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The dog has been an absolute beast lately. She keeps jumping on Lion and scratching him with her long nails. I bought a contraption that holds dogs for breeding. Supposedly, it holds them for grooming too. The problem is getting her into it. Not happening. I tried a few times and gave up. My next thought, now that we have our tools and hardware supplies back, is to put eyebolts in the ceiling so I can rig up some sort of pulley-like thing to suspend her in mid-air so I can trim her damn nails. I don’t think she can go to a groomer. I’m worried she’d bite someone because she’s so afraid.

Anyway, the dog spent a good portion of late afternoon into evening on her leash hooked to one doorknob or another. That afforded us the chance to play. I grabbed the Magic Wand. Sometimes, Lion reacts right away. Mr. Weenie shoots to attention. Sometimes, he doesn’t. I wasn’t sure if it would work last night. I kept going, though. I’m no quitter. Eventually, I got him to the edge. And then to the edge again. I was torn between just edging him or going for an orgasm. I figured, since I edged him a few times, an orgasm seemed like a good idea. I think Lion enjoyed it. The problem was, no cream filling. Phooey!

Lion has been doing the electronic Kegel exercises faithfully every morning. We thought they were working. Maybe they are. I guess you can’t expect fireworks all the time. We both thought edging would definitely help. You know, priming the pump. Nope. Oh well. I guess we have to keep trying. Poor Lion. It’s tough being the subject of an orgasm experiment. But I think he’ll soldier on.

What a guy!

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Lion loves having his balls tied up. He loves having pretty much anything tied up. Last night, I obliged him. Ultimately, I knew he was looking for oral sex, but you have to start somewhere. I don’t know if he saw the rope first, but I started off massaging my balls and my weenie. I pulled on my balls and told him I’d be tying them up. Once I had his and my weenie’s attention, I tied them up. Normally, I tie them tightly and use all of the rope to do it. However, this time I wanted some left over for a tether. When I had Lion stretched out across the bed for oral sex, I wanted to be able to pull his balls. He likes when my fingers wander toward his crack. The balls have to be out of the way for that.

When he stood up to reposition himself, I was happy to see my weenie was still at full attention. I guess tying him up worked very well. Unfortunately, I thought I lost him once we got going. He was fine for a while, but then seemed to fade. I stopped to ask if he was done and he said it felt good. That didn’t really answer my question. There are many times he can’t go any further, but it still feels good. They are two mutually exclusive things. I decided he would tell me if he wanted to stop.

I’m torn between giving him an orgasm and teasing him. On the one hand, I should be making him wait longer. I mean, he has been waiting longer but not because I’ve been teasing him. I haven’t been as attentive as I should be. On the other hand, there’s the matter of his semen production. He’s been using the electronic Kegel exerciser and we want to find out if it’s helping. The only way to do that is for him to have an orgasm. Oh darn. Lion needs another orgasm. What will we do?

Of course, I gave him the orgasm. But I edged him once. I think he thought I was just going to leave him hanging. Sometimes I only edge him once. It depends on how long it takes him to get there. It also depends on how I’m feeling. My arms were pretty tingly, but there was no way I was stopping until I had some Lion cream filling. It may not have been much, but it was tasty. I think the electronic Kegel thing is working.

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I’m back to this grip. It worked in the past, and it’s doing fine now.

Lion and I have been playing dueling music. I turn mine up so I can just barely hear his. When his is quiet, I worry mine is too loud so I turn it down until his gets louder again. I’m not sure he even hears mine at all. Don’t worry. That’s not the most exciting thing going on.

I snuggled close to Lion last night. As usual, he didn’t give me any indication if he was horny or not. Sometimes he tells me he doesn’t know. How can he not know? I mean, if I’m close and I’ve been letting my hands wander, even if it isn’t down toward my weenie, he should be able to tell if anything is happening. Am I wrong? Maybe we need some clarification. I guess he could know if he’s horny if he feels it independently of my ministrations. If he doesn’t know if he’s horny, he may be arousable. That’s actually what happens when he gives me an orgasm. I’m not horny, but I can have an orgasm if he tries. I won’t say it works one hundred percent of the time, but it can work.

[Lion — I don’t ever remember it not working. Maybe I should go back to giving her orgasms.]

Similarly, I can’t guarantee that Lion will respond if I use all the weapons at my disposal. I could tie him up, put clothespins on his balls and suck my weenie, and he could still not be arousable. The worst, I think, is when he’s horny but not arousable. I don’t know if that means there’s some underlying reason (a nagging thought or he’s starting to feel sick and doesn’t realize it yet) or maybe I’m just not doing enough to get his motor running.

I did get his motor running last night. It didn’t take that much either. I used my hand. I don’t think he prefers my hand now. I’m just glad it works for him again. For a long time, my hand was almost his sole source of release. From time to time I’d use my mouth. I didn’t think I could tease him with my mouth. When I sucked him, he was pretty sure he’d have an orgasm. Then my shoulders hurt too much to jerk him off. I guess my grip changed and it didn’t really work for him anyway. So I switched exclusively to my mouth. Lion wasn’t upset. He loves when I suck him. Me too! I get all the Lion cream directly.

I’m not sure why I tried using my hand again. I think Lion requested it. The change I made was moving to his side of the bed. I sit on the edge of the bed and that angle seems to work for both of us. I wind up using my right hand and, even though I’m teetering on the very edge of the bed, it’s a more comfortable position. My grip works better for him. My shoulders don’t hurt. Everyone wins.

To Lion’s dismay, I only edged him last night. He was ready for more. I got him so close he was sure I’d let him come. Nope. I told him he’d have more fun tonight. He hopes he’ll be horny again tonight. Well, yeah. Me too. My weenie was nice and hard. I’d like a command performance.

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Lion was surprised when I gave him an orgasm the other night. I can understand why. He normally waits longer. We also hadn’t done much since his last orgasm. I spanked him, but I hadn’t touched him beyond that. I’ve been fairly adamant about not giving him an orgasm until he’s “suffered” at least one night of edging. However, I would like his wait times to reduce. And I had that ridiculous idea of the twelve orgasms of Christmas. He’d been waiting eight days, and it was already December 14th. I’m behind!

I don’t know how many orgasms he’s had this month. We aren’t going to make it to twelve before, or even after, Christmas. I’m not sure we could have even if we started on December 1st. Lion’s refractory period is longer now, and even when he’s ready, there’s no guarantee things will go as planned. I was just being silly. I normally give him a Christmas orgasm, either Christmas eve or Christmas night. And he usually gets a New Year’s orgasm, either ringing out or ringing in the year. In the past, he had orgasms both nights. Of course, in the past, he had orgasms every night anyway. That’s when he was spoiled.

I know. Sometimes he acts spoiled. He wants things when he wants them how he wants them. The truth is, he used to get more than he does now. It wasn’t a conscious effort on my part to deny him. I mean, edging and denial are all part of male chastity, so in that regard, I made a conscious effort. But in the past year or so, at least, he’s gotten far less spoiled. That’s the part I didn’t do consciously. I think I’m burned out. I don’t want to blame too much on COVID, but between trying to stay safe from that, Lion’s diminished ability to help around here, and stress from work, I’ve been very lax. For some reason, getting past inertia is getting more and more difficult. And now it’s the end of the year, which always sucks. And today is the first anniversary of my mother’s death. Sorry. This didn’t start as a “poor me” post.

Lion should be able to have at least two more orgasms by the end of the month. There are fourteen days left. We can do this. Let’s tie up those balls and get to work.