Saturday Night’s Alright for Edging
I’m still a little surprised when Lion says he doesn’t really want to play right now. I think what happened this time around in his unemployment is that we both jumped fast forward to the worry part. Last time it took us a while to get to the doom and gloom. I think we’re both envisioning that same 6+ month wait. It may be even worse with the recruiter and hiring manager practically telling Lion they want him, but he just has to wait a week. And then another week. And, oops, another week. It’s no wonder he feels like they’re stringing him along. I’m trying to remain optimistic, but I swear, if they don’t give him some good news soon, I may have to load up my paddles and start whomping people.
On the good news side of the world, our manscaping technique seems to be working. We’re seeing less hair in most areas. As a matter of fact, the hair I do see is gray and the Bella Flash won’t remove gray hair. Those areas will continue to require shaving. This afternoon we’re due for another round of hair removal. I may have to try the Bella Flash on myself. Who wouldn’t want to have to shave less often?
Lion was wild for a little over a day. He got to pee standing up and enjoyed a vacation from the cage. I got to grab him whenever I felt like it and I didn’t have to unlock him to edge him last night. At first he didn’t seem like he would respond. Then I got him interested. I know he finds it difficult to resist my mouth, so I decided to edge him orally. As much as I wanted to make him come, I was good. I stopped just short. Very short a few times. I know he wanted to me continue. I know he thought I would at least once. Sadly, for Lion, I didn’t. And the cage went back on by bed time. No more wild Lion.
He will be unlocked later for his manscaping and more fun tonight. Even if we just snuggle, it’s nice to have easy access to Mr. Weenie. Lion likes that too.
Slumpy
Saturday was uneventful. We went shopping for food. We napped. As of 8pm Saturday night I’m still wild (no chastity device). Not exciting at all around here. Even the weather is cloudy and cold. One thing will probably change before long, I expect that Mrs. Lion will have me locked back up soon.
In her post yesterday, she mentioned that she may want to play with me in the sling. As of now, that idea isn’t very appealing to me. I just don’t feel very interested in BDSM. I realize that this doesn’t make for a very interesting post, but it is my status as of Saturday night. All this could change today. Maybe I just need more rest. I probably need to resolve the job situation before my head gets back into the game. Today is supposed to be sunny. If it is, we have some work to do on the lawn mower. Don’t we have exciting lives?
It isn’t that I don’t want sex. If I am turned on for a while, my interest in anal penetration and other uncomfortable play will probably return. No promises, but it’s possible. My feelings won’t be hurt if we don’t go there. I do hope that there will be some edging though. It might wake me from my slump. I don’t know. Stay tuned.
New Things and Old Things
We were both tired yesterday. Lion had been awake a lot on Thursday night. I just didn’t sleep well. By Friday night we were both too tired to do anything. I unlocked Lion even though we weren’t going to play. I left him wild all night. I doubt that had anything to do with his restful night, but we both feel a lot better than we did yesterday.
Lion’s assignment the other day was to check out the local community center. We’ve lived here for a long time and neither one of us has set foot in the place. I knew from the website that it had certain amenities, but, as you know, the internet can be deceiving. Lion’s old fart pass gets him access to exercise equipment, the gym, an indoor walking track, and the pool. My intent was to get Lion out of the house so he would meet people. I should have known he’d suggest we can go together. Foiled by my own evil plan.
The pool does pose an interesting problem for Lion. The cage will show. If he really does want to use the pool and I’m working, he’ll need permission to use his emergency key. Do I grant him access to that key on a day by day basis? If he emails that he’d like to go to the pool and I’m not able to answer right away, does he miss out on a day of swimming? Should there be an “exercise” clause? These are not insurmountable issues and I’m sure we’ll work them out. I’m just glad the opportunity exists for him to use the facilities, even if he does want to drag me along too.
I think Lion is about due (he’ll probably say overdue) for a stint in the sling. He hasn’t had anything up his ass in weeks. And a nice spanking might help his mood. He keeps reminiscing about when we first met. Maybe that trip down memory lane will yield a good old fashioned play session – after I learned how to spank, of course.
Unpopular
In her post yesterday, Mrs. Lion commented that my taste in ice cream and pizza are, well, vanilla. It’s true that I usually prefer vanilla ice cream. In fact, so does everyone else. It is the most popular flavor. It’s also the base for almost every other ice cream flavor, like chocolate. As far as pizza goes, don’t get me started. The original pizza, made in Naples, Italy, is none other than the Margaretta. This delight is crust, tomato, cheese and some fresh basil; no bacon, baby back ribs, salami, or chocolate ice cream on it. It’s clear that she an I have very different tastes, at least in food.
If we want to look further, you will find we don’t like the same TV shows, movies, theater, etc. We come from very different backgrounds; mine urban, hers rural. If it weren’t for the Internet, we never would have met. In fact, the main reason that pretty much everyone involved with enforced chastity came to learn of it via the Internet. In the dark ages before the Net, there were very few ways to learn about kink. If you were lucky enough to live in a big city, and you read the “underground” newspapers, you would have seen ads for kink organization meetings. By attending you would have learned about various kinks. However, to my knowledge, these meetings didn’t discuss or demonstrate enforced male chastity.
There is a good reason for this: Very few people are interested in doing this particular activity. There are two big “problems” with enforced chastity: For one thing, it is long term. Most D/S activity lasts a few hours to days at most. The vast majority of kinksters don’t want to make a full time commitment to their preferred activities. Enforced chastity expects a long term commitment and physical confinement of the penis. While the idea may be exciting to a lot of people, few are ready to actually do it.
The advent of the Web and search engines facilitated discovery of enforced chastity. I found it via a random search. I don’t remember what it was, but it turned up a site with lots of writing about male chastity. The idea and the hardware turned me on. Even with search, there isn’t much interest. For example, the term “spanking” or “spank” came up with over 11 million searches a month. “Chastity”, “chastity belts” and similar terms, on the other hand, yield less than 200,000 searches, less than 2% of spanking searches.
What this means is that our kink is largely unknown and unsearched. I think this will change over time. More and more mainstream media will take notice of enforced chastity and write about it. People who never even considered there is such a thing as enforced chastity will exercise their curiosity and read about what we do. Some will keep reading about the practice. A few will get a device and try it; and a small fraction of those people will add enforced chastity to their lives.
We’re having fun even if we are unpopular.
