Why do men like to see naked women, but most women shrug when asked if they like seeing naked men? I like seeing bare females. It’s not that I expect to be surprised by some new anatomical feature yet unrevealed to me. Just as women say all penises are essentially alike, so are nipples and vulvas. Sure, there are some differences. Some women have hidden inner labia (innies). Nipples and areolas vary in size and position. So what? Guys have circumcised and uncircumcised penises. Some are longer and thicker than others. Yawn.
I have to admit that when presented with picture after picture of full-frontal, sexy females, I get bored. An image like the one here is far sexier to me than seeing that woman bare-breasted. Maybe it’s the mystery of what she looks like out of that t-shirt. More likely, it is the inherent sexiness of imagining removing it for her. Ah-ha! Participation!
That may be my problem with porn and naked pictures. My attention span goes only so far when viewing other people doing what I like. A nice OTK video can get me aroused for a short while. Eventually, I lose interest. Perhaps I don’t have sufficient imagination. I’ve always been this way.
A while ago, I experimented. I found a porn video that turned me on. I got hard watching it. It’s a video of a woman teasing and masturbating a man in the shower (you can see it here). One reason it turned me on is that I’ve had several opportunities to enjoy the almost identical activity. It was easy to imagine myself in that scene. I also like that it is realistic and doesn’t emphasize a giant stream of semen at the end.
Anyway, this video ranks at the top of my porn hit parade. So, I came back a week later and viewed it again. It still turned me on. I returned after another week. This time I enjoyed it because it reminded me of my past, but it didn’t get a rise out of me. A week after that, I wondered why I saved the link. Then, this morning while writing this post, I watched the first minute or so. I liked it all over again. It didn’t get me hard, but both the man and the woman reminded me of myself and the women I did this with all those years ago.
I’ve always had a very limited interest in porn. I’ve never masturbated to it. I guess I’m odd. My masturbation, when I could do it, was always assisted by images in my head. My fantasies are almost always BDSM types of things, with me being humiliated and teased. Big surprise, huh? They are never regular sex. And yes, imagining shower sex is one of them. For the record, my shower sessions rarely ended with me ejaculating. Once clean, we finished up with fucking or oral sex. You could drown doing oral sex in a shower.
I don’t know what makes me different from all those guys who beat off watching online porn. It certainly isn’t some puritanical moral standard. As you know, I’m up for almost anything. It just doesn’t work for me. No matter how long Mrs. Lion has kept me waiting, I still don’t get much stimulation from my monitor. The same is true of sex toys. We’ve tried almost all of the masturbators on the market. They don’t seem to work for me. The single exception is our Magic Wand. Mrs. Lion can use it to get me off. Oh well.