Sometimes Lion doesn’t want sex. I know! That doesn’t sound right at all. It does happen from time to time. He immediately thinks he’s broken. I immediately think I’m doing something wrong. Neither of us is right. There’s just a lull in the action. No harm, no foul.
Usually, I think, lack of Lion sex drive means he hasn’t been getting enough bondage or other attention. However, last night was the night after a spanking. Admittedly, it wasn’t a great spanking. He didn’t feel it at all the next day. I blame that on the leather paddle. It’s fine for warm-up, but it doesn’t send enough of a message. I should have used the spoon-shaped paddle more. It would have made things bloodier, but he would have had trouble sitting yesterday and possibly today.
What can we do about Lion not being horny? I keep trying. Sooner or later, I’ll hit upon something he likes enough to get him hard. This is not a case of absence making the heart grow fonder. I won’t say it’s work in the sense of toiling away at it, but it is something we have to work at. It’s an I-know-you’re-in-there-you-silly-erection type of thing. I’ve just got to figure out how to coax it out. Don’t worry. I have my ways.
Lion is probably feeling selfish again. He does this somewhat frequently. He’ll feel he’s taking advantage of me. He’s not. He’ll feel sorry for himself that he can’t have vaginal sex. That one is particularly silly. He can have it. I sometimes offer, albeit rarely. He tells me not to bother because it does nothing for me. So? If it’s something I can do to make him feel good, and I’m willing to do it, shut up, and let’s go for it. If I told him his next orgasm would be vaginal, would my weenie spring into action immediately? Schwing!