We haven’t done anal play in a long time. At one point, I wanted to fist Lion. That turned out to be more work than I wanted to do. I did manage to work my way up to four fingers inside him, but then we stopped. Now Lion wants anal play added to our repertoire once again. I’m not committing to any long term goal. I’ll just agree to do it more often. [Lion — Maybe try for fisting again? :)]
For a few nights, I’ve been trying to shove a butt plug up Lion’s ass. We were too tired to do it until last night. I put it in just before my shower. I figured we needed to start out small. I can’t just ram a butt plug in there and peg him. The NJoy butt plug is the perfect first step. It’s small enough that it doesn’t hurt too much going in, but it has enough heft to remind you it’s in there. Plus it’s got a nifty little handle in the end for retrieval.
It’s difficult for Lion to have an orgasm with a butt plug in. Well, maybe difficult isn’t the right word. It’s uncomfortable. When he tenses up for an orgasm, the butt plug resists. It can be done. I’ve made him come with it in and it’s definitely not as enjoyable for him. Then again, most of the things I do to him are technically not enjoyable. And no, I still don’t get it.
Anyway, I sucked him pretty close to the edge before he said he didn’t think he’d get any further. Was it because of the butt plug? I didn’t ask, but it may have had something to do with it. Sometimes he doesn’t get far. I didn’t think much of it. But it bears noting that he was very hard so on some level he liked having the butt plug in. [Lion — I don’t think the plug kept me from going further. It was comfortable once it was inside. I do like it.]
Just after we were done, I removed the butt plug. It had been in for about an hour and a half. That’s a pretty good start. I’m not sure if I’ll use the same butt plug tonight and just leave it in again or if I’ll change things up. I like to keep him guessing.