We didn’t seem to have much luck last night. Lion was snoozing so we didn’t do a warm up. I thought I had him near the edge, but he said he wasn’t very close. And then he started to lose it. I’m not sure what’s going on.
I’ve wondered for a while if there’s too much pressure to perform. If the average couple has sex once a week, then trying every night may be too much. On the other hand, use it or lose it. I’m not trying to get out of any “work”. I really am trying to find the answer to the $64,000 question.
Maybe Lion needs more BDSM. I know I keep saying that. For some reason, I write about it but when the time comes to do something, I blank out and do the same old, same old. Perhaps my mantra should be: more anal, more anal, more anal. Or tie him up, tie him up, tie him up. He’d love either one and it isn’t hard to do. I don’t know why I can’t think of it when the time comes.
We’ve come to another weekend. It’s the perfect time to do things earlier. Somehow the time gets away from me like it did yesterday at work. I could set an alarm. A Lion alarm. I’ve never tried that before. It might be fun. At the tone the time will be Lion o’clock. I wonder if Alexa is smart enough to set a random alarm between noon and five. That way it would be a surprise for both of us. Otherwise I’ll set an alarm and we’ll both have to drop whatever we’re doing to have fun.
I wrote the above at work this morning. When I got home from work I wasn’t feeling all that well. I snoozed a bit after lunch and now I feel a little better. Of course, this set my plan of setting an alarm back. Maybe we’ll give it a try tomorrow.