While I was making dinner, Lion was starting to feel yucky. His tummy was off and his throat was a little sore. Unbeknownst to him, I had my own battles with tummy troubles just before I made dinner. We both soldiered on and felt better after a while. Lion still didn’t feel like playing. I don’t know if he just wasn’t in the mood or the tummy troubles had gotten to him. Neither of us has been sleeping well. I wake up at random times during the night. Last night, the dog decided to bark in my ear at 3 am. I think she wanted to play.
I didn’t pressure Lion into playing. He wants me to take charge in situations like that. I’m not supposed to take no for an answer. I say, if I’m in charge, he can’t tell me not to take no for an answer. Why would I want to make him play when he doesn’t want to play? Sure, I could probably persuade him to get hard and he might enjoy himself after all, but does that make any sense? I’d much rather wait until he’s more receptive. He may not know if he can get hard on a given night, but if he starts out not even wanting to try, it’s an uphill battle.
I don’t see anything wrong with snuggling. Maybe, after a while of close contact, he might change his mind. That’s allowed. He could tell me and we’ll give it a try. No pressure. If it doesn’t work anyway, at least we had fun trying. As long as it feels good, it wasn’t a waste of time. Obviously, I’m not talking about spanking or any of the other painful things I could do to him. This is purely a weenie rubbing and/or sucking matter. It should feel good or there’s no point.
What’s going to happen tonight? I don’t know. We’ll have to see how it goes. I’m sure Lion thought everything was a go last night until he started feeling yucky. We’ll plan for the best and keep in mind that it doesn’t always go according to plan. That’s life.