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Today we’re getting back to normal. We’re both less achy so maybe we didn’t have such bad side effects. However, I was just reading something about people experiencing side effects starting seven to ten days after the vaccination. I guess we’re not out of the woods yet.

In a little while I have to take Lion for his blood test to see if he has low testosterone. If he does, apparently there’s a fix for it. Any other problem and he might not be so lucky. According to a comment from Julie, what he needs is a vibrator up his ass. I know we don’t have the one she’s talking about, but I think we have some sort of vibrating probe. I don’t exactly know where it is right now, but I think it’s intending for prostate massage. We got it when I was trying to milk him. It might be worth a shot.

I know his last punishment spanking didn’t provide any encouragement for an orgasm. It’s not really supposed to but thinking about punishment spankings turns Lion on. He’s just not turned on during the actual punishment. So my theory is that he might be feeling his sore buns and reminiscing while I’m sucking him. Hence the idea that it might help things along. But it didn’t. So I guess I didn’t affect anything by not punishing him for forgetting the coffee pot this morning. I know. He didn’t feel well yesterday. His legs were achy and it was very hard for him to maneuver. And that’s why I didn’t enforce the coffee pot rule. I also got his pills for him last night when he forgot. I’m not heartless.

He’s been doing pretty well with the treadmill too. He didn’t use it Monday, but we’d walked quite far through the hospital to get our vaccinations, so that counted. Obviously he didn’t use it yesterday. I’m not even sure he could have made it to the treadmill, much less walk on it. And he’s already been on it today, with a little more walking to get his blood test. Plus, we haven’t really discussed how often he’s trying to use it. I know he wants to start out slow. That makes very good sense to me. You can’t go from being a couch potato to running the Boston marathon overnight.

Assuming we feel alright, we’ll get in some other exercise tonight and see if I can’t entice that orgasm out of him after all.

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Most people think that male sexual problems are limited to failure to get hard. Female sexual problems are usually thought of as a failure to achieve orgasm. There is a male version of that, too, male anorgasmia or delayed ejaculation. I never understood what delayed ejaculation meant. From my male perspective, I ejaculated when I had an orgasm. I imagined that delayed ejaculation meant that if I had it, I would emit semen sometime later, like after I got dressed. Well, that’s not it.

For reasons I’ll never understand, pop culture associates orgasms with females and ejaculation with males. I’m not too fond of that. Believe me. I don’t go, “Wow! I had a great ejaculation, baby.” I don’t care very much about the fluid output. It’s how I feel. That’s an orgasm.

Anyway, male anorgasmia is about coming. I have it. Mrs. Lion can get me very hard, and I have a great time while she sucks me until I don’t. The feeling of arousal fades away, and I get soft. It isn’t very pleasant.  Apparently, there hasn’t been much research on this problem. I know that some work has been done on female anorgasmia, but very little on the male version. As far as I learn, if the problem isn’t due to low testosterone, there is very little else to do. One small study found a Parkinson’s drug cures it in about half the men tested. That’s encouraging, but the study was on only 50 men. I can’t find any other research.

The drug has significant side effects in many people, and the dosage has to be slowly increased until it reaches the effective level in the bloodstream. Still, if my problem isn’t testosterone, I will push to try it. My primary care physician is an internist and is only willing to check hormone levels. If it isn’t a deficiency, then I will need to see a urologist.

I feel that many people, male and female, don’t think this is a serious problem. You would if you got horny and hard and couldn’t come. It’s not the same as male chastity. That’s a game the ends eventually in a nice orgasm. This doesn’t. Mrs. Lion thinks that eventually, I will have an orgasm. I might. That would be great but wouldn’t make up for all those times I got really excited and then wasn’t excited. [Mrs. Lion — I never said eventually he’ll have an orgasm. I’m hoping. What I said was I’m not giving up unless there’s nothing we can do about it. And even then I might keep trying.]

That’s very different than edging. Edging is super exciting. I’m stopped short of an orgasm. But I’m left hard and panting. With anorgasmia, I’m left soft and unexcited. Let’s see what happens (or doesn’t) next.

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Lion and I managed to get the COVID-19 vaccinations. We’re lucky we did because now the vaccine is in even shorter supply. We heard that the side effects after the second shot were worse than after the first. So far, we only feel a little achy and tired. I don’t think either of us has a fever, although I’ve been a little colder than normal. I guess we lucked out.

We were going to Costco today after I’m done with work, but I’m not sure we’ll make it. I think we might just hunker down and snuggle in bed. I’ve got homemade chicken soup defrosting for dinner. Lion says chicken soup is a cure-all. I just think it’s something to eat that I don’t have to put a lot of effort into. I’m sure the snuggling will be a  better cure for me.

Lion talked to his doctor about his inability to orgasm. IThe first step is blood tests, so as soon as we can make the trip to Costco we’ll stop for his blood tests. I guess it’s not likely there will be an easy answer. I’m still hoping he can just take a prescription and every thing will be hunky dory. My fingers are crossed. I don’t miss sex because I don’t want it. If I wanted it but couldn’t have it, I think it would drive me crazy. I think the same is true of Lion.

HThat said, there’s no way I’m giving up until I have concrete proof there’s nothing we can do about it. Aside from tonight, if we both still feel yucky, we’ll go back to trying for an orgasm every night. No, not an orgasm every night. I don’t want to scare Lion. We’ll try every night for an orgasm. Once I get one out of him, I hope things will return to normal. Then I can take one whenever I want.

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What do you like to see? What do you like to show? The answers to these questions reveal some major gaps in the way we behave. Since the Web is reasonably anonymous, many people, including me, feel safe showing anything. I go through periods of imagining that our readers want to see my genitals or butt. Other times, I think about what I want to see and realize that I’m not particularly interested in seeing other men’s junk. Nothing is exciting about seeing a guy model a chastity device. Yet, many men make a closeup of their encased penises their profile pictures.

I admit that there is a sort of naughty thrill in showing you my nether region. I haven’t gotten any feedback that these images are particularly interesting to women or men who read our blog. I have to assume that the reader’s reaction is either negative or neutral. Too bad. I do feature my rear end when I show you paddles and other spanking implements. This is because it gives you a realistic idea of the tool’s size relative to where it is used.

We’ve been around for a while, and our site is listed as “adult,” so there is little risk that anyone would be shocked. I think showing a male chastity device locked on a penis is useful to illustrate fit and finish. Pictures of empty devices are more difficult to interpret. Better yet, seeing different devices on the same penis gives good comparative data. I can’t think of any other useful reason to display my cock and balls.

Ass pictures are a little different. I think there is value in showing the after-effects of a spanking. It graphically demonstrates how effective the spanking was. Like male chastity devices, illustrating various spanking results on the same bottom gives useful comparative data. I have gotten male feedback on the apparent severity of spankings we’ve shown. To date, no female visitors have commented on them.

I like publishing images with our posts. Since our subject matter is almost exclusively my genitals and ass, there are few opportunities to show anything else. I look for cartoons and relevant lion pictures. They get old fast. So, it’s just words or more pictures of my nether regions. Any thoughts?