Does being locked in a male chastity device change sexual performance? This is a very interesting question. It’s also a little bit broader than just wearing a chastity device. The bigger question is whether orgasm control changes male sexual performance? I started thinking about this because there is a very obvious change in my sexuality. I can be aroused almost any time, but I can’t be brought to the edge of orgasm very often or easily.
My pattern is that for the first week or so after an orgasm, I can be easily aroused and I enjoy being stimulated. However, I don’t seem able to get close to coming. Then, after that (actually sometime after seven and before 10 days go by) I become able to be edged or made to ejaculate depending on what Mrs. Lion wants to do. I could understand if I had a problem getting an erection for the first seven days or so. I don’t. It’s just that the level of arousal I can achieve is severely limited.
There’s the old “use it or lose it” concept. That idea suggests that over time, the man will lose a lot of his ability to ejaculate if he’s prevented from doing so. Maybe that’s true. Over the last four years, that’s when I started keeping track, my average time between ejaculations is just short of seven days. There were times when Mrs. Lion got me off every two or three days and others when I had to wait two weeks or more. However, my average is about seven days, both mean and median. I don’t think it’s a coincidence that my ability to be edged takes a week or so to cut in.
As men age, it takes more time to recharge the old sexual battery. Studies of sexual frequency bear this out. I don’t think this alone is sufficient to explain what’s going on with me. Over the last couple of years, my semen production has also gone down. I think this is related to the other issue. From what I understand, one of the key factors controlling the refractory period, the amount of time it takes a man to be ready to ejaculate again, seems to be tied in with the amount of semen he has available.
For example, ruined orgasms generally don’t completely deplete the semen supply. That allows the male to have several ruined orgasms right after one another until his semen supply is fully depleted. At that point, he loses his erection and the game is done. Since my supply of semen has been fairly low, I can only have one ruined orgasm before I’m done. I wonder if my small supply of semen and my apparent inability to quickly generate more is behind the seven-day delay before I will be ready to ejaculate.
In the past, I’ve had orgasms with no semen being emitted. However, in the minutes following the orgasm, some semen drips out of my soft penis. That means there was some available, but not enough to ejaculate at the time I had the orgasm.
I can’t help but wonder that if I was permitted to have more frequent orgasms, the sexual equipment would be in better shape now. There’s no way to really know. I think that there’s a very good chance that my current situation is a direct result of orgasm control. My body “learned” to produce less semen because it wasn’t needed. I could be totally wrong. However, it’s reasonable to wonder if this problem isn’t something that happens to guys who have spent years in male chastity.
What is your experience?
[Mrs. Lion — Does anyone else read this as a challenge? In all seriousness, I’m willing to do an experiment. Let’s see if I can “cure” Lion by giving him orgasms more often. It’s worth a try.]