Grocery Shopping

invisible leash remote
Mrs. Lion takes me shopping. Her invisible leash is always right at hand.

(Sunday, May 11 2014) To me one of the best signs of a healthy forced male chastity relationship is seamless integration into day-to-day living. Here is a picture (top) of Mrs. Lion with our shopping cart as we do our weekly trip to the warehouse store. The remote for my shock collar hangs loosely from her wrist. The business end – the receiver/shocker – is buried safely under my balls (bottom photo). You can see that it makes very good contact against that most sensitive spot.

So far, she hasn’t used it much. Once today, as we were walking down an isle I got a sharp zap. I looked at her, puzzled. “You interrupted me. You’re not supposed to do that.”

I had. The reminder did its job and I went silent. This device is proving very effective as a way to both “page” me when wanted and to correct me when I fail to obey either a rule or command. As of today, I only have two rules that my lioness enforces: don’t spill food or drink, and don’t interrupt. I usually get some bare bottom spanking for spilling at home, and when we are out I get zapped.

Spanking is a very effective punishment. It demonstrates my keyholder’s power and it has an after effect that can last for days. Zapping, however is very different. It’s applied while I am naughty. It’s a strong sensation and when it stops there is no after effect at all. The simple remote control allows my keyholder to vary the intensity from something I can barely feel, to one that will make me jump. She can hold the button for only a second or for 10.

The ability to vary intensity and time is a very useful training aid. If trying to correct a behavior like touching his genitals, the first reminder can be a rather mild zap. Repeated mistakes can get stronger and longer messages. The caged male determines how intense is correction will be. If he is a good boy it won’t be much at all. Repeating the offense will result in more discomfort.

shock trainer under balls
The business end of the trainer is strapped under the balls, behind the cage’s cock and ball ring. Note how the electrodes are in tight contact with my skin.

When we first considered using a training collar for male training, my concern was that the sensation would be far too mean, like a cattle prod, to be used under my tender balls. I was wrong. When we test the device, Mrs. Lion has to dial up considerably before I feel a tiny tingle. I always ask her to go up one more notch for signalling. The next notch feel a little stronger and unmistakable. If I wander off, a couple of zaps will bring me back. If I don’t move fast enough, I can expect stronger, repeated zaps until I am where I am told to be.

The hardest part of this more Mrs. Lion is the authority I want her to have. I know she doesn’t want to take charge of her lion in sexual (or any) matters. She is starting to see that it can be useful. She hates when I interrupt her. Now she has a simple, effective way to stop me from doing that anymore. She doesn’t mind if my hand wanders between my legs, so there is no correction there.

I know I should have lots of great ideas on what behaviors she may want to correct. I am embarrassed to say that I don’t. Is it that I just don’t have any bad habits? That can’t be. How many lions do you know who don’t need training?

You can help us. What requires discipline in your relationship? What male activities need the sort of conditioning and supervision this great toy provides? If you had a remote control for your male, how would you use it?

Please use the comments section, or if you want to communicate privately use Contact Us to send us a private message. Thanks! Caged Lion


  1. Author

    Really like the blog. Have a question… When I bought an invisible fence and collar for my dog, the instructions made a big deal about not using a metal collar while using the shock collar because of arching potential. Has this been an issue with your SS cage? How do you keep the electrodes from shorting on the ring?
    Thanks. Keep up the great job of sharing.

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      I’m very happy you like our blog. Thanks for the good wishes.

      If you look at the picture of the receiver under my balls, the electrodes are centered on that fairly wide block. The skin is soft down there so when the strap is hooked over the lock on my cage, the box and electrodes press gently into the skin. I’ve had no problem with the box moving at all. It seems to rest against the ring and the electrodes never get close.

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    Love your blog, because I’m in a similar boat.We experimented with a CB-2000 13 years ago and it resulted me being kept locked full time for the past 7 years inn a CB-6000S. My vanilla, demure wife has really surprised me by being a bossy Keyholder. I never thought she would when I gave her that CB-2000 for Xmas as a joke. I had no idea the device could actually work. I just wanted her to feel secure and know I would not have sex with another woman like her past live in boyfriend and previous husband did.
    I had no idea she would require me to wear it and skip my bachelor party while she was at her bachelorette party. Anyway I have one of these [shock collars – ed] and I’m kind of afraid of giving it to her as she may require I put it on before we go out anywhere. Like you I have a propensity to interrupt her and other people. I think after 13 years of marriage she thinks a chastity kept husband should be seen and not heard unless spoken to!
    With the ever expanding plethora of male chastity devices, the dog shock collar and the dream lover labs electo chastity device I can see society changing to a female led one.

    One day only the males with penises too big to fit in a chastity device will be free!

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      The collar has turned out to be a lot of fun for lioness (and for me too in a weird way). If your wife enjoys topping you, then you both will have fun with the collar.

  3. Author

    Dear Mrs Lion and Caged Lion,

    Really love your blog and lifestyle! I have been on and off with chastity but recently found myself a mature Mistress 🙂 and after reading this blog I would like to ask what is the name of the shocking collar used for training? I don’t want to get something which humans can’t handle. This is something my Mistress wants me to get. Wishing You a very happy future,


    1. Author

      Here is a post about our shock collar. It’s proven effective when Mrs. Lion remembers it.

      1. Author

        Thank you Caged Lion. I just hope my Mistress is lenient on me.

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