Things are back to normal. Mrs. Lion didn’t spank me on Monday. I was still under the weather. I feel much better. We are both waiting for the other shoe to drop. I got sick again three days after my last bout. Will I get sick again on Thanksgiving? We are both worried. I’ve resumed penis pumping. It’s an odd experience. I can see my penis growing longer and harder inside the clear tube. It doesn’t feel like I have an erection. If I couldn’t see what was happening inside the tube, I would think that something was pulling on my flaccid penis. Pumping isn’t a sexual experience for me. Mrs. Lion reports that my last sexual session produced a very erect penis. That could be caused by an urgent need to ejaculate or because the penis pump is doing its job. I wasn’t all that horny when Mrs. Lion decided to jerk me off. I’m convinced that the pumping is working.

This is only the second time that sexual hardware kept its promise to me. I’ve tested sex toys for over twenty years. During that time, there has been very little innovation in the area of male masturbators. They fall into a few categories. Most try to use vibration to get a man off. Most of us can be brought to orgasm with a strong vibrator applied to the right part of the penis. The premiere vibrator is the Magic Wand. Mrs. Lion can get me off with it.

The only other technique is to simulate sexual motion that strokes the penis the same way intercourse or oral sex works. The earliest of these devices is the Venus 2000. It was the first sex simulator that I tried. It consisted of a large case containing a vacuum pump and various controls. It worked by placing a plastic tube containing a latex sheath over the penis. The device created a realistic motion. The tube moved up and down over the penis. It took me a lot of work to make it get me off. When it did, the feeling was spectacular. The problem was the amount of time and effort to get that sensation. It cost $900. The Venus is still available for about the same price. Newer motion devices like the AutoBlow are more compact but don’t work for me.

I tried early male chastity devices. They were uncomfortable and there wasn’t any clear idea of why a man should wear one. Most of the reports from guys into this kink were about locking themselves up and then trying to escape. It was a sort of puzzle fueled by the need to masturbate. That didn’t appeal to me. Over a decade later, I chanced across some male chastity device listings on Amazon. My curiosity was fueled, and since the advertised devices were inexpensive, I decided to check them out.

I admit it. The idea of wearing a chastity device turned me on. I had no idea why, but it did. So, I bought a couple of devices and tried them. They weren’t very comfortable, but they were fun to wear. At that time, our sex life wasn’t very good. Mrs. Lion wasn’t happy about initiating sex and I wasn’t able to do it. As a result, she only got me off about once a month. I jerked off two or three times a week.

One day, an idea struck me. I figured that if Mrs. Lion would agree to be my keyholder, we could take the initiation problem away. She would keep me locked full time. Every day or two, she would unlock me and tease me. When she wanted, she could get me off any way she desired. When I asked her to do this, she agreed. I also told her that I had been jerking off. I assumed she knew that I must have been doing it. She was surprised and unhappy when I told her.

Right then and there, without any discussion of a power exchange, Mrs. Lion told me that I wasn’t ever allowed to masturbate. At the time, I didn’t think I agreed to let her make rules like that, but I kept quiet. She then locked me in a male chastity device. At the time, I don’t think she considered the chastity device as a way to train me not to masturbate. I think she expected me to keep my hands off just because she told me.

After a while, she understood that my kinky desire to be locked in a male chastity device also helped me obey her rule. Male chastity turned out to have real value in our marriage. I think that I probably would have cheated and jerked off if I weren’t locked up. I didn’t have a chance to find out. I was in a chastity device for over three years. By the time I was allowed to run wild, I lost my interest in masturbating. I think that is an amazing sex device success story.

In retrospect, I’m not particularly happy that I’ve been trained not to masturbate. It was fun and relieved sexual stress. Now, I’m totally dependent on my lioness for relief. She believes that is the natural order of things. I don’t know about that but it is part of the secret sauce that makes our marriage so successful. She wants to be the sole source of my sexual pleasure. She is.

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