Mrs. Lion has been thinkng about my suggestion that orgasms be used as rewards. She seems to be stuck on the idea that if orgasms are rewards, I can only have one when I do something extraordinary. I admit that I hadn’t thought that through.
Over the last three years, I’ve gotten an orgasm on average, a bit more than once a week (6 days). Recently, I’ve gotten them even more frequently. I am very happy with this state of affairs.
Saturday night, Mrs. Lion gave me a wonderful oral orgasm. I didn’t earn it by doing anything special. As I look back on the day, there really wasn’t any opportunity to earn that very wonderful orgasm. I’m not sure I like the idea of tying orgasms to my behavior, after all.
That doesn’t mean it was a bad idea. It isn’t. There’s a lot more to think about if it has a chance of fitting into our lives.
Giving me orgasms are acts of love from Mrs. Lion. Is it fair to turn them into currency? It’s repurposing something we both treasure. We both have a large emotional investment in those intimate moments.
I was wrong that orgasms are the polar opposite of spankings. I thought they were because one is total joy and the other massive pain. Yin and Yang. Both are messages of love from Mrs. Lion. They are similar but not the same at all.
OK, maybe orgasms shouldn’t be currency that rewards a good boy then what should? Mrs. Lion proposed withholding edging when I’m naughty. That’s reasonable. Maybe something less extreme could be my reward.
I admit it, I don’t have a clue what that should be. Apparently, it’s much more difficult to reward me than punish me. I guess I’m spoilt. Any thoughts?