might just be the thing that gets us back in the swing of things.

Today we’re wandering around the area while our friends go whale watching. It’s a beautiful area. We’re on the island with a few more islands around us. Lion is looking forward to taking some pictures. He loves landscape photography. Later on we’ll meet up with our friends for dinner. And after that?

I don’t normally have plans for Lion at night. Sometimes I’m leaning toward spanking but I change my mind when we start the festivities. Really, it’s more of a spur of the moment thing. It really depends on our mood. Mostly my mood, but if Lion isn’t in the mood, that drives it too.

So we’ll play it by ear. I’d like to do something tonight, but since I gave Lion an orgasm last night, he may not be interested tonight. And that was a consideration last night when I was deciding whether he should have an orgasm or not. It’s not like he can’t be interested but the odds are against it. It’s my job to convince him.

One thing that might help is that yesterday I had a twinge of horniness. He was excited when I told him about it. He wondered why I didn’t say something. It was just a twinge. It wasn’t anything I would have knocked him down and ridden him for. But it is good news. Maybe my interest is on the uptick. We’ll have to keep an eye on it.

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In: Female led relationship with discipline, Lion's Journal

We’ve arrived at our campsite. I’m writing this after dinner on Friday night. Our trip was uneventful other than Mrs. Lion growling at some other drivers. The RV park is nice and we connected with our friends. It is good to see them again. I don’t think that either of us is exhausted by either the trip or the chores of setting up our trailer. It’s cool (65 deg. F) and pleasant outside.

Mrs. Lion informed me that so far I have been cheerful and friendly. I’m following her orders. I’m also having a lot of fun. Having a full time job takes a lot of worry off my shoulders. Tonight may be the new beginning of our play.

Even though we “fell off the wagon,” so to speak, neither of us forgot our commitments to FLR and enforced chastity. As you may have read, over the last months we have had our ups and down’s with what Mrs. Lion calls play. Our down’s have been caused by my lack of interest or her lack of energy.

My interest drove the first year or so. Over that period, Mrs. Lion found and supported the real benefits we get from FLR and enforced chastity. We agreed that these practices have become a permanent part of our lives. So, what happens when our activities drop off?

You might assume that if our interest in activities like spanking, teasing, and other BDSM stuff drops, then our chastity/FLR lifestyle also stops. For a while, that’s what I thought. But as I reflect on the last few months I realize that even when we think we are slacking off, things really haven’t changed all that much.

I’ve been wearing the chastity device. I may not have wanted teasing or orgasms as desperately, but the device was where it belonged. My rules have been in place. I may have “missed” a few spankings, but the offenses were generally noted. Mrs. Lion continues to make many decisions for us both. Sounds like we are still practicing enforced chastity and FLR.

What we didn’t do is consistently enforce rules. I didn’t get BDSM play very often. I didn’t want it. I got the same number of orgasms I have when we are very active. It’s true, my obedience wasn’t tested or exercised as much as we might have liked. But Mrs. Lion made sure I obeyed as she wished. The bottom line startled me. We are consistently practicing enforced chastity and FLR even when we think we aren’t. That is very good news to me.

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We are headed to a peninsula. The RV park is right on a bay. I think all but one of our trips this year is on water. But that’s not what you came here to read.

We went out shopping for Lion clothes last night. We were tired and didn’t play. Somehow we’ll get back on track. I now owe Lion another round of swats for spilling food on his shirt. He’ll definitely get them this weekend.

I think I’ll have Lion wear the shock collar for at least part of the weekend. That way I can let him know of he’s misbehaving. Not that I think it will be a problem. He’ll be fine. I just like the idea of being able to zap him for my own amusement.

Since we haven’t been playing, we’ve fallen behind on Lion’s all-you-can-come buffet. I don’t know if it’s possible for us to catch up, but we can sure try.

I’m looking forward to getting back in the swing of things. I hate when we’re both too tired to do anything. We haven’t even been snuggling. This weekend ends that.

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We’re off on another weekend trip. This time to the shore of the Puget Sound. We are meeting a group of friends at the RV park. I’ve wanted to visit this area since we moved to the Northwest. It’s in the area of the San Juan islands. This part of the world is one of the most unique and beautiful. I look forward to seeing it.

Last night, play and sex took a backseat to other needed activities. For one thing, I need some chinos for my new job. This is the first time since we moved west that I shouldn’t wear jeans to the office. Oh, well; it’s worth it. Almost every company here has absolutely no dress code. Shorts, t-shirt, and flip-flops are completely acceptable business attire. My new employer has a booklet outlining proper dress and grooming. It’s entertaining reading. Obviously this company is not based up here. For the record, there is no prohibition of chastity devices in the workplace.

Equally obvious, my mind is not on enforced chastity or FLR. It’s true that Mrs. Lion spanked me on Wednesday night. Yesterday was punishment day and at dinner I spilled salad dressing on my shirt. By the time we got home, we were too tired to care. What’s happening now isn’t all that different from what happens to other couples when day-t0-day stuff gets in the way of sex. I’m just as tired as Mrs. Lion and very happy to skip the discipline and teasing.

That concerns me. It’s all to easy to let all the work we have done fade into the background.  It’s a slippery slope. Of course it isn’t too late. We can agree that we won’t let “other” things get in the way of our FLR and domestic discipline. It’s hard to to do this with so many powerful distractions, especially when we both agree to postpone activities. We are both at fault. We will see if we can come up with a way to get back on track and prevent this from happening again.