There’s been some confusion around here. At least, I think there has. Maybe I’m the one who’s confused. Lion’s ability to get aroused after an orgasm has taken more and more time. I proposed an experiment to see if he’d be hornier if he’s locked in a cage. We were rolling along until the dog chewed the cage. The new one is expected next Monday and the experiment will continue. In the meantime, Lion has been snoozing more and generally not that interested in sex. Until the other night, that is. He was horny then, but I digress. The lengthier refractory period means his wait times have lengthened as well. Before these issues, he waited four to ten days on average. I don’t know what his average is now, but he only had three orgasms in August. I guess that’s still within the average, but it seems low to me. Apparently, it’s not low to Lion. [Lion comments — The average from 2016 until mid-July 2020 was 6 days. Since July it has been 13 days.]
After I previewed Lion’s post for this morning, I asked if he wanted me to make him wait longer between orgasms. He said he does. What? I suppose there’s really no conflict between wanting to decrease the refractory period and making him wait longer, but I’m confused. In his previous posts, I thought he was saying he wanted to come more often. The refractory period was making him wait too long. I must have misunderstood. How long has he been unhappy with his wait times? I didn’t ask. I was trying to wrap my head around the fact that he wants to wait longer.
Since I don’t keep track of his wait times, I was thinking of dragging out the calendars that we used to signal when he would have a scheduled orgasm. I think I kept them when we moved. When I shared what I was thinking about, Lion said he didn’t think the blocks would work. He likes the idea of a dry erase board better. In either case, I’ve made a rule that it’s his job to keep that number up to date. I need to be able to look at it and know where we are in the journey. Of course, I haven’t asked how long he wants to wait so I don’t have a target in mind, but when I do I’ll have the current wait time available.
Naturally, I can make him come any time I edge him. I’m not suggesting he’s ruling the roost. But I am trying to make him happy so if he wants to wait longer, we’ll wait longer; unless I want an orgasm sooner. He said something about double-digit numbers and I jokingly told him we need to accommodate triple digits. He thought that was getting carried away. Well, you know, he has to be very careful. He said he wants to wait longer with no qualifiers. I might just take that to heart and make him wait longer than he ever imagined.
[Lion comments — I don’t want to decide how long I should wait. Mrs. Lion has had difficulty getting me to the edge until we got to nearly two weeks. When I finally made it that far, she has let me ejaculate either the first time I was at the edge or the day after. I figure it might be more fun to push it for a while. I might be sorry I asked to wait longer, but I did and now I will bear the consequences.]
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