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I forgot I have to make up an hour a day at work because I left early for Lion’s doctor appointment on Monday. I had just made a mistake and was asking for help when Lion wondered what time I was planning on spanking him. I realized then it was already 4:30, but I needed to fix my mistake. Then I remembered I had to make up time. I was stuck until 5:30.

As soon as I finished repairing my boo-boo I could spank him so he could shower. He decided to put off his shower because I said I was going to slather him with lube. I was really only going to use it on my weenie, but he opted for a shower after the festivities anyway. I don’t usually take an afternoon break so I snuck away for five minutes to give him his punishment day spanking. That way he had a little while to recover. He doesn’t really need much time. It’s not like it’s a full punishment spanking.

After work, I set up the massage table. Rather than using lube, I decided to use the same oil I use for waxing. If Lion was showering anyway, he could get rid of the oil easily. I think it’s slipperier than lube too. Before I got that far, I rubbed him all over. I don’t think it did anything for him, but I liked feeling close to him. Of course I spent some time on weenie and the boys.

When I thought he was ready, I oiled up my hands. One good thing about slippery hands is that I couldn’t pinch his nipples. He hates when I do it so he was happy to have that off the table. And he was glad to have my slippery hands on my weenie.

Whether I use lube or not, I have a problem keeping my strokes even. The other day I went too slow to keep him interested. Too fast is no good either. GoldiLion likes it just right. I get caught up listening or watching for cues that he’s getting close, and I don’t realize I’ve sped up or slowed down. I must have been doing something right because he had a nice orgasm. He even gave me some cream filling. Oil be damned, I lapped it up.

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True to form, we didn’t play last night. We got home from Lion’s appointment and I started doings things around the house. Lion watched TV while waiting for the dilation drops to wear off. Two things needed to happen that were time sensitive. Well, three, but two absolutes. I needed to get the garbage out to the curb and I needed to change the bed. Obviously, I can’t change the bed with Lion in it, so that waited until he was in the shower. The third thing, that only occurred to me after I made the bed, was that it was punishment day. If I swatted him when he got out of the shower, then we couldn’t play. If I didn’t swat him, I’d be breaking another promise. So, I did what I always do when faced with a decision with no winners, I did nothing. Actually, that’s not entirely true. As I was heading to make dinner, I told Lion I was postponing his spanking to today so we could play after dinner. He told me we didn’t have to play. See? No winner.

Now, here we are on Tuesday, with a spanking due and I still haven’t played with Lion. Yes, the thought did occur to me that I can spank him after we play. That seems anticlimactic. Sort of like continuing to jerk him off after he’s cum. Why do it? That’s just mean. However, I do owe him both. Maybe I’ll spank him just before his shower. That will give him a few minutes to “recover”.

For days, I’ve been thinking about jerking him off with lube. I’ve also been thinking about rubbing the lube all over him. Of course, that’s a bit too messy if he’s just had a shower. I don’t even know if he’d like to be rubbed/massaged all over, much less with lube. We’re not really touch-feely people. I could always do it anyway. He’ll just have to suffer through having me touch him all over.

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Apparently, I have Friday-itis. I’m having a hard time remembering how to do things at work. I know I was missing certain steps so I asked the trainer to go through things with me again. Afterwards, I was able to do it on my own, but realized (after I hit send, of course) that I still missed one thing. At this point, I don’t know enough about things to know if the person I sent it to can just figure it out and go from there or if I am colossally screwing things up. I do know I have some responses back, but I’m waiting till Monday for that rude awakening. So far, my boss and the trainers are chalking things up to three of us being newbies and mistakes will happen. So far.

On the home front, I offered to cut Lion’s hair last night. He mentioned that his hair is over his ears. I haven’t cut my hair in over twenty-four years, so it’s always over my ears. Lion knew I was trying to work extra hours to make up for leaving early today. He has a doctor appointment. He asked if he looked raggy enough to warrant a haircut. He never looks raggy to me, so the haircut will wait.

When I was done with work, I brought the box o’fun to Lion for him to choose. He picked regular clothespins. Lucky. Regular clothespins are fairly easy to take. I set up the massage table and proceeded to pinch him with a bunch of clothespins. Of course, I rubbed my weenie with my unintentionally cold hands before I put any clothespins on. He wasn’t getting particularly hard so I sucked him a bit. That did the trick.

I alternated between jerking, sucking and applying clothespins. There are a few spots that are sensitive to being pinched. It’s easy to find them. I always make sure to yank on those more than the others. He definitely liked the sucking more than the jerking, but I’m at a weird angle when he’s on the massage table. Maybe tonight, after I’ve done whatever he picks out do the box o’fun, I can bring him back into the bedroom for phase two of the festivities.

Last night’s phase two was his punishment day swats. While I was playing with him, I informed him I hadn’t forgotten about that. He said he had. Too bad. If I remember, it happens. I don’t think he felt it for very long anyway.

I’m looking forward to tonight. Not so much for the box o’fun, but for phase two. I love sucking Lion.

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Is the penis pump working, or was Lion just really horny? I’m not sure, but he had a very nice, super hard weenie last night. Actually, I thought we lost it at one point. I was just about to suggest oral when he got it back. I was sitting beside him, after I’d gotten him started by snuggling and letting my hand wander. I’ve taken some of his suggestions to heart. I know I lapse into a sort of autopilot when I jerk him off. I can go too fast.

I’m always worried he’ll sneak a peek at me while I’m yanking on him, and he’ll see me staring off into space and think I’m not interested in what I’m doing. What’s actually happening is that I’m concentrating on keeping a steady, not-too-fast rhythm and listening to his noises. He makes a purr noise when it feels good. Not all the time, so I start to wonder if I’m missing “the spot”. Of course, he’s also said it doesn’t feel good when I continuously hit that spot. I must have been doing something right, because he was making his noise a lot.

He was getting close to the edge. It had been eleven days since his last orgasm. But we (I) haven’t been very successful with sex lately. Should I give him an orgasm based on time? Or should I wait because we haven’t done much to this point? He was obviously horny. Obviously, that’s a good thing and doesn’t necessarily mean he’ll have an orgasm. I stopped when he was close. He groaned. He was hoping for more, obviously. I may have gotten him closer to the edge than ever.

In the end, I wanted him to have an orgasm, so I started jerking him off again. He was up and over the edge in no time. Clearly, he’d been close when I stopped. He stayed hard afterwards. Sometimes he goes limp immediately. And I got some cream filling as a reward. Yum!